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Contributor: link82 link82
Do you ever fantasize about an ex when you masterbate?
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Yes - a lot!
8  (11%)
Yes, sometimes.
10  (14%)
I have a couple of times.
31  (42%)
Never - they are exes for a reason!
21  (29%)
Other
3  (4%)
Total votes: 73
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Contributor: Kissy Kissy
I hate it! I wish I didn't!!
04/11/2012
Contributor: sexystuffeve sexystuffeve
No, I wasn't sexually atracted to him. But thats not why we aren't together anymore.
04/11/2012
Contributor: plaidvulva plaidvulva
I have occasionally, I'm not too fond of such, but it happens. I haven't done so in quite a long while (years I think), but yeah, done it before.
04/11/2012
Contributor: K101 K101
Quote:
Originally posted by link82
Do you ever fantasize about an ex when you masterbate?
Absolutely not! Not because it is wrong, but because I'm not attracted to any other male besides my partner. There's not a thing I find sexually attractive about other men and I'm glad. I don't even think of my exes and if anybody happen to pop into my head during some kind of sexual activity, I'm 100% positive that the moment would be ruined. Lol.
04/11/2012
Contributor: ksparkles16 ksparkles16
No I haven't
04/11/2012
Contributor: CollegeFun2014 CollegeFun2014
I have always been physically attracted to my exes and that has always carried over even after breakups. A physical attraction or sex life has never been the issue and the relationships have ended for other reasons. So to me it seems normal to fantasize about them since for me anyways, those are the only people I have seen fully nude besides porn stars.
04/13/2012
Contributor: lisasharrer lisasharrer
Quote:
Originally posted by link82
Do you ever fantasize about an ex when you masterbate?
yes and i think of other to
04/13/2012
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Quote:
Originally posted by link82
Do you ever fantasize about an ex when you masterbate?
A couple of times only.
04/13/2012
Contributor: WhoopieDoo WhoopieDoo
I've never had an ex
04/13/2012
Contributor: DiamondKoala DiamondKoala
Not really, I'd rather fantasize about crazier things and unrealistic dirty things. My ex's are kind of boring overall.
04/13/2012
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
Not intentionally, but sometimes things pop in my mind.. I feel guilty and a bit sad, so I try to put them out of my mind as soon as possible.
04/14/2012
Contributor: griffonc griffonc
Sometimes it crosses my mind.
04/14/2012
Contributor: sexxxkitten sexxxkitten
I'm not attracted to my exes anymore. So no.
04/14/2012
Contributor: little miss kinky little miss kinky
It makes me angry afterward, but I have done about one in particular. There was such sexual chemistry and I miss that.
05/09/2012
Contributor: Darklyvan Darklyvan
Quote:
Originally posted by link82
Do you ever fantasize about an ex when you masterbate?
yuck
05/09/2012
Contributor: lilys lilys
not a lot but evry time
05/13/2012
Contributor: Love Obsessed Love Obsessed
I do all the time.I'm not with anyone so who else am I going to think about.
05/13/2012
Contributor: sweetpea12 sweetpea12
Quote:
Originally posted by link82
Do you ever fantasize about an ex when you masterbate?
Yes sometimes, because they were seriously good looking. But sometimes thinking about them while masturbating makes me angry and or sad. So I usually avoid it
05/14/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
Not an ex, that's for sure.
05/14/2012
Contributor: ud328 ud328
Yup, she was a babe. Still is.
05/15/2012
Contributor: badk1tty badk1tty
Quote:
Originally posted by link82
Do you ever fantasize about an ex when you masterbate?
I have thought about one, and gotten annoyed at it, and thought of something else.
05/15/2012
Contributor: Undead Undead
No, never.
05/16/2012
Contributor: reinkaos reinkaos
I have many years ago, and it kinda made me feel guilty and put me in a dark place.
05/16/2012
Contributor: lisasharrer lisasharrer
Quote:
Originally posted by link82
Do you ever fantasize about an ex when you masterbate?
yes i do alot
05/16/2012
Contributor: Allison.Wilder Allison.Wilder
I do. I wish I didn't.
05/16/2012
Contributor: BadassFatass BadassFatass
I used to but it seems to have tapered off quite a bit.
05/16/2012
Contributor: theavocadopit theavocadopit
Quote:
Originally posted by link82
Do you ever fantasize about an ex when you masterbate?
05/17/2012
Contributor: theavocadopit theavocadopit
Quote:
Originally posted by Darklyvan
yuck
05/17/2012
Contributor: Two Grand Two Grand
I sometimes fantasize about my old friends and the ones that Got away, got really excited a the reunion when an lady said we should have gotten together back in High School.
05/17/2012