Girth vs Length vs Firmness?

Contributor: lalapetitee lalapetitee 12/12/2011

Which is the most important to you and why?

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Contributor: lalapetitee lalapetitee
What benefits you the most? Does girth provide more pleasure than length? Can firmness determine the ability to satisfy you? Which one do you think determines pleasure from a toy for you?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Girth
lalapetitee , Drakoni , Rawhide , Eucaly , slynch , xyrella , Sinfully , Ghost , eeep , acessorie , GoneBabyGone , ellejay , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , potstickers , markwashere , klyte , zracer , jedent , dv8 , miss-miss , ddd masturbator(bye all!) , Jake'n'bake , MsRigby , Sohotdinosaur , Brandonn , Joie de Cherresse , wdanas , Lizzy , Djiffy , Ha5aem , Woman China , blacklodge , asphyxia , RomanticGoth , melissa1973 , BiJess , godweensatan , calliope , MissCandyland , wildorchid , tinadice , SexyRayne , pinkcupcakes , C-Rae , LavenderSkies , BeachyKeen , Nissa Nissa , funluvinmama , ECU Pirate , ichwillwaffels , Pumpkinhead , Moniqua , AlianneCimorene , sixfootsexxx , PropertyOfPotter , Incendiaire , Miss Anonymous , Girly Juice
58  (51%)
Length
Envy , HannahPanda
2  (2%)
Firmness
favoritemelody , Girly Girl , JewelsAndB , Cherrylane , Jon S , GONE! , K101 , duff , Breas , mpfm , Kallisto , sexydelphia , Cherry21 , dhig , Howells , her angelness , Bignuf , biancajames , EdenJP , DreamWolf , Triangles , switzerland , Greenleaf , unfulfilled , EndlessFrost , OrangeKushBB , MeliPixie , Do-Re-Mi , SJ88 , Zombirella , Lummox , Missmarc , Femme Mystique , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , Ms. N , Hibangel , sealoque53a , cottonxcandy , Loriandhubby , Adriana Ravenlust , BurntToast , Sangsara , Melan!e , Falsepast , ksparkles16 , Lizard , BoobCopter , mmmmm , elli , pasdechat , Stinkytofu10 , hot lil momma , LaSchwartz
53  (47%)
Total votes: 113
Poll is closed
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Contributor: Rossie Rossie
All of the above, plus the design and texture of the toy.
12/12/2011
Contributor: toxie m toxie m
Quote:
Originally posted by Rossie
All of the above, plus the design and texture of the toy.
This. There is no "most" benefit, a toy's gotta have it all if pleasure is going to be had.
12/12/2011
Contributor: Girly Girl Girly Girl
mostly all
12/12/2011
Contributor: Cherrylane Cherrylane
All of the above, though girth and firmness are a bit more important than length to me. but only to the extent that things can be a bit too short (anything smaller than liv and I probably wouldn't be very impressed at all). Larger than that point, however, and we're all good. Girth and Firmness are quite a bit more nuanced for me.
12/13/2011
Contributor: K101 K101
Firmness. I like firm, but not super hard unless it's glass. Firmness does more for me than girth. Length is great too!
12/13/2011
Contributor: Envy Envy
I think length because anything that feels good to me is deep inside and sadly most toys are only 5 or 6 inches insertable and sometimes i need more length so i have something to hold onto better.

Even so, I weight the pros and cons about girth and firmness as well. but i avoid texture in everything as it rubs me raw.
12/13/2011
Contributor: Rawhide Rawhide
I find that girth makes the biggest difference
12/13/2011
Contributor: duff duff
I need it to vibrate. Everything else falls second
12/13/2011
Contributor: HannahPanda HannahPanda
I personally prefer length.
12/13/2011
Contributor: Eucaly Eucaly
The girth has to be exactly in a certain range, or I'm very unlikely to be interested.
12/13/2011
Contributor: Sinfully Sinfully
Girth
12/13/2011
Contributor: acessorie acessorie
girth all the way!
12/14/2011
Contributor: GoneBabyGone GoneBabyGone
I'm definitely more towards girth but firmness is a close second. If it's too hard I get really sore.
12/14/2011
Contributor: markwashere markwashere
Girth
12/21/2011
Contributor: Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
Quote:
Originally posted by Eucaly
The girth has to be exactly in a certain range, or I'm very unlikely to be interested.
This.
12/21/2011
Contributor: biancajames biancajames
Girth is a must, with the exception of the Pure Wand. I love steel and glass for g spotting, silicone for hard thrusting.
12/21/2011
Contributor: klyte klyte
Girth def.
12/21/2011
Contributor: EdenJP EdenJP
Firmness
12/21/2011
Contributor: jedent jedent
girth. it has to do with exactly what part of the shaft is hitting the g and how.
12/21/2011
Contributor: Love Perpetua Love Perpetua
I'm all about the girth

Firmness is nice, but sometimes I prefer something a bit squishier.
01/08/2012
Contributor: Greenleaf Greenleaf
Firmness - not because I only like rock hard toys, but because that's the quality that determines what else I will love or hate about the rest of the toy. A smaller, thinner toy can be fun if it's really sturdy, while a thick toy or a toy with a sharp curve had better be squishy or I'm not going to like it. It also determines how much/what kind of texture I want a toy to have.
01/09/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
firmness and design of the toy.
01/09/2012
Contributor: MeliPixie MeliPixie
I find a good, hard toy is easiest to angle where I need it and feels fuller than a toy of the same size that is softer.
02/10/2012
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by Rossie
All of the above, plus the design and texture of the toy.
Really right on - it has to be the proper length, width, firmness and texture - that's why there are hundreds of combinations to choose from. After all aren't suppliers supposed to 'fulfill' our needs! Sorry for the tacky pun.
02/10/2012
Contributor: Zombirella Zombirella
Quote:
Originally posted by lalapetitee
What benefits you the most? Does girth provide more pleasure than length? Can firmness determine the ability to satisfy you? Which one do you think determines pleasure from a toy for you?
Not real sure, I don't like biggger than 5 circumference and 5 is pushing it for me
02/11/2012
Contributor: Brandonn Brandonn
"Mostly all"...funny you don't want much
02/12/2012
Contributor: Joie de Cherresse Joie de Cherresse
Girth first and foremost... But I'm also one of those that like realistic vibrators and dildos. The more real they feel the better...
02/12/2012
Contributor: Lizzy Lizzy
Girth, as long as its at least 5"
02/12/2012
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by lalapetitee
What benefits you the most? Does girth provide more pleasure than length? Can firmness determine the ability to satisfy you? Which one do you think determines pleasure from a toy for you?
Definitely firmness.
03/12/2012
Contributor: Femme Mystique Femme Mystique
Quote:
Originally posted by toxie m
This. There is no "most" benefit, a toy's gotta have it all if pleasure is going to be had.
Agree with this!
03/12/2012
Contributor: RomanticGoth RomanticGoth
Girth. Length is prefered over firmness. Super hard toys are... uncomfortable.
03/12/2012
Contributor: godweensatan godweensatan
more girth the better!
03/12/2012
Contributor: calliope calliope
Girth for sure. I have given birth! lol
03/12/2012
Contributor: wildorchid wildorchid
Girth because if the toy is too thick for me, there's not way I can enjoy it. Maybe that will change though, but for right now girth determines my pleasure from a toy.
03/13/2012
Contributor: Hibangel Hibangel
I say firmness. Too girthy would of course be a problem, but if it's not hard enough it's less useful to me.
03/13/2012
Contributor: tinadice tinadice
Quote:
Originally posted by lalapetitee
What benefits you the most? Does girth provide more pleasure than length? Can firmness determine the ability to satisfy you? Which one do you think determines pleasure from a toy for you?
mostly all
03/13/2012
Contributor: cottonxcandy cottonxcandy
Firmness
03/13/2012
Contributor: C-Rae C-Rae
THicker the better
03/13/2012
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by lalapetitee
What benefits you the most? Does girth provide more pleasure than length? Can firmness determine the ability to satisfy you? Which one do you think determines pleasure from a toy for you?
Girth
03/14/2012
Contributor: Nissa Nissa Nissa Nissa
Quote:
Originally posted by lalapetitee
What benefits you the most? Does girth provide more pleasure than length? Can firmness determine the ability to satisfy you? Which one do you think determines pleasure from a toy for you?
I think girth might do it more for me than length, but I haven't experimented with length that much. I'm thinking about doing so.
03/29/2012
Contributor: Sangsara Sangsara
Length isn't an issue cause I only have 5" till my cervix and I thought I loved girth till I found out that firmness makes all the difference in the world. If a guy is well hung its important to me that he not be fully hard
06/30/2012
Contributor: Melan!e Melan!e
I guess I'd have to go with firmness. Girth too though. I like variety in both firmness and girth in my toys though. Length doesn't matter much to me.
07/01/2012
Contributor: Falsepast Falsepast
Firmness. I want it soft but not too soft.
07/01/2012
Contributor: ksparkles16 ksparkles16
firmness then girth
07/01/2012
Contributor: Moniqua Moniqua
Girth.
07/02/2012
Contributor: Lizard Lizard
Firmness
07/02/2012
Contributor: Miss Anonymous Miss Anonymous
Quote:
Originally posted by lalapetitee
What benefits you the most? Does girth provide more pleasure than length? Can firmness determine the ability to satisfy you? Which one do you think determines pleasure from a toy for you?
I'm all about the girth!
07/10/2012
Contributor: hot lil momma hot lil momma
Girth
07/10/2012
Contributor: CalebC CalebC
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Why not, indeed.
07/11/2012