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Contributor: Spazydevil Spazydevil
I'm a virgin and well, i don't know what i want or what to look for..I need something to stretch my hymen.Can you advice me something which is not too expensive?
05/08/2008
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Contributor: Jennifer Jennifer
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Originally posted by Spazydevil
I'm a virgin and well, i don't know what i want or what to look for..I need something to stretch my hymen.Can you advice me something which is not too expensive?
This was my first vibe link It is my absolute favorite one, it's very thin, a hard material, easy to keep clean and a good range - from mild vibrations to very strong. I'd advice you to take this one.
05/08/2008
Contributor: Happy Happy
I'd suggest you to look for a toy that is less than half inch at the end, and gradually increases to an inch or a little bit more then that at the base. It worked for me and I think it might work for you too.
05/08/2008
Contributor: Siren Siren
Whatever you choose, you should use it along with a good lubricant, because lube is really a key for sex ! It will make everything much easier!
05/08/2008
Contributor: Always18 Always18
You need to familiarize yourself with penetration, so something fairly narrow might work. I'd say link is the best idea because you can sterilize it.
05/08/2008
Contributor: lesbianlesbian lesbianlesbian
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Originally posted by Jennifer
This was my first vibe link It is my absolute favorite one, it's very thin, a hard material, easy to keep clean and a good range - from mild vibrations to very strong. I'd advice you to take this one.
I was about to recommend this toy!! Easy care, sturdy little workhorse, waterproof, choice of vibrations without complicated functions / use.

Go with the blueberry.
04/30/2011
Contributor: SiNn SiNn
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Originally posted by Spazydevil
I'm a virgin and well, i don't know what i want or what to look for..I need something to stretch my hymen.Can you advice me something which is not too expensive?
those are all great recomendations jennifer def f gave you the best link
06/12/2011
Contributor: x203 x203
start with something narrow and work your way up to it. Lube will help reduce pain as well.
03/10/2012
Contributor: godweensatan godweensatan
small dildo, and your own fingers.... no toy has as much control as your own hand.
03/11/2012
Contributor: Brandonn Brandonn
Do a search for we-vibe salsa. Tiny & powerful
03/11/2012
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
I think the OP is long gone (and hopefully is happily de-virginized ) as this thread is from 2008.

But, there is a good dilator set by Cal Exotics that is perfect for hymen stretching, vaginismus and other issues.

With a set like this, you start at the smallest circumference phallus and go larger as you need.

03/11/2012
Contributor: icyqueen icyqueen
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Originally posted by Spazydevil
I'm a virgin and well, i don't know what i want or what to look for..I need something to stretch my hymen.Can you advice me something which is not too expensive?
Just use your fingers and lube.
03/11/2012
Contributor: godweensatan godweensatan
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Originally posted by icyqueen
Just use your fingers and lube.
i agree
03/12/2012
Contributor: jprince jprince
But, there is a good dilator set by Cal Exotics that is perfect for hymen stretching, vaginismus and other issues.
I agree you need lube and make sure your comfortable and relaxed and remember have fun
03/13/2012
Contributor: KiraC KiraC
I've had a lot of luck with the Remedy Rider. Also, glass is a great material since it glides more easily and is less likely to be painful.

Good Luck!
05/15/2012
Contributor: tigertiger tigertiger
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Originally posted by Spazydevil
I'm a virgin and well, i don't know what i want or what to look for..I need something to stretch my hymen.Can you advice me something which is not too expensive?
well you can always start with your fingers, y'know. the first penetrative vibe i used was jimmyjane's iconic smoothie, which isn't too big and is really easy to get in even without lube. if you want to stretch more than that you can always add in a finger or two along with whatever toy you use
05/15/2012
Contributor: TakeHimAway TakeHimAway
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Originally posted by Spazydevil
I'm a virgin and well, i don't know what i want or what to look for..I need something to stretch my hymen.Can you advice me something which is not too expensive?
I love my Magic Wand, but link this guy is my new favourite for now, and I think you would love it.
05/16/2012