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Who is the aggresive one in your relationship? Why?

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Contributor: Mrs. Tickle and Giggle Mrs. Tickle and Giggle
In our relationship, I am extremely timid, my husband is the aggressor. Are there more aggressive women in the world or are most women like me timid?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
I am the aggressor.
21  (40%)
My partner is the aggressor.
31  (60%)
Total votes: 52
Poll is closed
06/02/2012
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Contributor: Vanille Vanille
My girlfriend definitely is, being she's my Master & Dom. :3
06/02/2012
Contributor: Jake'n'bake Jake'n'bake
What exactly do you mean by 'aggressor'? Do you mean the more confrontational one, or just the one who takes the wheel most of the time?
06/02/2012
Contributor: Bex1331 Bex1331
Outside the bedroom hes certainly more aggressive but in the bedroom I always have to take the lead
06/03/2012
Contributor: Mr. Tickle and Giggle Mr. Tickle and Giggle
Quote:
Originally posted by Jake'n'bake
What exactly do you mean by 'aggressor'? Do you mean the more confrontational one, or just the one who takes the wheel most of the time?
She means in the bedroom the one who takes charge in the bedroom...
06/03/2012
Contributor: Mr. Tickle and Giggle Mr. Tickle and Giggle
Quote:
Originally posted by Mrs. Tickle and Giggle
In our relationship, I am extremely timid, my husband is the aggressor. Are there more aggressive women in the world or are most women like me timid?
I AM THE AGGRESSOR!!! Hello honey.
06/03/2012
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
Usually I'm the aggressor, but she's the initiator
06/03/2012
Contributor: Jake'n'bake Jake'n'bake
Quote:
Originally posted by Mr. Tickle and Giggle
She means in the bedroom the one who takes charge in the bedroom...
Aaah. Well then, I guess I'm picking the 'other' option. We pretty much routinely switch off - it's equal with my partner and I...
06/03/2012
Contributor: CindyH CindyH
both take turns
06/03/2012
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Quote:
Originally posted by Mrs. Tickle and Giggle
In our relationship, I am extremely timid, my husband is the aggressor. Are there more aggressive women in the world or are most women like me timid?
I am the more aggressive one in the relationship.
06/03/2012
Contributor: solitudinarian solitudinarian
We're equals.
06/03/2012
Contributor: WhoopieDoo WhoopieDoo
In our relationship, I'm the more aggressive one...even though I'm natural submissive. I have to be, or else I won't get sex.
06/03/2012
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by Mrs. Tickle and Giggle
In our relationship, I am extremely timid, my husband is the aggressor. Are there more aggressive women in the world or are most women like me timid?
My partner is more aggressive.
06/03/2012
Contributor: SMichelle SMichelle
He's most definitely the more aggressive one.
06/03/2012
Contributor: squire squire
Depends on setting. I think I'm the more submissive one until I see something I feel strongly about...then I tend to take over.
06/03/2012
Contributor: Melan!e Melan!e
Other? in our relationship, it depends on the situation..
06/03/2012
Contributor: js250 js250
Other. We both are aggressors, just at different times. We each have different strengths and areas of confidence sexually, and both of us use them to our full advantage!! He usually starts the action but I usually get the ideas happening and the toys going. He is great for starting the fantasies, I keep building on them. This makes for one heck of an amazing experience, every time!!
06/04/2012
Contributor: CutiePatootie CutiePatootie
We both are pretty dominant. Each of us about different things though.
06/04/2012
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
my husband is, but we both can be
06/04/2012
Contributor: (k)InkyIvy (k)InkyIvy
My husband is in charge in the bedroom, but outside of the bedroom, I'm the more aggressive one.
06/04/2012
Contributor: Deeder Deeder
I'd say my husband is the more aggressive one. I'm an extremely indecisive person, so even when it comes to minor things like what to eat or which movie to watch, I'd rather let him be the decision maker.
06/09/2012
Contributor: Sinfully Sinfully
Im always the submissive one.
06/10/2012
Contributor: Rory Rory
We are pretty equal in and out of the bedroom.
11/28/2012
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
My husband has been lately. My sex drive has taken a bit of a dive.
11/29/2012
Contributor: Supervixen Supervixen
He is the aggressive one in the bedroom.

Neither one of us are very aggressive people, though. I tend to be a bit more quick to anger, more intense, and more expressive.
11/29/2012
Contributor: RememberMe RememberMe
Quote:
Originally posted by Mrs. Tickle and Giggle
In our relationship, I am extremely timid, my husband is the aggressor. Are there more aggressive women in the world or are most women like me timid?
Of course it's not gonna be me, lol.
11/29/2012
Contributor: vanillaSpice vanillaSpice
My girlfriend is, but I'd like to be... we're working on things.
12/26/2012
Contributor: SavingMyself SavingMyself
My husband is also my dom so he is the aggressor.
12/27/2012
Contributor: mjtheprincess mjtheprincess
In many cases, my man is the agressor, but I think it's probably about 60-40 in our relationship =)
12/27/2012
Contributor: xocoraxo xocoraxo
Quote:
Originally posted by Mrs. Tickle and Giggle
In our relationship, I am extremely timid, my husband is the aggressor. Are there more aggressive women in the world or are most women like me timid?
My husband is the agressor/dominate one in bed but outside of the bedroom I'm very dominate and get my way

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01/05/2013