The definitive double-ended/harness-f ree dildo thread!

The definitive double-ended/harness-f ree dildo thread!

LiftedUp LiftedUp 09/10/2009

Over the past few weeks, I've noticed that a LOT of people seem to have many, very similar questions regarding double-ended/harness-f ree dildos, and which one is right for them. There are several threads in this forum that discuss various aspects of some of them, compare and contrast two or three of them, or ask for feedback on one particular aspect of what the buyer is looking for. However, these discussions are strewn about throughout many threads, most of these discussions only mention a few of the available options, and many of the threads aren't up to date, so there is no comparison of older products to some of the newer products now available. In this thread, I am going to make an effort to construct an all encompassing discussion on these dildos. Ideally, with your help, this thread will contain a great majority of the information a new buyer seeks when considering all of the double dildos available, in one centralized location.

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LiftedUp LiftedUp
For the poll, if you thought that a particular dildo provided you with adequate g-spot stimulation, please select it. Note that you can select more than one, if you have tried more than one, and they all met the criteria.

If you have used multiple dildos from this list, please post some details to compare and contrast your experiences with them in terms of which one provided the best g-spot stimulation for you. If you have only used one, please specify which one you have used, and how well you thought it worked. Please include details in your post about how well the bulb fit up against your g-spot, if you were able to orgasm from the g-spot stimulation, etc...
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Antipova , Rawhide
2
deceased , dv8 , lolsos , Shellz31 , DreamWolf , P3ngu1n78 , Cat E.
7
deceased , zracer , Ratito
3
deceased , It's a Hooker! , Highmaintenancegirl916 , Incendiaire
4
deceased , Liz
2
deceased , Kinky Kitty , deltalima , thatonegirl , moonlitlilly , ellejay , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , SexyStuff , Herper , Solar Ray , Lio , sixfootsex , Lady Marmelade , Miss T , Drifter86 , potstickers , ichwillwaffels , BadgersRose , fymenfolk , Lolla Munz , chidoll , ~Brittany~ , jay28 , Gunsmoke , callsignhusker , The Curious Couple , Kaltir , uu , Virgulino , Devz , Kinky Ella , MirelleDion , darthkitt3n , sarki , Pixel , CAKES , Ghost , BabyL0ve , Howells , Ninja Bunny , sktb0007 , cheetahpita , Dr Anal , SiNn , Beck , Girly Girl , NycRuby , Sohotdinosaur , jedent , tlaskowski , Jon S , Mew , MR Chickhabit , Bignuf , Apirka , lcl169 , sweetpea12 , Highmaintenancegirl916 , Missmarc , kroucena , True Pleasures , MissCandyland , ghalik , Falsepast , unfulfilled , ashboo32 , tequilafish
67
deceased
1
deceased
1
deceased , XXXXXXXXXXXXX , deltalima , ellejay
4
deceased , deae04 , geliebt
3
deceased , liilii080 , Beck
3
MR Chickhabit , True Pleasures
2
Total votes: 99 (84 voters)
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deceased deceased
They have all provided adequate stimulation to my G spot, but I find all but the Tango easy to retain without a harness . I prefer the Share shape best for the driver's stimulation.
09/11/2009
ichwillwaffels ichwillwaffels
Quote:
Originally posted by LiftedUp
For the poll, if you thought that a particular dildo provided you with adequate g-spot stimulation, please select it. Note that you can select more than one, if you have tried more than one, and they all met the criteria.

If you have used ...
I think Share has just the right shape
03/30/2011
callsignhusker callsignhusker
Pink is just too cute!
04/21/2011
Girly Girl Girly Girl
pink!!
11/24/2011
MR Chickhabit MR Chickhabit
double headed veined 18" in black made of pvc rubber.


I love this toy, and i approve of this thread wholeheartedly. maybe we can use it to my advantage and convince vixen to make a vixskin double ended toy.

if they did that, id buy directly from them at whatever cost, because i would want to thank them for such creating/selling such an amazing toy.
11/25/2011
sweetpea12 sweetpea12
Quote:
Originally posted by LiftedUp
For the poll, if you thought that a particular dildo provided you with adequate g-spot stimulation, please select it. Note that you can select more than one, if you have tried more than one, and they all met the criteria.

If you have used ...
The share pink looks really pretty!!
02/15/2012
joja joja
Wow, thanks so much for this thread! Super useful information.
02/15/2012
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Share pink looks lovely.
03/11/2012
DreamWolf DreamWolf
Share...
04/06/2012
True Pleasures True Pleasures
I definitely prefer Share, but the Realdoe is great, too.
04/06/2012
Cat E. Cat E.
I'd get the Share one.
02/08/2013
Total posts: 12
Unique posters: 12
LiftedUp LiftedUp
For the poll, if you thought that a particular dildo provided you with adequate clitoral stimulation, based on the pleasurable rubbing of nubs/ridges while your were thrusting (as the DRIVER) please select it. Note that you can select more than one, if you have tried more than one, and they all met the criteria.

If you have used multiple dildos from this list, please post some details to compare and contrast your experiences with them in terms of which one provided the best clitoral stimulation for you. If you have only used one, please specify which one you have used, and how well you thought it worked. Please try to include details such as if you are able to orgasm as the driver, solely from the ridges rubbing you while you thrust.
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
deceased , XXXXXXXXXXXXX , dv8 , moonlitlilly , SexyStuff , ellejay , Lio , sixfootsex , Lady Marmelade , Miss T , potstickers , zracer , Solar Ray , liilii080 , callsignhusker , The Curious Couple , Kaltir , uu , It's a Hooker! , lolsos , jay28 , Shellz31 , Kinky Ella , MirelleDion , sarki , CAKES , Ghost , Howells , Powder , cheetahpita , Dr Anal , SiNn , geliebt , sktb0007 , Mew , DreamWolf , MissCandyland , Falsepast , unfulfilled , Incendiaire , ashboo32
41
Virgulino
1
deceased , XXXXXXXXXXXXX , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , BadgersRose , Gunsmoke , Highmaintenancegirl916
6
Lady Marmelade , Missmarc
2
Total votes: 50 (47 voters)
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deceased deceased
Share has a longer clit pad with more ridges. Its not just bumping against you, its massaging.
09/11/2009
callsignhusker callsignhusker
Share just has a more ergonomic shape
04/21/2011
SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by LiftedUp
For the poll, if you thought that a particular dildo provided you with adequate clitoral stimulation, based on the pleasurable rubbing of nubs/ridges while your were thrusting (as the DRIVER) please select it. Note that you can select more than one, ...
the share for sure for the reaosns ppl already mentioned
09/01/2011
DreamWolf DreamWolf
Share XL...
04/06/2012
Total posts: 5
Unique posters: 5
LiftedUp LiftedUp
For the poll, if you thought that a particular dildo provided you with adequate vibration as the DRIVER, please select it. Note that you can select more than one, if you have tried more than one, and they all met the criteria.

If you have used multiple dildos from this list, please post some details to compare and contrast your experiences with them in terms of which one provided the best clitoral stimulation for you. If you have only used one, please specify which one you have used, and how well you thought it worked. Please try to include details such as if you are able to orgasm as the driver, solely from the vibrations transmitted through the dildo, and how strongly you felt them throughout the various areas of your anatomy.
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
dv8 , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , ellejay , Lio , sixfootsex , Lady Marmelade , Miss T , potstickers , zracer , Solar Ray , The Curious Couple , Kaltir , uu , lolsos , jay28 , Shellz31 , Kinky Ella , MirelleDion , sarki , CAKES , Ghost , Howells , Dr Anal , SiNn , geliebt , sktb0007 , Jon S , Mew , Highmaintenancegirl916 , Missmarc , DreamWolf , MissCandyland , unfulfilled , Incendiaire , ashboo32
35
deceased , Virgulino , Ratito
3
BadgersRose , Highmaintenancegirl916
2
It's a Hooker!
1
Lady Marmelade , liilii080
2
Total votes: 43 (41 voters)
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deceased deceased
Maximus seemed to transmit vibrations best from the bullet which was located under the "coupler" area.
09/11/2009
SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by LiftedUp
For the poll, if you thought that a particular dildo provided you with adequate vibration as the DRIVER, please select it. Note that you can select more than one, if you have tried more than one, and they all met the criteria.

If you have ...
feeldoe more for sure
09/01/2011
DreamWolf DreamWolf
Feeldoe more...
04/06/2012
Total posts: 4
Unique posters: 4
LiftedUp LiftedUp
For the poll, if you thought that a particular dildo provided you with adequate vibration as the RECEIVER (male or female) please select it. Note that you can select more than one, if you have tried more than one, and they all met the criteria.

If you have used multiple dildos from this list, please post some details to compare and contrast your experiences with them in terms of which one provided the best vibrations for you. If you have only used one, please specify which one you have used, and how well you thought it worked. Please try to include details such as how strongly you feel the vibrations while receiving, if they are noticeable enough at the tip to stimulate the g-spot or p-spot of the receiver, or just at the base to stimulate the area of penetration.
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , SexyStuff , Lio , sixfootsex , Lady Marmelade , Miss T , zracer , Solar Ray , callsignhusker , It's a Hooker! , The Curious Couple , Shellz31 , Kinky Ella , sarki , Dr Anal , SiNn , Howells , sktb0007 , Mew , Missmarc , DreamWolf , unfulfilled , Incendiaire
23
Powder
1
dv8 , ellejay , Lady Marmelade , potstickers , BadgersRose , uu , Virgulino , lolsos , MirelleDion , CAKES , Ghost , SiNn , geliebt , MissCandyland , ashboo32
15
Ratito
1
Lady Marmelade
1
Total votes: 41 (38 voters)
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ScottA ScottA
None of them really vibrate very well for the getter. A bullet in the base just isn't strong enough to go to the tip.

The buzz is not super intense but still pleasant when fully inserted in most of the vibrating ones I've tried, but I have come to the conclusion that the vibe is mostly for the giver, and the giver's reactions are what get the getter off.
08/17/2010
SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by LiftedUp
For the poll, if you thought that a particular dildo provided you with adequate vibration as the RECEIVER (male or female) please select it. Note that you can select more than one, if you have tried more than one, and they all met the ...
i only know about the share adn feeldoe
09/01/2011
DreamWolf DreamWolf
Share XL...
04/06/2012
Total posts: 4
Unique posters: 4
LiftedUp LiftedUp
For the poll, if you thought that a particular dildo provided you with adequate p-spot stimulation as the RECEIVER please select it. Note that you can select more than one, if you have tried more than one, and they all met the criteria.

If you have used multiple dildos from this list, please post some details to compare and contrast your experiences with them in terms of which one provided the best p-spot stimulation for you. If you have only used one, please specify which one you have used, and how well you thought it worked. Please try to include details such as how well the angle/curve of the dildo worked, if it was long enough, etc...
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Afrodisiac , geliebt
2
dv8 , dhig , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , ellejay , Lio , sixfootsex , Lady Marmelade , potstickers , zracer , Solar Ray , uu , It's a Hooker! , lolsos , The Curious Couple , Shellz31 , Kinky Ella , MirelleDion , darthkitt3n , sarki , Ghost , Powder , Dr Anal , SiNn , Howells , sktb0007 , Mew , DreamWolf , unfulfilled , Incendiaire , ashboo32
30
BadgersRose , fymenfolk , Gunsmoke , Virgulino , Ratito , CAKES
6
navigator-d
1
Total votes: 39 (39 voters)
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ScottA ScottA
Of the two I've tried (Tango and Nexus Maximus) they both do an adequate job. Share XL looks like it would really do a number on the P-spot, though.
09/13/2009
LiftedUp LiftedUp
Good to know, and thanks for the info ScottA. I wonder why your choices for this poll didn't show up though? Did you remember to vote for this particular topic?

Thanks!
09/21/2009
ScottA ScottA
Quote:
Originally posted by LiftedUp
Good to know, and thanks for the info ScottA. I wonder why your choices for this poll didn't show up though? Did you remember to vote for this particular topic?

Thanks!
Late reply: I didn't vote because I only have a few of the toys. The XL is just conjecture, and I haven't tried a Feeldoe yet.
08/17/2010
fymenfolk fymenfolk
I've tried only the standard share, not the XL, but it definitely stimulated my P-Spot a LOT. I'm tentative about trying the XL because it seems like the ridges would tire the anal sphincter more quickly.
04/07/2011
DreamWolf DreamWolf
Share XL...
04/06/2012
Total posts: 6
Unique posters: 4
LiftedUp LiftedUp
For the poll, if you thought that a particular dildo provided you with adequate g-spot stimulation as the RECEIVER please select it. Note that you can select more than one, if you have tried more than one, and they all met the criteria.

If you have used multiple dildos from this list, please post some details to compare and contrast your experiences with them in terms of which one provided the best g-spot stimulation for you. If you have only used one, please specify which one you have used, and how well you thought it worked. Please try to include details such as how well the angle/curve of the dildo worked, if it was long enough, etc...
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
dv8 , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , SexyStuff , ellejay , Lio , sixfootsex , Lady Marmelade , Miss T , potstickers , zracer , Solar Ray , uu , It's a Hooker! , Ratito , lolsos , Shellz31 , The Curious Couple , Kinky Ella , MirelleDion , CAKES , sarki , Ghost , Dr Anal , SiNn , Howells , sktb0007 , Mew , DreamWolf , unfulfilled , Incendiaire , ashboo32
31
Virgulino , geliebt
2
BadgersRose , ghalik
2
Total votes: 35 (35 voters)
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DreamWolf DreamWolf
Share XL...
04/06/2012
Total posts: 2
Unique posters: 2
LiftedUp LiftedUp
For the poll, if you thought that a particular dildo performed adequately WITHOUT A HARNESS please select it. Note that you can select more than one, if you have tried more than one, and they all met the criteria. Alternatively, you can select NONE, if you haven't found one that worked well without a harness yet.

If you have used multiple dildos from this list, please post some details to compare and contrast your experiences with them in terms of which ones best for you. If you have only used one, please specify which one you have used, and how well you thought it worked. Please try to include details such as how well you were able to retain the dildo as the driver during use, if you thought that the dildo was rigid enough to provide adequate control during thrusting, etc...
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
deceased , dv8 , moonlitlilly , ellejay , Lio , sixfootsex , Lady Marmelade , Miss T , potstickers , jay28 , The Curious Couple , Shellz31 , Kinky Ella , MirelleDion , sarki , Ghost , Powder , Dr Anal , SiNn , Howells , sktb0007 , Mew , DreamWolf , unfulfilled , ashboo32
25
deceased , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , ellejay , Solar Ray , zracer , uu , Virgulino , It's a Hooker! , CAKES
9
Ratito
1
deceased , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , BadgersRose
3
deceased
1
deceased
1
deceased
1
deceased
1
deceased , SexyStuff , Lady Marmelade , lolsos
4
Total votes: 46 (36 voters)
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deceased deceased
The Maximus was too slick and "bouncy " to stay in. Share was floppy, but stayed in because of its matte surface, and maybe because of its saddle shape as well.
09/11/2009
DreamWolf DreamWolf
Share XL...
04/06/2012
Total posts: 3
Unique posters: 3
LiftedUp LiftedUp
In an attempt to keep this entire topic organized for clarity and simplicity, any other thoughts/information/q uestions/discussions you have as a user, or a potential buyer should go in this section. If you feel the need to share additional information on your experience with one of the products that wasn't covered in the other sections, please post it here. If you have specific questions as a buyer, that weren't covered in other areas of this topic, please post them here.

Thanks for you participation everyone!
09/10/2009
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Kuuipogal,
A lot of good information there. Thanks for participating, and providing your feedback. Would you say that the share is your favorite among the choices? Or do you enjoy different ones for different reasons? If you could only have one, which one would you keep?

Thanks again!
09/11/2009
spicywife spicywife
We've been wanting to order one but we're still on the fence about it. I've heard that some of them can be hard for the woman to keep in. The only definitive way to know if it works for us would be to try one though, of course
09/16/2009
LiftedUp LiftedUp
Thanks for the reply spicywife. Truth be told, we're on the fence as well, and that is one of the main reasons I got the idea to start this thread. I kept reading several other threads, and often found them to be lacking information, or outdated, so was hoping that this thread would really take off to answer all the questions that potential buyers like you and I have.

I know that often these threads take time to get established, and collect the valuable info though. I guess I'm going to have to try and be patient and continue waiting, hoping it will take off!
09/17/2009
ScottA ScottA
I think the big question to ask first is whether you want a vibrator or not, because wanting a vibrator limits your choices somewhat (Nexus Maximus, Feeldoes and Tango are the only ones with a vibrator)

From that you then look at whether you want G-spot stimulation or not, as some designs offer more G-spot stimulation than others (Share is probably at the "high stim" end and the Nexus line at the lower end (more of a thrusting action), but as Kuuipogal notes they all give a bit of stimulation to the "G"
09/17/2009
joja joja
Thanks for this thread! I've had my eye on the Share for a while, and had a lot of questions about its use. The polls have been really helpful.
08/16/2010
Spilock Spilock
This really is an excellent poll. Lots of good info here.
04/08/2011
deae04 deae04
Thanks for compiling this thread. Veryy useful, though I would include the Realdoe in compared products also.

If anyone has used multiple of these different brands (or even the difference between Realdoe and Feeldoe), which of them is the squishiest? For lack of a more scientific term.

I love my Feeldoe, but I keep envying the Vixskins for their softness. However, I doubt Vixskin is going to team up with Tantus anytime soon. The O2 material is a possibility, but, from reviews, it doesn't seem to measure up to the Vixskin.
08/30/2011
DreamWolf DreamWolf
I have never tried any of them but the ones I voted for seem to be the best by what I have read about them...
04/06/2012
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Unique posters: 7