anal after 30 or just give up?

Contributor: Mr Dj Mr Dj
10 yrs and no luck? what's the issue?
10/23/2011
Contributor: emilia emilia
Take a break then try again
10/24/2011
Contributor: Girly Girl Girly Girl
keep trying
10/24/2011
Contributor: MrWishyWashy MrWishyWashy
Quote:
Originally posted by SexyLilPixi
Perfectly stated.
Never give up....live strong!!! LOL.
10/30/2011
Contributor: PassionCpl PassionCpl
Quote:
Originally posted by FREE MR PERRY
I am almost thirty years old and i been trying anal for ten years and I still cant get the grip. Should I give up or keep trying?
Keep trying. You know what they say, if at first you don't succeed...
10/30/2011
Contributor: pleasurehunter pleasurehunter
I'd keep trying unless you get no joy from it
11/01/2011
Contributor: ajwonder ajwonder
watch anal porn it will help you WANT to take it in the bum
11/03/2011
Contributor: Mr Dj Mr Dj
Quote:
Originally posted by ajwonder
watch anal porn it will help you WANT to take it in the bum
some ladies get grossed out of anal porn though
11/03/2011
Contributor: Lucky21 Lucky21
Just keep trying. You will get it at some point.
11/06/2011
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
Anal is sometimes tough to master and it counts on a number of factors so don't give up quite yet. Just keep trying and maybe you'll have it work out for you sometime soon. Go slow, lots of lube and stimulation and stay relaxed. Those are some key points to remember when trying anal. Good luck!
11/06/2011
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Keep trying Make sure you have a patient partner
11/14/2011
Contributor: David Troll David Troll
Quote:
Originally posted by FREE MR PERRY
I am almost thirty years old and i been trying anal for ten years and I still cant get the grip. Should I give up or keep trying?
keep trying man
11/14/2011
Contributor: levellc09 levellc09
I'm in my 30's and I'm trying anal. Nothing strange about it to me.
12/06/2011
Contributor: levellc09 levellc09
Age is just a #
12/06/2011
Contributor: MR Chickhabit MR Chickhabit
age shouldn't matter, seems to me just by thinking that you should give up you already have.


anal is a mental thing as much as a physical thing. you have to actually want it for you to loosen up.
12/07/2011
Contributor: Jammin14580 Jammin14580
Quote:
Originally posted by FREE MR PERRY
I am almost thirty years old and i been trying anal for ten years and I still cant get the grip. Should I give up or keep trying?
How often are you trying? One a year? Once a month? Weekly?

If you've only tried a handful of times in 10 years, keep at it, and do it more often. If you've tried it a lot, don't be discouraged - just try something different. Start small, use generous amounts of lube, etc.etc.
12/07/2011
Contributor: xgamerx xgamerx
Quote:
Originally posted by FREE MR PERRY
I am almost thirty years old and i been trying anal for ten years and I still cant get the grip. Should I give up or keep trying?
I say keep trying. My wife and I have been practicing for 6 years now and we're loving it.
12/11/2011
Contributor: mastersonv mastersonv
Try toys. I at first hated anal because we only ever tried to have anal intercourse and it wasn't enjoyable I wasn't able to relax or enjoy it. After trying a few toys it is totally different now I actually enjoy it! Don't ever give up on something that you have interest in just try a new way!
12/13/2011
Contributor: Sublime Sublime
Keep trying if you like it.
12/13/2011
Contributor: Lady Bear Lady Bear
you can do it!
04/16/2012
Contributor: lisasharrer lisasharrer
Quote:
Originally posted by FREE MR PERRY
I am almost thirty years old and i been trying anal for ten years and I still cant get the grip. Should I give up or keep trying?
i find i dont like it that much anymore
04/18/2012
Contributor: Istanbull Istanbull
It depends. Do YOU still want to do it?

Because that's what matters. If you want to do it, then do it. If you don't, then why are you trying?

Me, I had to give it up due to children. I have no privacy anymore to be doing it and the last thing I want is having to explain to my wife why our kids found dildos and butt plugs in my hiding spot. Alas, I had to chuck my beloved toys. Maybe some day in the future I will be free to buy new ones and make up for all the anal I missed out on. At least you still have the choice.
04/24/2012
Contributor: Clubbinseals Clubbinseals
keep going!
04/24/2012
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Quote:
Originally posted by Istanbull
It depends. Do YOU still want to do it?

Because that's what matters. If you want to do it, then do it. If you don't, then why are you trying?

Me, I had to give it up due to children. I have no privacy anymore to be doing it and ... more
Why not a locked box?
04/25/2012
Contributor: Vegan Silk Vegan Silk
if trying is fun keep doing it. if all it is doing is frustrating you, don't do it. if you enjoy some anal play but not others, I wouldn't worry about it. sex should never become a chore.
05/19/2012
Contributor: Why Not? Why Not?
Do what you enjoy doing not what you feel you need to do...
05/21/2012
Contributor: Allstars316 Allstars316
I would keep going
05/24/2012
Contributor: ginainohio ginainohio
keep trying
08/26/2012
Contributor: Boyfriend Boyfriend
keep trying
08/26/2012
Contributor: roskat roskat
Like others I don't see why you should stop if you're still interested in it. Just try different ways to go about it.
08/27/2012