Which one would be a good choice for inexperienced usage?

Contributor: legna legna 08/31/2012

These are some of the toys that I have come across that look interesting to me and would like to find out which one would be the best one to try first as an inexperienced user of toys. :) Hopefully I am doing this all right and get the information needed. :)

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Contributor: legna legna
Want to know which would work for using on a guy also. We have been thinking about that kind of usage but I don't want to hurt him either.
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Contributor: Chou Wang Chou Wang
While I can't really comment on the strap-on toys you've selected I can really really say that it's not really a good thing to be a a good try for inexperienced users. My "associate" prefers the SpareParts Joque Harness and the Realdoe Feeldoe from which there is a smaller cousin available (Feeldoe slim). She says the best are of course the sensations delivered through vaginal and clitoral stimulation so she gets to catch a few orgasms while engaged in pegging.

I'm not really sure what's your level of experience in anal play. I would really suggest to start with smaller things to get accustomed to it before moving to pegging. I have a set of favorite plugs that are defenetely helping as a part of foreplay before pegging.

You may have a look on the Triple Ripple which I guess was my first ever anal toy and is good for gradual training. There is of course the Ryder that is the best plug ever produced. Wearing it some time before anal play helps to be relaxed and turned on. And of course if you want to move to slightly larger dildos in pegging and generally having your man experiencing insane orgasms there is the Gapers Organic.

There are a lot of thing that you need to figure out buy yourself, what materials you prefer, what size, girth and shape. Many lubes have different properties and feel slightly different, But it's an enjoyable route. The toy collections tend to grow quite rapidly until you find a few that suit you completely.
08/31/2012
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Try things out by hand first. Since you're talking about using them anally, I strongly recommend silicone.

Once you know you like toys then look for a harness - and get a good one. A cheap one that doesn't fit will ruin your experience.

As far as "works for using on a guy" get one that he is 100% comfortable with. A curve and head help for prostate stimulation, and a length of about 6-6.5" is probably best along with a width of 1-1/4 to 1-1/2". Don't use it as a first anal toy, work up to it.
08/31/2012
Contributor: legna legna
We are thinking of having one to use on him at times but I don't want to hurt him either.
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Contributor: Beck Beck
Fetish Fantasy Series silicone strap-on (Pink)

The above one is your best deal.
08/31/2012
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
The Fetish Fantasy dildo I tried was very stiff and could be uncomfortable. Get one that's a bit softer so mis-aimed thrusts don't cause discomfort.
08/31/2012
Contributor: Sauceboss Sauceboss
I would go with the beginners pink one.
09/03/2012
Contributor: brevado brevado
I'd try most of them
09/04/2012