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Casual sex vs. Masturbation: when you're single and need to scratch that itch, which is more satisfying?

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Contributor: biancajames biancajames
Would you rather hookup or plug in? Both have pros and cons.
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Masturbation- effective and uncomplicated
FemmeFlo , js250 , Drakoni , MrWishyWashy , Nissa Nissa , Sublime , Allstars316 , kittychilla , B8trDude , Taylor , eak59 , aimtoplease , Sephymuffins , ss143 , Sir , Gracie , Mellifer , PrettyPurple , Diabolical Kitty , inmytoybox , dks210 , amandaco2011 , link82 , markwashere , ksparkles16 , Katelyn , (k)InkyIvy , dhig , Shellz31 , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , Llewey , Misfit Momma , oneeyedoctopus , ellejay , ddd masturbator(bye all!) , LavenderSkies , ihavenipples , Form 7 , Howells , Rin (aka Nire) , Beck , sagegirl72 , clp , padmeamidala , Nora , ghalik , Charry , kitty1949 , subwayrailings , potstickers , snowminx , twelve13
52
Casual sex- exciting and unpredictable
Ms. Spice , jc123 , authorzero , GS500 , froggiemoma , LAndJ , CaseyDeuce , Nora , ViVix
9
Depends on my mood
CreamySweet , Katelyn , xoflxokcxo , Sally Forth , Gunsmoke , Nora , MilyxXxD , sillylilkitten
8
Total votes: 69 (66 voters)
Poll is closed
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Contributor: FemmeFlo FemmeFlo
Considering the huge number of sex toys I have at my disposal, I can scratch whatever itch I'm feeling whenever I want. While I do love sex, when I tried the casual sex thing, it just got too complicated. I prefer to have a small, close circle of sex partners, or a monogamous relationship. The risk of diseases and the emotional hassle make casual sex not worth it to me.
12/04/2011
Contributor: Drakoni Drakoni
Masturbation. I don't do casual sex.
12/04/2011
Contributor: MrWishyWashy MrWishyWashy
Masturbation, MUCH less to worry about
12/04/2011
Contributor: Nissa Nissa Nissa Nissa
Quote:
Originally posted by biancajames
Would you rather hookup or plug in? Both have pros and cons.
Plug in. I've been doin' that for 5 years even when I was in a relationship, sadly.
12/05/2011
Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
hm, I personally prefer casual sex. It's nice to have that one on one contact and you help someone else out too
12/08/2011
Contributor: Taylor Taylor
I'm not really interested in having sex with someone unless I'm in a relationship with them. I'd much rather just use my toys.
12/10/2011
Contributor: aimtoplease aimtoplease
Quote:
Originally posted by MrWishyWashy
Masturbation, MUCH less to worry about
right there with ya!!
12/10/2011
Contributor: aimtoplease aimtoplease
Quote:
Originally posted by MrWishyWashy
Masturbation, MUCH less to worry about
Oops, double post, sorry :-(
12/10/2011
Contributor: Sir Sir
It's not that masturbation is less to worry about, it's more of that I have trouble engaging in intimacy with people I have no emotional ties to. I used to have casual sex quite frequently, but I no longer am interested in such things.
12/10/2011
Contributor: Mellifer Mellifer
Wow.
12/10/2011
Contributor: PrettyPurple PrettyPurple
I don't enjoy casual sex. I only enjoy it when I'm in a relationship with someone. You can have casual sex with someone who doesn't care about pleasing you. I believe that I can pleasure myself much better through masturbation than having sex with someone who doesn't put in any effort to make me feel good.
12/10/2011
Contributor: authorzero authorzero
Masturbaion loses it's appeal after awhile.
12/10/2011
Contributor: Diabolical Kitty Diabolical Kitty
Masturbation is the safest!
12/10/2011
Contributor: inmytoybox inmytoybox
Masturbation. Because I know how I like it.
12/14/2011
Contributor: dks210 dks210
Quote:
Originally posted by biancajames
Would you rather hookup or plug in? Both have pros and cons.
Masturbation. Casual sex seems like it would be too stressful, and I'd suffer from frequent existential crises as a result. Also, strangers aren't familiar with my sweet spots.
01/13/2012
Contributor: CreamySweet CreamySweet
Quote:
Originally posted by biancajames
Would you rather hookup or plug in? Both have pros and cons.
Um...Yes? I'm not single. Married but with a open hall pass to play and a husband who is both gone a lot and supportive of me getting some on the side. I very much enjoy masturbation and I am very happy using my fingers or any of my toy collection to get me off. That being said there is sometimes no good substitution for getting your fucks on and getting laid. Most of the time I am good with party of one but every so often I get a helper or two Well! Some guys get lonely if they come to play alone! Who am I to say they shouldn't bring a tall, dark, handsome big muscled friend? .
01/13/2012
Contributor: amandaco2011 amandaco2011
Masturbation, casual sex just doesn't do it for me.
01/13/2012
Contributor: markwashere markwashere
I know myself best, but sometimes the girl knows things i don't. But for the most part its masturbation...
01/16/2012
Contributor: ksparkles16 ksparkles16
masturbation...you don't have to deal with the other person. Plus there are so many toys out there!
01/23/2012
Contributor: GS500 GS500
These replies must all be women. I'm pretty sure 99% of men would take casual sex over masturbation if they could get it.
01/23/2012
Contributor: xoflxokcxo xoflxokcxo
Quote:
Originally posted by authorzero
Masturbaion loses it's appeal after awhile.
I agree. Most of the time I'll choose masturbasion, but sometimes that 'itch' needs more than a toy can give me.
01/23/2012
Contributor: dhig dhig
not a big fan of hookups theses days
01/23/2012
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
I'd much rather masturbate knowing I'm going to be fully satisfied than to go out and find some stranger to screw. If I'm having sex, I want the emotional connection - otherwise forget it!
02/07/2012
Contributor: PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
Not a fan of hookups never have been and never will be. That itch can wait till I have known someone for a long time.
02/07/2012
Contributor: Sally Forth Sally Forth
I go back and forth with this. When casual sex stops being all about getting my needs met, I switch back to solo time.
02/07/2012
Contributor: froggiemoma froggiemoma
Masturbation with ocassion casual sex was my preference when I was single.
02/19/2012
Contributor: oneeyedoctopus oneeyedoctopus
I don't have casual sex. Seems pointless.
02/20/2012
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by biancajames
Would you rather hookup or plug in? Both have pros and cons.
Masturbation
02/21/2012
Contributor: LAndJ LAndJ
I'm not single, but I think I'd feel more fulfilled with a casual hook up.
02/27/2012