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Contributor: Meowmix Meowmix 08/15/2010

I have been really interested in either of these but am a bit worried about how much bigger the XL really is. If I read the specs on the page they are identical so I'm looking for a bit of input.

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First off is the XL much larger or just a bit? How pronounced, intense are the ridges? Finally which would you choose and why? (38 posts)
Contributor: Meowmix Meowmix
Really just looking for everyone's opinion on these so I can try to pick the one best for me .
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Contributor: ScottA ScottA
The big difference is in the profile. The Share's wide point is near the base, and the shaft is narrow. If you're pegging then it's possible that you don't ever get to the "big part" and likely will stay at around 1-1/2" diameter. On the XL it's all the big part, so you will get stretched to the 1=7/8" diameter.

I have the Tiger, which has similar textures. You can feel the ridges, but they're rounded so unless you're using them anally and are not relaxing they're very comfortable and stimulating. They're also spaced enough that you can feel the difference between ridge and no ridge rather than having it blend together (unless you're thrusting really fast.

Can't speak about either from the giver's side, though.
08/15/2010
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
If you can handle the ridges then the XL will be very stimulating. How are you planning on using the toy? Whether it's going to be used vaginally or anally (on the getter's end) can make a difference.
08/16/2010
Contributor: Meowmix Meowmix
It will mostly be used anally, we have used The witty worm in a similar fashion, so I don't think the ridges will be a problem as long as they aren't overly pronounced. I'll have to see if any of out other toys are of a similar size and go from there.
08/17/2010
Contributor: David88 David88
Meowmix will this be your first doubles strapon? I'm currently looking for my first and I'm planning to get the Nexus Maximus. People can obviously tell you how they would vote for their position but depending on your experience level one or both of these maybe too large for starting out.
08/17/2010
Contributor: Meowmix Meowmix
This will be the first Double strapon yes. They look like they could be quite fun, using a harness can be a bit of a hassle mid stride. I think the share would be alright on size so I might go with that one gonna think on it for a bit and go from there.
08/18/2010
Contributor: David88 David88
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Originally posted by Meowmix
This will be the first Double strapon yes. They look like they could be quite fun, using a harness can be a bit of a hassle mid stride. I think the share would be alright on size so I might go with that one gonna think on it for a bit and go from ... more
Ok, so you've done with a harness one but you're looking to harnessless? I would just keep in mind that most of the double dildos can work harnessless when used vaginally but anally is another story. Most people seem to be able to make the position where the guy is on top riding it work but other positions are often harder without a harness. Just keep that in mind when looking. I'm looking at doubles but plan on only using it with a harness because even if it holds for a little while they tend to fall out just as things are getting good. At least that's what I've read in a lot of reviews.
08/18/2010
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
I have the Fun Factory Tiger, which is a very similar design to the getter's end of the Share XL. At first I did need to make a conscious effort to keep relaxed, because if you tighten up the ridges do get a bit uncomfortable after a long ride. Now that I have better control over my anus it feels great. The ridges and "head" are very stimulating, both to the anus and prostate, and occasional clenching feels good (you just need to remember to only do it for a short time and then relax).

If you're experienced with anal toy play and can stay anally relaxed pretty well I think you'd love the XL.
08/18/2010
Contributor: Xavier7 Xavier7
I'm recommending the purple, but it's up to you in the end.
02/25/2011
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
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Originally posted by Xavier7
I'm recommending the purple, but it's up to you in the end.
I agree.
04/02/2011
Contributor: krisvida krisvida
go with the xl
04/26/2011
Contributor: ichwillwaffels ichwillwaffels
Quote:
Originally posted by Meowmix
Really just looking for everyone's opinion on these so I can try to pick the one best for me .
I would prefer the Share. It is a bit simpler and less intimidating.
04/27/2011
Contributor: sexygoddess sexygoddess
Go with the XL
04/28/2011
Contributor: Rightya Rightya
XL for sure
05/07/2011
Contributor: Dyma Dyma
Share XL.
05/07/2011
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Keep in mind that the getter will need to be able to relax for the XL to be comfortable, since it has so much more texture.
06/23/2011
Contributor: thebest thebest
XL is fine
06/30/2011
Contributor: dezzydezire dezzydezire
i like the texture on the xl.
06/30/2011
Contributor: toysforall toysforall
agree, go with the xl.
08/26/2011
Contributor: Diabolical Kitty Diabolical Kitty
I'd go with the Xl.
08/26/2011
Contributor: emilia emilia
Quote:
Originally posted by ScottA
If you can handle the ridges then the XL will be very stimulating. How are you planning on using the toy? Whether it's going to be used vaginally or anally (on the getter's end) can make a difference.
Oh that is so true and I glad you said it
10/20/2011
Contributor: Girly Girl Girly Girl
i like the purple one
10/20/2011
Contributor: domsub1993 domsub1993
The XL looks like it has more texture.
10/20/2011
Contributor: Neurogasm Neurogasm
Absolutely the XL.
10/23/2011
Contributor: DreamWolf DreamWolf
Share XL...
05/10/2012
Contributor: Master DarkWolf Master DarkWolf
Me? None. But Share XL looks better.
05/10/2012
Contributor: SadoMas SadoMas
XL.
05/11/2012
Contributor: Sauceboss Sauceboss
the bumps on the XL dont appeal to me
05/20/2012
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
Share
08/17/2012
Contributor: Ms. Peaches Ms. Peaches
Share XL
08/25/2012
Contributor: jryder3891 jryder3891
Quote:
Originally posted by Meowmix
Really just looking for everyone's opinion on these so I can try to pick the one best for me .
The XL has better texture and is not much bigger
08/27/2012
Contributor: Artishok Artishok
Share XL (Black)
08/27/2012
Contributor: Kappa8564 Kappa8564
Share XL (Black)
10/16/2012
Contributor: dancingduo dancingduo
The XL looks like better money spent. But what did you get?
04/22/2013
Contributor: ashboo32 ashboo32
id go with the xl
04/22/2013
Contributor: spencer spencer
Would anyone who has the Share or Share XL be willing to upload an image of it to toysizer link

I am quite picky about size and I want to compare it to others I have.

Thanks
05/05/2013
Contributor: Rawr4483 Rawr4483
Share XL
05/06/2013
Contributor: Robespierrethecat Robespierrethecat
I personally own/use the purple share (not xl, just the regular one) for pegging. We've found that for us, it's the right size (if not a little bit of a stretch). The other thing to keep in mind is the size of the pony end. For just the regular Share, it's pretty big (for me at least).
05/07/2013