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Harness Compatible Dildo Comparison

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Contributor: Ciao. Ciao. 05/03/2009

There are 87 o-ring compatible dildos listed on EF, all of which have a 4 star or higher rating (only two hold a 5 star rating). Amongst these are some of the most discussed toys like the double ended Share and Feeldoe but there are plenty of other wonderful flared base offerings. Having used harness compatible dildos plenty of times with my own partner I'm pretty familiar with the qualities that make for a dildo that I enjoy, but I'm sure many customers coming to look for their own might have a hard time choosing between similarly rated (and often reasonably similarly priced dildos) so I'm asking you which of these high-quality, high-rated, flared base dildos do you think is the best overall?

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Discussion Topics

1.
Which is the best value? (30 posts)
2.
Which design is the most interesting to you? (9 posts)
3.
Best for use on a female partner (13 posts)
4.
Best for use on a male partner? (9 posts)
5.
Which one would you buy? (19 posts)
Contributor: Ciao. Ciao.
All of these dildos have plenty of good things going for them but which offers the most for the best price?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
HannahPanda , sweetpea12 , Cosmonaut
3  (3%)
geliebt
1  (1%)
Jimbo Jones , oldkinky , Britni TheVadgeWig , dv8 , celibacysucks , menotu , moonlitlilly , dhig , ellejay , MeliPixie , Elliotstar , Free , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , Miss T , Lio , Kaltir , Lady Marmelade , Solar Ray , SexyStuff , lesbianlesbian , Totogrl , JustYourAverageGuy , DCorrelle , phunkyphreak , Adam02viper , KunisCarrot , Mr. E , GravyCakes , AgnesTrevejo , Judas Iscars , Virgulino , cujo467 , krisvida , lolsos , slynch , Eva Schwaltz , Lady Venus , Lolla Munz , Reyes , k3 , It's a Hooker! , uu , yoham45 , tickle me pink , CarmenGore262 , The Curious Couple , Howells , kelaaa33wish , thaterry , lovemuscle n cookie , SiNn , Ghost , Miss Anonymous , thebest , eeep , Jon S , Breas , Bignuf , Kdlips , Mew , Ice1 , Apirka , (k)InkyIvy , toxie m , DreamWolf , unfulfilled , ge0rge , Pirate , SJ88 , sealoque53a , fufucat , cottonxcandy , Lock , Bethy Cassatt , treefrog88 , xMila , sexxxkitten , mmmmm , Modern^Spank^Anthem , Azule , GONE! , ginainohio , aimtoplease , Falsepast , ksparkles16 , ashboo32 , Gone (LD29) , Cowgirl-Cutie , kdlt , Martiniman , LavenderSkies , karenm
92  (82%)
sarki
1  (1%)
kawigrl , Rawhide , souviet
3  (3%)
sixfootsex , potstickers , MR Chickhabit , BadgersRose , ichwillwaffels , Anjulie , Sweet-Justice , newfoundlust , ThoughtsAblaze , Stinkytofu10 , 3d3n1 , spiced
12  (11%)
Total votes: 112
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Contributor: MeliPixie MeliPixie
Go for the mistress! It's great for beginners and experienced alike, and has a nice shape without being too costly.
12/05/2010
Contributor: Free Free
Mistress all the way.
01/22/2011
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
If you're starting with something I'd say Mistress. Small enough to work OK for anal or vaginal, head for a bit more stimulation, and good value.

For a splurge VixSkin is really nice and you might want to try Raquel.
03/09/2011
Contributor: ichwillwaffels ichwillwaffels
Quote:
Originally posted by Ciao.
All of these dildos have plenty of good things going for them but which offers the most for the best price?
Raquel has an interesting shape to it.
03/30/2011
Contributor: Anjulie Anjulie
Raquel because of the vixskin material.
03/31/2011
Contributor: Mr. E Mr. E
We have the Mistress. It works well in a harness.
03/31/2011
Contributor: Anjulie Anjulie
Anythign with vixskin, raquel or soft serve
05/10/2011
Contributor: Lady Marmelade Lady Marmelade
Mistress!
05/12/2011
Contributor: CarmenGore262 CarmenGore262
Quote:
Originally posted by Ciao.
All of these dildos have plenty of good things going for them but which offers the most for the best price?
mistress
05/14/2011
Contributor: SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by Ciao.
All of these dildos have plenty of good things going for them but which offers the most for the best price?
I like the mistress
07/29/2011
Contributor: Miss Anonymous Miss Anonymous
Mistress
07/29/2011
Contributor: Kdlips Kdlips
Mistress
11/26/2011
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Raquel, it's made of Vixskin.
01/24/2012
Contributor: (k)InkyIvy (k)InkyIvy
Both the mistress and the raquel look pretty nice.
01/24/2012
Contributor: kawigrl kawigrl
i'd get vip- and a harness compatible with holding dildos w/ balls
01/24/2012
Contributor: Rawhide Rawhide
I like the shape of the VIP
02/07/2012
Contributor: sweetpea12 sweetpea12
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Originally posted by Ciao.
All of these dildos have plenty of good things going for them but which offers the most for the best price?
The unicorn horn looks interesting
03/08/2012
Contributor: Pirate Pirate
the unicorn one is nice baha
03/09/2012
Contributor: cottonxcandy cottonxcandy
Mistress!
03/15/2012
Contributor: Bethy Cassatt Bethy Cassatt
Mistress
06/20/2012
Contributor: mmmmm mmmmm
Mistress!!!
06/21/2012
Contributor: Modern^Spank^Anthem Modern^Spank^Anthem
mistress
06/21/2012
Contributor: Azule Azule
Definitely mistress I'd say.
06/21/2012
Contributor: ginainohio ginainohio
Mistress
06/22/2012
Contributor: ksparkles16 ksparkles16
I'd get the Mistress!
07/07/2012
Contributor: spiced spiced
Mistress or Raquel, depending on your budget and size preference.
01/27/2013
Contributor: ashboo32 ashboo32
mistress but i love my raquel
01/28/2013
Contributor: Cosmonaut Cosmonaut
Unicorn!!
01/28/2013
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by Ciao.
All of these dildos have plenty of good things going for them but which offers the most for the best price?
Mistress
01/29/2013
Contributor: Ciao. Ciao.
Ranging from fairly straightforward (the VIP) to unconventional (Scrudy or Theta) these dildos display a wide range of design elements. Which design seems most intriguing both from an aesthetic viewpoint and from a practical use viewpoint?
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Contributor: Jimbo Jones Jimbo Jones
I have the VIP and the Soft Serve, but I've heard really good things about the Raquel. From what I've read the Raquel seems like the most interesting design to me.
05/03/2009
Contributor: Free Free
Soft serve!
01/22/2011
Contributor: MR Chickhabit MR Chickhabit
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Originally posted by Free
Soft serve!
seconded! bring it back!
03/09/2011
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
Soft Serve for me as well, looks hot!
03/10/2011
Contributor: Anjulie Anjulie
Soft serve looks like fun!
03/31/2011
Contributor: Mr. E Mr. E
The soft serve looks interesting, but probably too much texture for us.
03/31/2011
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Raquel
01/24/2012
Contributor: Eugler Eugler
I think the soft serve is interesting and the raquel as well...
01/28/2013
Contributor: Ciao. Ciao.
From your perspective which of these dildos has the most to offer when used on a female partner?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
4  (5%)
2  (3%)
5  (6%)
3  (4%)
5  (6%)
58  (75%)
Total votes: 77
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Contributor: Red Red
The magnum is a lot of fun to use on a female partner - mine is actually black, so it looks badass, which gives it extra points. It sure is long, though, so it's not for everyone.
05/07/2009
Contributor: Red Red
Quote:
Originally posted by Red
The magnum is a lot of fun to use on a female partner - mine is actually black, so it looks badass, which gives it extra points. It sure is long, though, so it's not for everyone.
I should note that the above comment is on vaginal use - the Magnum kicks ass as an anal dildo, but it's wide so it's not for a beginner.
05/07/2009
Contributor: MeliPixie MeliPixie
The Mistress again, please! Its semi-realistic shape is perfect for vaginal penetration.
12/05/2010
Contributor: Free Free
Raquel.
01/22/2011
Contributor: Anjulie Anjulie
Raquel feels amazing!
03/31/2011
Contributor: Mr. E Mr. E
Raquel, for the VixSkin.
03/31/2011
Contributor: Lady Marmelade Lady Marmelade
Yes, Raquel.
05/12/2011
Contributor: charletnarouh charletnarouh
I'm not familiar with anything listed but Acute by Tantus is my favorite by far.
01/24/2012
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Raquel because it's made of Vixskin.
01/24/2012
Contributor: HannahPanda HannahPanda
I adore the design of the soft serve.
02/07/2012
Contributor: Azule Azule
Racquel is always the most comfortable I think.
06/21/2012
Contributor: ksparkles16 ksparkles16
Raquel
07/07/2012
Contributor: Ciao. Ciao.
Which of these dildos has the most to offer in terms of being used on a male partner?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
2  (3%)
1  (1%)
57  (77%)
2  (3%)
3  (4%)
9  (12%)
Total votes: 74
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Contributor: MeliPixie MeliPixie
I would go with the Raquel for a male partner. It's smooth, and has the inner core of harder silicone with an enlarged tip but no pronounced head.
12/05/2010
Contributor: Free Free
Mistress.
01/22/2011
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
I'm going with unicorn cause I don't like angles
03/10/2011
Contributor: Mr. E Mr. E
Mistress.
03/31/2011
Contributor: Lady Marmelade Lady Marmelade
Mistress!
05/12/2011
Contributor: SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by Ciao.
Which of these dildos has the most to offer in terms of being used on a male partner?
id use teh mistres son my fiancee
07/29/2011
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Mistress is slender.
01/24/2012
Contributor: Eugler Eugler
Mistress looks best to me.
01/28/2013
Contributor: Ciao. Ciao.
Given all the possibilities and the pro's and con's for each toy, in the end which would be your pick if you were going to take one of these home?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
clp , k3 , Ghost , DreamWolf , 3d3n1 , GONE! , Gone (LD29)
7  (10%)
SexyStuff
1  (1%)
oldkinky , MeliPixie , Free , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , Lio , sixfootsex , Lady Marmelade , Totogrl , BadgersRose , Adam02viper , Mr. E , AgnesTrevejo , Judas Iscars , cujo467 , krisvida , lolsos , slynch , Lady Venus , Lolla Munz , mb , Reyes , uu , yoham45 , tickle me pink , The Curious Couple , Howells , thaterry , SiNn , thebest , geliebt , Jon S , Breas , Apirka , toxie m , ge0rge , sealoque53a , legna , treefrog88 , Bethy Cassatt , Azule , aimtoplease , ksparkles16 , Cowgirl-Cutie , Eugler , LavenderSkies
45  (66%)
dv8
1  (1%)
JustYourAverageGuy
1  (1%)
Jimbo Jones , potstickers , MR Chickhabit , ellejay , Solar Ray , DCorrelle , Anjulie , Virgulino , newfoundlust , eeep , Stinkytofu10 , fufucat , spiced
13  (19%)
Total votes: 68
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Contributor: clp clp
Toss-up between the Unicorn Horn and Raquel. I'm going Unicorn for the vote, though, so he will have at least one vote!
11/22/2010
Contributor: MeliPixie MeliPixie
Am I too insistent on the Mistress...?
12/05/2010
Contributor: Free Free
Toss up between magnum and raquel.
01/22/2011
Contributor: Anjulie Anjulie
Raquel.
03/31/2011
Contributor: Mr. E Mr. E
We already have the Mistress. Of the others, Raquel is the one we would most likely add to the collection.
03/31/2011
Contributor: Judas Iscars Judas Iscars
Mistress and Raquel.
05/10/2011
Contributor: slynch slynch
MIstress was one of our first dildos. It's a great one to start with.
05/11/2011
Contributor: Lolla Munz Lolla Munz
Mistress!
05/11/2011
Contributor: k3 k3
I don't think I could resist going with the unicorn horn, just because.....well, it's a unicorn horn! xD
05/12/2011
Contributor: It's a Hooker! It's a Hooker!
Raquel is my favorite. But I totally agree with SightlessAngel, haha.
05/12/2011
Contributor: Lady Marmelade Lady Marmelade
Mistress and Raquel
05/12/2011
Contributor: SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by Ciao.
Given all the possibilities and the pro's and con's for each toy, in the end which would be your pick if you were going to take one of these home?
the mistress
07/29/2011
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
I would buy Raquel.
01/24/2012
Contributor: Pirate Pirate
mistress
03/16/2012
Contributor: Bethy Cassatt Bethy Cassatt
Mistress
06/21/2012
Contributor: Azule Azule
Mistress for usage and unicorn horn because it's just fun.
06/21/2012
Contributor: ksparkles16 ksparkles16
I like the Mistress!
07/07/2012
Contributor: Eugler Eugler
I prefer the mistress but the raquel as well.
01/28/2013