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Would surprising my fiance with a new outfit be a great idea...

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Contributor: minny minny
just wanna try something new
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yes
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no
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15  (18%)
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Total votes: 83
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Contributor: sbon sbon
I think it depends on her personality. If she's usually open to surprises and likes trying new outfits, I think it would be a good surprise!
11/08/2010
Contributor: Sera Sera
I think it sounds like a great idea.
11/08/2010
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
I think spicing things up is always a good idea.
11/08/2010
Contributor: Selective Sensualist Selective Sensualist
It depends on whether or not you can currently afford it. If not, then no matter how nice the outfit is, the strain caused by the debt to obtain it would far outweigh any of the benefits. If he is upset by it (worrying about the additional load to the finances), then he is not likely to find it sexy at all.

But if you can afford it and finances are not a concern, then sure!
11/08/2010
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
That's also true.

If the above aren't concerns, then sure.


I can't imagine any fiancee not enjoying you making effort for them.
11/08/2010
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
I don't see why not, unless like SS said, it would strain your finances.

I tend to get more excited about my new sexy outfits than My Man does. "Yeah, it's sexy, take it off." is the best compliment I usually get. Once, when I wore a long line cincher type bra, with a ton of hook and eye closures on the back he said, "You look really sexy. I know it took you a long time to put that thing on. Can you please take it off now?"

At least stockings and garter belts can stay on while you have sex. No problem there.
11/08/2010
Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
For me, yes. If I was presented with something that my partner would love to see me in, I'd totally love it.
11/08/2010
Contributor: bzzingbee bzzingbee
I agree with Selective Sensualist, great point! In my experience, they always love a new little outfit .
11/08/2010
Contributor: RosesThorns RosesThorns
I think its a good idea, as long as the other person is into it...
11/08/2010
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Unqualified yes - what's the worse thing that can happen? Take the risk!
11/09/2010
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Unqualified yes - what's the worse thing that can happen? Take the risk!
11/09/2010
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
My boyfriend loves the little outfits, but I think I adore them more.
11/10/2010
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
I would personally go for it. It is somewhat of a shame when some guys just prefer nudity - especially when you go to the trouble of dressing sexy. As long as it still makes yourself feel sexy.
11/10/2010
Contributor: Lif3sambiguity Lif3sambiguity
spice it up lady
11/10/2010
Contributor: AU AU
Depends on your fiance! Depends on what kind of outfit!

For us, sexy bedroom outfits are awkward. My partner might really like the idea of them on me, but the application doesn't work as planned. Particularly with outfits that make access more difficult. We like things to feel less planned and more spontaneous. But if that sort of play isn't weird for you, if you can afford it (remember, you have a range of options!) go for it. Have fun!
11/11/2010
Contributor: kitti kitti
try doing it.. nothing bad can happen.
11/12/2010
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
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Originally posted by AU
Depends on your fiance! Depends on what kind of outfit!

For us, sexy bedroom outfits are awkward. My partner might really like the idea of them on me, but the application doesn't work as planned. Particularly with outfits that make ... more
Lol, yes..
Corsets aren't meant for immediate sexy time
11/25/2010
Contributor: Hallmar82 Hallmar82
I suggest a slick, sleek, sexy babydoll - always a safe bet!
11/25/2010
Contributor: Kimbertrees Kimbertrees
It depends...
11/25/2010
Contributor: fghjkl fghjkl
Always a great idea!
11/27/2010
Contributor: KnK KnK
Have fun! Be sexy and frisky! Who doesn't like adding a little spice to their love life? Dead people, that's who.
11/28/2010
Contributor: Trashley Trashley
Quote:
Originally posted by Selective Sensualist
It depends on whether or not you can currently afford it. If not, then no matter how nice the outfit is, the strain caused by the debt to obtain it would far outweigh any of the benefits. If he is upset by it (worrying about the additional load to ... more
I was going to say, who put no to this?! But this is a pretty genuine concern..

:[ Ugh.
But if it's not a problem, go for it! Variety is the spice of life! But then again, if you don't have the money, it's really easy to take an old sweatshirt or shirt or anything, really, and turn it into something sexy :] DIY is best!
11/28/2010
Contributor: heaven360 heaven360
Quote:
Originally posted by minny
just wanna try something new
yesssss
11/28/2010
Contributor: Selective Sensualist Selective Sensualist
Quote:
Originally posted by Trashley
I was going to say, who put no to this?! But this is a pretty genuine concern..

:[ Ugh.
But if it's not a problem, go for it! Variety is the spice of life! But then again, if you don't have the money, it's really easy to take an ... more
I actually selected "maybe," not "no."
12/06/2010
Contributor: 123 123
Quote:
Originally posted by minny
just wanna try something new
yes
01/08/2011
Contributor: guard083 guard083
It's a great way to spice things up for sure. Me and my boyfriend love it but it does get expensive so we have to watch what we buy. If you are both up for trying something new then definately go for it.
01/11/2011
Contributor: ReesaAndBrandon ReesaAndBrandon
Quote:
Originally posted by minny
just wanna try something new
Awesome idea.
01/11/2011
Contributor: C4ss C4ss
Yes, I think it is a great way of spicing things up.
As was said before, if expending some money is not a problem go ahead!
01/16/2011
Contributor: sweet seduction sweet seduction
I just bought one for my anniversary
01/17/2011