do you prefer to use your vibrator with or without your partner?

Contributor: paralax paralax
i just am interested in finding out the majority of vibrator users answers.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
with partner
36  (20%)
without partner
47  (26%)
doesnt matter. anytime
95  (53%)
Total votes: 178
Poll is closed
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Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Voting for my wife - she doesn't like to use them without me - but she does 'drive the vibe' while I use a dildo for penetration.
09/09/2010
Contributor: Lavender*Moon Lavender*Moon
My reason for needing the vibe is because my hubby isn't there. He doent' like to use them on me because he says I "tire out" quicker.
09/09/2010
Contributor: SexyySarah SexyySarah
It really depends on my mood, I love it with my hubby, then then sometimes I really like it by myself, so it depends
09/09/2010
Contributor: Liz Liz
I usually end up using it by myself, but I'll never turn down the chance to incorporate a toy in partner play. That said, it doesn't happen very often-- no particular reason; we just don't think of it. The exception would be when I'm reviewing a toy, and I want my partner to help me test it.
09/09/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by paralax
i just am interested in finding out the majority of vibrator users answers.
I love it when either of my partners uses a vibe on me and I like using them alone, I'm versatile like that
09/09/2010
Contributor: Jessica Rose Jessica Rose
I'm single and not dating, so... alone, right now! But I wouldn't be opposed to using a toy with a partner if the opportunity arose.
09/09/2010
Contributor: Kina Kina
Quote:
Originally posted by paralax
i just am interested in finding out the majority of vibrator users answers.
Alone.
09/12/2010
Contributor: Kayla Kayla
I much prefer to use it by myself. The boyfriend isn't against using them during sex or anything else.
09/17/2010
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
Either or. I use them alone, and I love it when My Man "drives." He gets into positions that I am not able to on my own. Also, I never know exactly what he is thinking of doing and feeling what he is trying is really a good time.
09/18/2010
Contributor: V.T.T V.T.T
I like both, really. I like to "drive" the vibe though, like others have said. Except, one really hot and fun thing is being immobilized (tied up or held down) and having my partner use the Hitachi on me. YIKES, that is so fun, but really intense!!
09/19/2010
Contributor: bishoujo bishoujo
Quote:
Originally posted by paralax
i just am interested in finding out the majority of vibrator users answers.
For the most part, by myself. Gotta have me time.
09/21/2010
Contributor: Jobthingy Jobthingy
with or without. I am a happy girl either way
09/23/2010
Contributor: YvetteJeannine YvetteJeannine
W/Out. We did try using it together...once. Of course, (I am new to toys, and only have two atm) it was a loud, large Rabbit-style vibe...It.was.just... awkward. I don't know..I didn't even 'get off' from it, and I ALWAYS do when I'm alone. I think maybe a was a lil' bit embarrassed, since it was the very first time we tried a toy. Perhaps when I get something smaller, and less cumbersome, we will try it again
09/23/2010
Contributor: Blinker Blinker
Without. It's too much of a distraction when I'm trying to get him to actually fuck me with his penis.
09/23/2010
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by Blinker
Without. It's too much of a distraction when I'm trying to get him to actually fuck me with his penis.
Try this - I typically use a toy or two to give my wife her first orgasm or two. By then she's ravenous for me to add to her total!
09/23/2010
Contributor: Pandahb Pandahb
Hmm, LTR call for alone time, but together is fun too.
09/24/2010
Contributor: lamira lamira
I think using toys is fun with or without my partner. It doesn't matter to me, as long as I'm pleased.
09/29/2010
Contributor: iceman681 iceman681
for me its boring alone
09/29/2010
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
One of the reasons I don't have a rabbit is that I think it might be difficult, not only to position, but what would My Man do? He likes to go down, when we're using phallic vibrators, dils or anal toys on me. The rabbit types have a clit attachment, (but I doubt any of them are strong enough to finish me) so when we move to the part where I need to come, and haven't from his going down (used to happen ALL the time, now I have a harder time) he "drives" the dil or the phallic vibe or maybe some anal toys, and I "man" the Wahl or the Hitachi until I get where I need to be, then we keep going and the wand vibrator gets tossed aside. It sounds complicated, but once you get the hang of it, you can mostly seamlessly incorporate toys into your regular sex. And, a vaginal toy during anal sex is AMAZING! Either with the vibrations on or off.

We also have sex au naturalisée with no toys, but if we're going all out (and I'm going to Come) we have to grab at least one or two toys.

A couple of weeks ago, I got an order and we had about a dozen toys, and he said, "Let's play with all of them!" So, everything from two of the three new cock rings, the vibes, our old trusty Wahl, a new cord of anal beads (the X-10 Silicon, to replace our last jelly toy) ect got gave some pleasure. We got so into it, we forgot the new tickler. The only thing we didn't use was the new Spartacus leather cock ring and the new nipple clamps. We haven't yet gotten around to those yet. (Still trying to learn how to use the clamps properly, so it will flow nicely and we won't be struggling with them in the middle of having a good time.)
11/10/2010
Contributor: kermi91 kermi91
Quote:
Originally posted by paralax
i just am interested in finding out the majority of vibrator users answers.
I'm down to use it whenever. Whether my girlfriend is around or not. Just depends on my mood.
11/10/2010
Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
Don't matter none.
11/10/2010
Contributor: Taylor Taylor
I've never tried using one with a partner. I'd like to try it, but I need to figure out the best way to bring it up without him being offended.
11/10/2010
Contributor: Twist Twist
Either way....sometimes she likes a solo session other times she wants me to be her little fap toy.
11/13/2010
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
Perhaps I am a control freak but I like to do the driving! But there are times I enjoy my partner using a vibe on my clit. I am on the shallow side so vigorous thrusts with a toy just don't feel all that great.
11/13/2010
Contributor: Kim! Kim!
I tend to not use them with a partner very often. I get caught up and sometimes forget that I have them. However, if we're having anal sex and he suggests I grab something then I will. But yeah, I generally don't think of it and they're more of an enhancement than the main focus for that moment.
11/13/2010
Contributor: Brand Brand
Usually she will play with her vib when I am not home. If I am home she makes me do the work
11/13/2010
Contributor: moonlitlilly moonlitlilly
I normally use it myself, but I would love it if my BF used one on me
11/27/2010
Contributor: PuplePleasures PuplePleasures
Both.
12/04/2010
Contributor: rdytogo rdytogo
Only use it with.
12/05/2010