I just wondered how many straight guys liked this. My boyfriend is into it a lot.
Do you guys (or girls with guy friends alike) like to have strict anal play performed on you at times?
09/29/2010
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What's "strict anal play"?
09/29/2010
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I guessing she means just anal and no switching up? I'm not sure either.
Originally posted by
ScottA
What's "strict anal play"?
09/29/2010
LOL sorry. I guess I should have worded it differently. I meant anal play only like during foreplay.
10/03/2010
Depends on the context. Once I'm "turned on" then anal play without penis stim. is great.
10/03/2010
Anal play during foreplay, and during sex. Anal while using toys, fucking, getting oral, getting a handjob... all of the above. Why limit it to JUST foreplay? I say keep it coming!
10/05/2010
I don't get the word 'strict' - sounds like some sort of controlling or pain. I'm not into any of that but I do enjoy anal play as a part of normal sexual activity. For example it adds a nice touch to a BJ.
10/05/2010
I love it, but not every time.
10/06/2010
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She clarified it - it sounds like she means only anal play for a time, not mixed anal/penile play.
Originally posted by
Gunsmoke
I don't get the word 'strict' - sounds like some sort of controlling or pain. I'm not into any of that but I do enjoy anal play as a part of normal sexual activity. For example it adds a nice touch to a BJ.
10/06/2010
No for us, there is no way I am going there. My boyfriend would like to forget he has an anus.
10/06/2010
I still don't understand what "Strict Anal Play" is. My Man and I are in a D/S relationship and have anal sex regularly, but I don't know what the OP is trying to relate.
"Strict Anal Play" is "only" during "foreplay?" We don't "do foreplay and then the Main Event" Sex starts from the first kiss, the first look, the first touch and we put oral, PIV, manual, toy play where ever and when ever we want during our sex. Anal "play" is used during oral, with him using a plug or his hand or a set of beads on me, (and even occasional light rimming, if nothing else has touched there, to bring down bacteria) and also we often finish "sex" with DP, with a dil plus anal with his penis. If we want to go back and do something else (as I often have more orgasms during anal he may want to go down on me again) we do a quick but through clean up of his penis and hands and my bottom and then we move on to other things.
We don't have an order we do things in, although it's best if I have my first orgasm first, as I will have more as we keep playing. I don't actually understand the concept of "foreplay" all that much, as to us, oral, manual and any anal play is just as fun, sometimes more fun, than PIV sex. We have even "forgotten" to have PIV intercourse at times, because we got caught up in other things, and both got off and then fell asleep or got up for the day, depending on when it is.
The only thing we don't do is anal play for him. He doesn't enjoy anal stimulation, and I honestly have no desire to do it to him (although I think I could learn to like it if HE did) but aside from that, it happens for me, with him as the penetrator, frequently.
I still need clarification of the meaning of the phrase. Sorry.
"Strict Anal Play" is "only" during "foreplay?" We don't "do foreplay and then the Main Event" Sex starts from the first kiss, the first look, the first touch and we put oral, PIV, manual, toy play where ever and when ever we want during our sex. Anal "play" is used during oral, with him using a plug or his hand or a set of beads on me, (and even occasional light rimming, if nothing else has touched there, to bring down bacteria) and also we often finish "sex" with DP, with a dil plus anal with his penis. If we want to go back and do something else (as I often have more orgasms during anal he may want to go down on me again) we do a quick but through clean up of his penis and hands and my bottom and then we move on to other things.
We don't have an order we do things in, although it's best if I have my first orgasm first, as I will have more as we keep playing. I don't actually understand the concept of "foreplay" all that much, as to us, oral, manual and any anal play is just as fun, sometimes more fun, than PIV sex. We have even "forgotten" to have PIV intercourse at times, because we got caught up in other things, and both got off and then fell asleep or got up for the day, depending on when it is.
The only thing we don't do is anal play for him. He doesn't enjoy anal stimulation, and I honestly have no desire to do it to him (although I think I could learn to like it if HE did) but aside from that, it happens for me, with him as the penetrator, frequently.
I still need clarification of the meaning of the phrase. Sorry.
10/31/2010
I am not big on any anal play.
11/10/2010
My boyfriend seems to like it quite a bit. We're still searching for the perfect anal toy/strap-on.
11/12/2010
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Only if its my girlfriend. I tried the whole Aneros route etc and found either I am to big for the toys (prostate higher up) or my girl ruined me. I like a slow BJ while she goes to work on me. She enjoys watching my squirm so it can get pretty intense sometimes.
Originally posted by
Heather Shadrick
I just wondered how many straight guys liked this. My boyfriend is into it a lot.
11/13/2010
Having someone else doing it does add a lot to any sex play, doesn't it.
11/13/2010
Anal to a degree however unlike Pussy Galore I wont be on the receiving end of that
11/13/2010
I'm sorry. The term "Strict Anal Play." I keep picturing a woman in a tight rubber or leather school marm's dress, her hair in a severe bun, cat glasses, holding a ruler in one hand and a huge butt plug in the other, with a man dressed in English School Boy Clothes bending over a desk or wooden chair.
Ah, my imagination....
Ah, my imagination....
11/13/2010
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I voted but I"m not a guy..thinking about my bf I voted I guess.I really just vote for points..
Originally posted by
Heather Shadrick
I just wondered how many straight guys liked this. My boyfriend is into it a lot.
11/13/2010
I love it, but the trouble is finding a partner who does too.
11/29/2010
My b/f loves me to peg him with my strap-on. When he wants anal play, he usually chooses a harness and a dil for me to wear.
For me, I enjoy anal sex, if I am "ready and comfortable" this is usually not spontaneous.
We both enjoy butt plugs during sex and solo play as well.
For me, I enjoy anal sex, if I am "ready and comfortable" this is usually not spontaneous.
We both enjoy butt plugs during sex and solo play as well.
11/30/2010
My Mister loves it, but not every time. I don't know what often is, but maybe once a week or so, though that's not a rule.
12/15/2010
I have no interest in trying anal play.
12/17/2010
i know someone who just seems to adore it
12/17/2010
He seems to really enjoy it, but as more of a once in awhile thing. He's a bit like me and has "sexual moods". He also seems to appreciate variance in sexual activities.
02/21/2011
Never done it but might be some fun
04/01/2011
My man is way to big to perform anal on me. I feel like im being torn in half!
04/12/2011
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"I don't actually understand the concept of "foreplay" all that much, as to us, oral, manual and any anal play is just as fun, sometimes more fun, than PIV sex. We have even "forgotten" to have PIV intercourse at times, because we got caught up in other things, and both got off and then fell asleep or got up for the day, depending on when it is."
Originally posted by
P'Gell
I still don't understand what "Strict Anal Play" is. My Man and I are in a D/S relationship and have anal sex regularly, but I don't know what the OP is trying to relate.
"Strict Anal Play" is "only" ... more
"Strict Anal Play" is "only" ... more
I still don't understand what "Strict Anal Play" is. My Man and I are in a D/S relationship and have anal sex regularly, but I don't know what the OP is trying to relate.
"Strict Anal Play" is "only" during "foreplay?" We don't "do foreplay and then the Main Event" Sex starts from the first kiss, the first look, the first touch and we put oral, PIV, manual, toy play where ever and when ever we want during our sex. Anal "play" is used during oral, with him using a plug or his hand or a set of beads on me, (and even occasional light rimming, if nothing else has touched there, to bring down bacteria) and also we often finish "sex" with DP, with a dil plus anal with his penis. If we want to go back and do something else (as I often have more orgasms during anal he may want to go down on me again) we do a quick but through clean up of his penis and hands and my bottom and then we move on to other things.
We don't have an order we do things in, although it's best if I have my first orgasm first, as I will have more as we keep playing. I don't actually understand the concept of "foreplay" all that much, as to us, oral, manual and any anal play is just as fun, sometimes more fun, than PIV sex. We have even "forgotten" to have PIV intercourse at times, because we got caught up in other things, and both got off and then fell asleep or got up for the day, depending on when it is.
The only thing we don't do is anal play for him. He doesn't enjoy anal stimulation, and I honestly have no desire to do it to him (although I think I could learn to like it if HE did) but aside from that, it happens for me, with him as the penetrator, frequently.
I still need clarification of the meaning of the phrase. Sorry. less
"Strict Anal Play" is "only" during "foreplay?" We don't "do foreplay and then the Main Event" Sex starts from the first kiss, the first look, the first touch and we put oral, PIV, manual, toy play where ever and when ever we want during our sex. Anal "play" is used during oral, with him using a plug or his hand or a set of beads on me, (and even occasional light rimming, if nothing else has touched there, to bring down bacteria) and also we often finish "sex" with DP, with a dil plus anal with his penis. If we want to go back and do something else (as I often have more orgasms during anal he may want to go down on me again) we do a quick but through clean up of his penis and hands and my bottom and then we move on to other things.
We don't have an order we do things in, although it's best if I have my first orgasm first, as I will have more as we keep playing. I don't actually understand the concept of "foreplay" all that much, as to us, oral, manual and any anal play is just as fun, sometimes more fun, than PIV sex. We have even "forgotten" to have PIV intercourse at times, because we got caught up in other things, and both got off and then fell asleep or got up for the day, depending on when it is.
The only thing we don't do is anal play for him. He doesn't enjoy anal stimulation, and I honestly have no desire to do it to him (although I think I could learn to like it if HE did) but aside from that, it happens for me, with him as the penetrator, frequently.
I still need clarification of the meaning of the phrase. Sorry. less
Agreed! We are in the same boat here.
And I don't understand the question either.
04/12/2011
I've never done it, but I'd like to.
04/12/2011
My fiancee and I don't have much anal experience, but we both enjoy it and are learning fast!
04/12/2011
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This is the same for me as a guy. My SO loves anal play on me as well as me on her! She is also looking forward to pegging me some day soon...
Originally posted by
Red Riding Hood
He seems to really enjoy it, but as more of a once in awhile thing. He's a bit like me and has "sexual moods". He also seems to appreciate variance in sexual activities.
04/12/2011
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