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Firmer or softer dildos: which do you prefer? :)

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Contributor: DreamWolf DreamWolf
Just wondering...
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Firmer
14  (19%)
Softer
11  (15%)
Both because...
3  (4%)
Depends on the toy!
44  (59%)
Not into such toys...
Other? :)
2  (3%)
Total votes: 74
Poll is closed
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Contributor: Rossie Rossie
Oops, I should check 'Both'. I love my Njoys and Nob Essence wooden dildo, but I desire my squishy silicone toys just as much.
09/21/2012
Contributor: Lildrummrgurl7 Lildrummrgurl7
So far, firmer. I haven't had a good soft dildo yet but I'm not giving up.
09/22/2012
Contributor: Pudyqat Pudyqat
Like I said, it depends on the toy....but generally right in the middle.
09/22/2012
Contributor: travelnurse travelnurse
It really does depend on each individual toy
09/22/2012
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by DreamWolf
Just wondering...
I like it in the middle.
09/22/2012
Contributor: PepperPot PepperPot
Depends on the toy, but I love the O2 dildos from Tantus!
09/22/2012
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
Firmer (i.e. glass) but smaller girth works better for my body than softer, but big.
09/22/2012
Contributor: GirlOnGirl GirlOnGirl
Firmer
09/22/2012
Contributor: Girly Juice Girly Juice
My G-spot likes firmer materials better.
09/22/2012
Contributor: Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
There's some firm ones that work for me, but on the whole I prefer something with a bit of give and flexibility.
09/22/2012
Contributor: ToyGeek ToyGeek
It depends, but more firm than squishy, usually, probably.
09/22/2012
Contributor: roskat roskat
Both. I like hard materials like steel and glass but also squishier like the O2 material.
09/22/2012
Contributor: Zandrock Zandrock
Depends on what it is being used for
09/22/2012
Contributor: G&L G&L
I like them to to be soft but also have some firmness to them.
09/22/2012
Contributor: Passion plum Passion plum
Really depends on the toy. I really like glass but I have a few softer ones I like also.
09/22/2012
Contributor: sexxxkitten sexxxkitten
Depends on the toy
09/22/2012
Contributor: BlooJay BlooJay
I like them to have firmness.
09/22/2012
Contributor: Kitten has left the site Kitten has left the site
Hard.
09/23/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
It depends on the toy and what I'm using it for.
09/23/2012
Contributor: Bullfroggy and Rose Bullfroggy and Rose
depends on design but I normaly like them softer
09/23/2012
Contributor: Hallmar82 Hallmar82
I usually like firmer so I don't have trouble with insertion.
09/23/2012
Contributor: sweetpea12 sweetpea12
Quote:
Originally posted by DreamWolf
Just wondering...
I need both, that's why I love the O2 or the Vixskin toys because they are both soft and hard
09/24/2012
Contributor: MK434 MK434
I like mine a little bit soft.
09/24/2012
Contributor: panthercat23 panthercat23
Both but it depends on my mood to determine what I will use.
09/24/2012
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
I'm looking for a dildo that's big - girth & length plus squishy - pretty much hollow inside the whole dildo.
09/24/2012
Contributor: KrissyNovacaine KrissyNovacaine
I like my dildos girthy and soft
09/25/2012
Contributor: Hers&mine Hers&mine
I like them softer because the firm ones ruin the mood for me.
09/25/2012
Contributor: MidnightStorm MidnightStorm
Typically I like a nice middle ground: it should have some give to it, but it shouldn't just collapse in on itself when I try to put it inside of me. For anal play I prefer harder toys though--soft ones are just too much hassle back there!
09/25/2012
Contributor: Zandrock Zandrock
firmer
09/25/2012