I am trying to introduce anal play to my wife but she has been scarred by a bad experience with her ex.
For anal beginners which toy would you choose?
phozersexy
03/02/2011
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For anal beginners which toy would you choose?
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phozersexy
I don't know if I should choose glass or something softer like the silicone
03/02/2011
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I would start with fingers at first. They are free, you already have them, and they will work better, plus you need to see if she can learn to enjoy it. After that, as far as toys, go with silicone. It is the best for cleaning and it will last for a long time. Something the size of your finger maybe bit bigger would be the best.
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phozersexy
I don't know if I should choose glass or something softer like the silicone
03/02/2011
i want to try it with my gf but she dont want to what made u want to try anal
03/02/2011
We usually recommend the Tantus Silk small to anal newbies.
03/02/2011
Not sure about either of those toys. But I would definitely recommend a soft toy first. Preferably silicone.
03/02/2011
phozersexy
Thanks...I was leaning towards something soft
03/03/2011
Yeah, definitely soft.
03/03/2011
GalactusFeed
Soft, and also it's also graduated, so that's a good thing.
03/03/2011
I agree with the above comment about the Tantus small silk. That's pretty much a perfect starter size and it's made of a nice silicone material as well... boil-able, bleach-able etc.
Other advice besides starting with a small size... just use LOTS of a nice lube like Maximus and go extra slow... it's not a race down there so both parties just need to have plenty of patience and it won't turn into a painful experience.
Other advice besides starting with a small size... just use LOTS of a nice lube like Maximus and go extra slow... it's not a race down there so both parties just need to have plenty of patience and it won't turn into a painful experience.
03/03/2011
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Agreed - fingers are free and with nitrile gloves they can provide a little or a lot of stimulation until you find your own comfort zone. Lots of lube and patience will make for a lot of fun. Start off small and work your way up. Don't be afraid to experiment with various textures and sizes to find out what works best for you.
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ToyTimeTim
I would start with fingers at first. They are free, you already have them, and they will work better, plus you need to see if she can learn to enjoy it. After that, as far as toys, go with silicone. It is the best for cleaning and it will last for a
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I would start with fingers at first. They are free, you already have them, and they will work better, plus you need to see if she can learn to enjoy it. After that, as far as toys, go with silicone. It is the best for cleaning and it will last for a long time. Something the size of your finger maybe bit bigger would be the best.
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03/08/2011
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Fingers. though the ripple looks like it might be okay if you're slow and careful with it.
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phozersexy
I don't know if I should choose glass or something softer like the silicone
12/07/2011
Gonna try the small silk.
12/07/2011
id say a really small dildo or fingers with lubes and or condom.
12/07/2011
I would start with a starter set of anal beads. My mans finger always made me feel uncomfortable and I wouldn't be able to relax knowing where his finger was going. Start slow and talk to her the entire time using lots of lube! The biggest thing with any anal play is trust!
12/08/2011
A nice hot bath, glass of wine and a finger got me started. Move up in fingers once she is ok with one. Eventually get her a plug and maybe a probe.
12/08/2011
Lots of lube!
12/08/2011
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The pleasure pearls is very nice and smooth and tiny. I love it! Only like 4" long.
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phozersexy
I don't know if I should choose glass or something softer like the silicone
12/08/2011
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Little Ripple!!
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phozersexy
I don't know if I should choose glass or something softer like the silicone
12/11/2011
I agree with fingers. Plus they're probably the smallest out of all the toy choices, movable, and vary in size. Plus I feel like you personally have more control of how much pressure you apple, which would be helpful if it was in efforts to get her more comfortable with the idea again.
12/12/2011
Another vote for fingers first, then something soft and finger-like. Don't start out with glass in your ass. That's going too fast.
12/12/2011
I like silicone the best
11/22/2012
Ripple
11/24/2012
If you compare this two, I'd say the ripple.
11/28/2012
I'd say silicone first because it's got GIVE, glass is great but wait till you're a bit more experienced.
11/28/2012
something soft
03/08/2013
The glass would scare me so I'd go for the ripple
03/09/2013
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