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Contributor: Madeira Madeira 09/29/2010

So, I'd like to buy a sexy little something for my girlfriend. Her style isn't hyper frilly-pink-girly, but she's by no means butch, I suppose she's got a sort of punk rock bad girl thing going stylistically, and I dig it. Of course I personally really love rococo and edwardian frilliness so I'm having some trouble deciding what to get her (because I'm not sure if I'm catering to her taste or my own) and I'm not sure if I should cater to her taste or my own... hehe. Of course, she's also my domme, and so I don't want to buy anything that screams "submissive" for her, at risk of offending her... then again that might get me punished so perhaps I should... but no, I should probably buy her something she'll like, I can always make her wait for dinner if I want to get punished hehe.

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Which of these do you think she'd like best? (59 posts)
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Which of these would look best do you think? (15 posts)
Contributor: Madeira Madeira
Any opinion on which of these my girlfriend (punky, dominant, bad ass but girly) would like?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Yoda , Matty1980 , K101 , CAKES , Ninja Wolf , CSEA , konicaguy , Tata13
8
Kayla , mllebeauty , moomoo89 , Chevylady37 , cinnie0 , dragons , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , DCorrelle , KatPawz2003 , Dr Anal , IslandGoddess , Pink Jewel , Miss Anonymous , BoobCopter , deltalima
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~LaUr3n~ , Naughty Student , Persephone Nightmare , sasweetheart89 , Twist , fghjkl , liilii080 , BluePixi , Sexymami69 , Angel deSanguine , Tart , VenusianThunder , ichwillwaffels , tim1724 , Miss T , al16 , married with children , Joie de Cherresse , Shellz31 , tickle me pink , yoham45 , Dyma , Virgulino , Lady Venus , Ghost , dhig , Screen Door , TheHardOne , domsub1993 , EvilHomer , Peggi , ToyBoy , DreamWolf , Checkmate , SMichelle , pokefan15 , roskat , BlooJay , indiechick , beautifulbombshellVI , Stinkytofu10 , GONE! , chantalgiardina , glasskitten , Falsepast , padmeamidala , Firemenlafd2
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Selective Sensualist , Kayla , mllebeauty , beautifulpierced , Persephone Nightmare , Alegria , Hot'n'Bothered , sbon , Lif3sambiguity , rdytogo , potstickers , 7Miles , Sexymami69 , Moein , darthkitt3n , KnK , Lady Marmelade , newlady , girl next door , 0 , AYoungMan , tim1724 , KatPawz2003 , tickle me pink , It's a Hooker! , Mary-Anne-Xun , mb , Gunsmoke , toxie m , ily , slynch , Howells , Vegan Silk , SiNn , Jon S , Angewin , CSEA , ToyBoy , -BillD , Mew , collifornia , unfulfilled , Geogeo , Deeder , Missmarc , hybridinsurge , Charry , glasskitten , XxXxX , Vaginas , karenm , Lioncub , ashboo32
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Selective Sensualist , Alegria , Avant-garde , potstickers , KatPawz2003 , jay28 , Jolana Tredes , Powder , Vegan Silk
9
~LaUr3n~ , Andromeda , Joie de Cherresse , Beck , Eugler
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~LaUr3n~ , Andromeda , lamira , Naughty Student , clp , Not here , Persephone Nightmare , Sir , sasweetheart89 , Alegria , Midway through , Hot'n'Bothered , KaydeLoves , sbon , dv8 , kinky girlfriend , Harlequin , C4ss , pinkcupcakes , The Awesome Penguin , Misfit Momma , guard083 , Sunrise , Orion , 7Miles , markeagleone , BluePixi , Janis , Lio , TexasFire , Angel deSanguine , REDRUM , BBW Talks Toys , KnK , LavenderSkies , girl next door , tim1724 , lkb , sixfootsex , Solar Ray , The Curious Couple , Lily Night , tickle me pink , GravyCakes , w-o-name , Lolla Munz , uu , Dyma , AgnesTrevejo , Judas Iscars , mb , lolsos , Nando , Reyes , zracer , chidoll , ily , slynch , Ninja Wolf , Vegan Silk , dhig , ThoughtsAblaze , CSEA , Breas , badk1tty , LittleBoPeep , Peggi , ToyBoy , fifi , Mew , Piña Colada , collifornia , AlianneCimorene , mmmmm , Missmarc , mpfm , GONE! , PropertyOfPotter , Charry , GirlOnGirl , XxXxX , True Pleasures , Martiniman , SecretKinksters , FLIPxMODE , surreptitious , Incendiaire , novanilla
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Andromeda , Selective Sensualist , Kayla , Sir , KaydeLoves , kinky girlfriend , kawigrl , Janis , KnK , girl next door , 0 , tim1724 , Joie de Cherresse , jay28 , Vegan Silk , dhig , Peggi , Master DarkWolf , Hallmar82 , amazon , GONE! , hybridinsurge
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LikeSunshineDust , Naughty Student , Persephone Nightmare , Alegria , meganthomas , potstickers , 7Miles , lkb , wetone123 , KatPawz2003 , TameTemptress , MissCandyland , wdanas , hybridinsurge , cj89
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Total votes: 262 (188 voters)
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Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
Knowing size would help too. I see the S, M tags but like bust size would help me better help you. Stylistically the ones I chose are my top three based on what you said.
09/29/2010
Contributor: Andromeda Andromeda
Out of the ones I voted on, I'd rank the Wet Look Booty Shorts first, hands down. It sounds like your girlfriend and I have similar styles, and those are my absolute FAVORITE. They're so versatile and sooooooooo sexy.
09/29/2010
Contributor: lamira lamira
I love the military style. It makes me feel independent and dominant and powerful, and yet very sexy. I'd imagine, from the description of your girlfriend, that she would like it too.
10/01/2010
Contributor: Not here Not here
I voted for the Darque military costume not only because I love it, but it screams Dominant Woman to me! Based on the way you described your girlfriend, it seems like it would be the best option for her, both fit and style-wise. It will allow for some really kinky drill sergeant role-playing, and has a lot of pieces so she can tease you by taking each piece off slowly. Perfect, in my opinion, and now I really want to order it for myself
10/09/2010
Contributor: clp clp
You have some pretty nice options in there. Any of them would be fantastic if she likes the girly touch, but I do suggest to get something that caters to her personal tastes--if she is wearing it and uncomfortable, it will be obvious and probably not the the mood going.

I would second-vote the wet look boyshorts with the Belle de Jour bustier!

On a related note--have you seen the trick bondage belt? If your honey has a punk style, she may like it!
10/09/2010
Contributor: Sir Sir
The Darque Military dress and the booty shorts, definitely. Those are very sexy and might fit her style perfectly.
10/09/2010
Contributor: sbon sbon
I agree that military might suit her personality the best, especially if she likes to be dominant. Good luck!
11/04/2010
Contributor: fghjkl fghjkl
The bow mesh corset is super pretty!
12/03/2010
Contributor: sophie2229 sophie2229
I don't have any, but they all look good!
12/17/2010
Contributor: The Awesome Penguin The Awesome Penguin
All look so fun!
12/29/2010
Contributor: Matty1980 Matty1980
Quote:
Originally posted by Madeira
Any opinion on which of these my girlfriend (punky, dominant, bad ass but girly) would like?
Im looking to suprise my girl to...turns out not so easy. lol
01/02/2011
Contributor: guard083 guard083
the military looks like it would fit ore to the punk, bad ass sort. Nothing too frilly and light and lacey but dont offend her by getting something too lacey light and girly but all dont offend her by getting something just dark and boring. I think it would be perfect for her
01/03/2011
Contributor: 123 123
Quote:
Originally posted by Madeira
Any opinion on which of these my girlfriend (punky, dominant, bad ass but girly) would like?
something black
01/08/2011
Contributor: liilii080 liilii080
I love the bow mesh corset. So sexy.
01/16/2011
Contributor: DancerLove DancerLove
Quote:
Originally posted by Madeira
Any opinion on which of these my girlfriend (punky, dominant, bad ass but girly) would like?
I'd go with the corset.
01/29/2011
Contributor: KnK KnK
Hands down, darque military girl!
01/29/2011
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by Madeira
Any opinion on which of these my girlfriend (punky, dominant, bad ass but girly) would like?
Darque military girl
02/03/2011
Contributor: ichwillwaffels ichwillwaffels
Quote:
Originally posted by Madeira
Any opinion on which of these my girlfriend (punky, dominant, bad ass but girly) would like?
I absolutely love the Bow mesh corset. Its probably my favorite piece of lingerie.
03/03/2011
Contributor: al16 al16
The bow mesh corset just looks to me like lingerie for a woman who knows what she's doing.
03/08/2011
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
I'd love the Bow Mesh corset!
04/17/2011
Contributor: kawigrl kawigrl
which one did you end up getting?
05/04/2011
Contributor: w-o-name w-o-name
military one is cute
05/04/2011
Contributor: Lady Marmelade Lady Marmelade
Belle De Jour bustier and Military.
05/06/2011
Contributor: yoham45 yoham45
Bow mesh corset is beautiful.
05/06/2011
Contributor: Dr Anal Dr Anal
I am a big fan of bootyshorts especially wet look ones, but teddies are sexy too
08/25/2011
Contributor: Beck Beck
I was not a fan of the bow corset! I sent it back, I think the leopard one is hott!
08/31/2011
Contributor: Miss Anonymous Miss Anonymous
I think the mesh and bow is the best!
09/05/2011
Contributor: Screen Door Screen Door
I have the bow mesh, BEST THING EVER.
09/07/2011
Contributor: TheHardOne TheHardOne
I like the Bow mesh corset. But if your not sure on the size I would go with Lace and mesh babydoll with g-string. More room for error.
09/07/2011
Contributor: badk1tty badk1tty
Military one is H.O.T.
10/14/2011
Contributor: Master DarkWolf Master DarkWolf
Wet look booty shorts.
04/24/2012
Contributor: DreamWolf DreamWolf
Quote:
Originally posted by Master DarkWolf
Wet look booty shorts.
Bow mesh corset!
04/24/2012
Contributor: Hallmar82 Hallmar82
Get a whole set of Wet Look! It'll look better with the top and shorts!
04/24/2012
Contributor: CindyH CindyH
Belle De Jour bustier
04/25/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
The Darque military looks nice. As does the bow mesh corset, belle de jour bustier.

I don't like my wet look booty shorts, they were unflattering.
04/25/2012
Contributor: roskat roskat
Can't go wrong with a corset for a domme so I'd pick the Bow mesh corset. But the Darque military outfit is hot too.
04/25/2012
Contributor: amazon amazon
The new wet look is hot!
07/08/2012
Contributor: indiechick indiechick
Quote:
Originally posted by Madeira
Any opinion on which of these my girlfriend (punky, dominant, bad ass but girly) would like?
I have had my eyes on the bow mesh corset for awhile now
07/08/2012
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
I think the Bow Mesh and the Satin Gathered Chemise are pretty!
07/08/2012
Contributor: mmmmm mmmmm
Darque military girl is cute
07/08/2012
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Quote:
Originally posted by Madeira
Any opinion on which of these my girlfriend (punky, dominant, bad ass but girly) would like?
I think you should get the Bow mesh corset (S).
07/08/2012
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by Madeira
Any opinion on which of these my girlfriend (punky, dominant, bad ass but girly) would like?
I think Darque military girl (SM) looks the best.
07/08/2012
Contributor: konicaguy konicaguy
Quote:
Originally posted by Madeira
Any opinion on which of these my girlfriend (punky, dominant, bad ass but girly) would like?
Stretch teddy! Easier to get into, if you know what I mean
07/09/2012
Contributor: hybridinsurge hybridinsurge
I'd go with the Belle De Jour or the Wetlook shorts.
07/09/2012
Contributor: Claire-Bear Claire-Bear
The belle de jour is gorgeous.
07/09/2012
Contributor: chantalgiardina chantalgiardina
Quote:
Originally posted by Madeira
Any opinion on which of these my girlfriend (punky, dominant, bad ass but girly) would like?
Bow mesh corset (S)
07/09/2012
Contributor: Charry Charry
Awesome! I'd say Belle De Jour.
07/09/2012
Contributor: GirlOnGirl GirlOnGirl
the Darque military girl
10/03/2012
Contributor: cj89 cj89
like the chemise
10/14/2012
Contributor: True Pleasures True Pleasures
I like the Darque military girl.
10/14/2012
Contributor: Vaginas Vaginas
they're all so cute
10/15/2012
Contributor: FLIPxMODE FLIPxMODE
military
03/11/2013
Contributor: karenm karenm
The Belle De Jour bustier.
03/11/2013
Contributor: surreptitious surreptitious
(Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by Madeira
Any opinion on which of these my girlfriend (punky, dominant, bad ass but girly) would like?
I love the darque costumes. It's a shame that they're being discontinued right now.
03/11/2013
Contributor: padmeamidala padmeamidala
Quote:
Originally posted by Madeira
Any opinion on which of these my girlfriend (punky, dominant, bad ass but girly) would like?
Bow mesh corset
03/11/2013
Contributor: Firemenlafd2 Firemenlafd2
Quote:
Originally posted by Madeira
Any opinion on which of these my girlfriend (punky, dominant, bad ass but girly) would like?
bow mesh corset
03/12/2013
Contributor: Eugler Eugler
I just fell in love with the Leopard camigarter and panty.
03/13/2013
Contributor: ashboo32 ashboo32
belle
03/13/2013
Contributor: Madeira Madeira
My girlfriend is petite 5'3, slim, and busty (d cup) with narrow hips. She's pale, with long dark hair, and blue eyes. Any idea what would be most flattering?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , BoobCopter
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~LaUr3n~ , Naughty Student , Coralbell , sasweetheart89 , fghjkl , rdytogo , liilii080 , Lio , Sexymami69 , pinkcupcakes , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , girl next door , tim1724 , Solar Ray , Joie de Cherresse , The Curious Couple , tickle me pink , 0 , kawigrl , uu , yoham45 , Dyma , Mary-Anne-Xun , Judas Iscars , mb , lolsos , Reyes , zracer , Ghost , Howells , IslandGoddess , Breas , ToyBoy , -BillD , Jon S , collifornia , Master DarkWolf , DreamWolf , SMichelle , roskat , AlianneCimorene , Stinkytofu10 , Missmarc , GONE! , hybridinsurge , MissCandyland , chantalgiardina , glasskitten , Falsepast , Incendiaire
50
Lady Marmelade , tickle me pink , It's a Hooker! , ily , hybridinsurge , glasskitten
6
Selective Sensualist , Alegria
2
Joie de Cherresse , toxie m
2
Not here , dv8 , Angel deSanguine , girl next door , Lady Marmelade , tickle me pink , kawigrl , ily , GONE! , SecretKinksters , surreptitious
11
Andromeda , Lady Marmelade , Joie de Cherresse , kawigrl , Lolla Munz , GONE! , hybridinsurge
7
Alegria , meganthomas , potstickers , pinkcupcakes , girl next door , wetone123 , kawigrl , Nando , wdanas , BoobCopter
10
Total votes: 90 (69 voters)
Poll is open
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Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
That's my top choice. I own it too.
09/29/2010
Contributor: Andromeda Andromeda
I'm the same height, also petite, although not as busty. But with the booty shorts you don't have to worry about the bust Seriously, they really are great. They can be worn with the garters and stockings or fishnets, or without the garters. They look awesome with heels or with boots, and they can be paired with any top or no top at all!

Plus, anything dark colored will further enhance her fair skin and bring out her blue eyes ^^
09/29/2010
Contributor: fghjkl fghjkl
Still the bow mesh corset haha. I thought it was kinda weird looking at first but then Lauren did a really awesome review on it and I was sold.
12/03/2010
Contributor: liilii080 liilii080
To me a corset screams sexy. And, she can wear it out too.
01/16/2011
Contributor: Sexymami69 Sexymami69
I say corset and the de jour bustier, super sexy, but not girly sexy, and why get one? Two more fun
01/23/2011
Contributor: Judas Iscars Judas Iscars
I like them all!
05/05/2011
Contributor: Master DarkWolf Master DarkWolf
Bow mesh corset.
04/24/2012
Contributor: DreamWolf DreamWolf
Quote:
Originally posted by Master DarkWolf
Bow mesh corset.
Yep!
04/24/2012
Contributor: roskat roskat
I'd still choose the corset. I think it would suit her frame. And most people.
04/25/2012
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Quote:
Originally posted by Madeira
My girlfriend is petite 5'3, slim, and busty (d cup) with narrow hips. She's pale, with long dark hair, and blue eyes. Any idea what would be most flattering?
I think the Bow mesh corset (S) would look the best
07/08/2012
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by Madeira
My girlfriend is petite 5'3, slim, and busty (d cup) with narrow hips. She's pale, with long dark hair, and blue eyes. Any idea what would be most flattering?
I think Bow mesh corset (S) looks the best.
07/08/2012
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
I would wear the bow mesh.
07/09/2012
Contributor: karenm karenm
The Bow mesh corset.
03/11/2013
Contributor: surreptitious surreptitious
(Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by Madeira
My girlfriend is petite 5'3, slim, and busty (d cup) with narrow hips. She's pale, with long dark hair, and blue eyes. Any idea what would be most flattering?
I think that corsets are never the most flattering choice for a busty girl. I find that they just flatten me and cause me to spill over.
03/11/2013