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Contributor: Lady of the Lab Lady of the Lab
So, I was planning on buying a prostrate toy today to take advantage of the sales, but then it went out of stock. As 2 pm starting to creep around, I kept looking back at the Bliss massager in black, thinking "Well, I don't know when I'll get such a good deal (30% off) on it again..." With less than 20 minutes left, I decided to take a chance and buy the Bliss massager.

Have you had this happen to you?

I am nervous I won't like it because I feel my expectations are higher than if I had done more comparative research...
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Yes, I have bought something on sale impulsively.
45
No, I always plan my purchases.
20
I could see myself buying something impulsively in the future.
7
I liked what I bought impulsively.
19
I didn't like what I bought impulsively.
9
Total votes: 100 (72 voters)
Poll is closed
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Contributor: Lion Lion
I'm a planner
11/09/2012
Contributor: PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
I like to plan out what I am going to get. I would be upset if I were to do that and then got something I did not like.
11/09/2012
Contributor: no longer here no longer here
We are planners. That sucks it went out of stock on you.
11/09/2012
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
I'm usually a planner, but the amazing sales make me buy impulsively at times. I have really liked certain items I've bought, while others proved to be a disaster!
11/09/2012
Contributor: Lady of the Lab Lady of the Lab
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Originally posted by no longer here
We are planners. That sucks it went out of stock on you.
Yeah, I was hoping to get the Aneros helix syn I am still planning on buying it, but I probably won't have enough points until next month.

I usually do plan my purchases, but after planning exactly which corset to buy last week, I was really disappointed with that purchase. Now I am more open to buying something here or there impulsively.
11/09/2012
Contributor: lalapetitee lalapetitee
i always plan out what i am gonna buy. but when i woke up i saw what i wanted was out of stock so instead i got 2 dildos i have been wanting for a year now. they were both 40% off. the flurry and the mark : )
11/09/2012
Contributor: lalapetitee lalapetitee
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Originally posted by Lady of the Lab
Yeah, I was hoping to get the Aneros helix syn I am still planning on buying it, but I probably won't have enough points until next month.

I usually do plan my purchases, but after planning exactly which corset to buy last week, I was ... more
I advise that you create a must have wishlist. Only put things in there that you KNOW will work for you and things that are quality products. Each time you have enough points or extra cash buy from that wishlist. Like today with the 40% off stuff there was 2 things from my must have list on sale. My other must have item was out of stock so I got the two dildos instead. Still got products that I KNOW I will love and will hold up! I usually buy what is on sale at the time. NEVER impulsively! But I will say that mistakes do happen even when you research. I researched the MiMi for weeks and I still ended up hating it.
11/09/2012
Contributor: Lady of the Lab Lady of the Lab
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Originally posted by lalapetitee
i always plan out what i am gonna buy. but when i woke up i saw what i wanted was out of stock so instead i got 2 dildos i have been wanting for a year now. they were both 40% off. the flurry and the mark : )
I almost bought one of the silicone dildos on sale instead. For 40% that's even better than the 30% buy-out assignment option as an advanced reviewer.

I am happy you were able to buy them
11/09/2012
Contributor: Lady of the Lab Lady of the Lab
Quote:
Originally posted by lalapetitee
I advise that you create a must have wishlist. Only put things in there that you KNOW will work for you and things that are quality products. Each time you have enough points or extra cash buy from that wishlist. Like today with the 40% off stuff ... more
That's a good idea. One of the reasons for my purchase today was that I am still very unsure what I like. Maybe even if I don't like it, it'll help form that must have wishlist.

Although the biggest reason might've been that the Bliss massager has LED lights to display its different patterns...
11/09/2012
Contributor: lalapetitee lalapetitee
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Originally posted by Lady of the Lab
I almost bought one of the silicone dildos on sale instead. For 40% that's even better than the 30% buy-out assignment option as an advanced reviewer.

I am happy you were able to buy them ... more
Thats exactly what I was thinking! Each week I try to wait until friday before I place mt order. They have great sales. But I am sad I missed the 40% off glass sale. I bet there was some great options!
11/09/2012
Contributor: lalapetitee lalapetitee
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Originally posted by Lady of the Lab
That's a good idea. One of the reasons for my purchase today was that I am still very unsure what I like. Maybe even if I don't like it, it'll help form that must have wishlist.

Although the biggest reason might've been that ... more
Yea that's true! I didn't know I don't like broad stimulation until I got my MiMi. I am now sure that I need pinpoint instead. So it may not be money wasted depending on how you look at it.
11/09/2012
Contributor: lalapetitee lalapetitee
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Originally posted by Lady of the Lab
That's a good idea. One of the reasons for my purchase today was that I am still very unsure what I like. Maybe even if I don't like it, it'll help form that must have wishlist.

Although the biggest reason might've been that ... more
oh and The Zini products have those as well...I want them because of it. Especially the ran and zook. : )
11/09/2012
Contributor: remember.me remember.me
I've done that, it worked out great
11/09/2012
Contributor: Lady of the Lab Lady of the Lab
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Originally posted by remember.me
I've done that, it worked out great
That is good to hear, I figure I can't go too wrong with the Bliss massager because it's a quality product and if I really don't like it EF has a return policy which is prompt.
11/09/2012
Contributor: This Is For The Birds This Is For The Birds
I try to plan what I'm going to buy, that's why my wish list always stays up to date, however if there is a sale & I find something that I think I will enjoy, I will buy it. Most of the time I end up enjoying it. I never buy out of my comfort zone, that way I know I will enjoy it. The only time I buy outside of my comfort zone is if it's a really good deal & my husband & I are willing to try something new or if its a free product, weather it being with a sale or a push assignment.
11/09/2012
Contributor: Lady of the Lab Lady of the Lab
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Originally posted by This Is For The Birds
I try to plan what I'm going to buy, that's why my wish list always stays up to date, however if there is a sale & I find something that I think I will enjoy, I will buy it. Most of the time I end up enjoying it. I never buy out of my ... more
That makes sense. I am really nervous about buying my fiancé a toy for the first time; I know that will be a planned purchase.
11/09/2012
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
Usually plan, but sometimes buy things on impulse to get free shipping.
11/09/2012
Contributor: Lady of the Lab Lady of the Lab
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Originally posted by lalapetitee
Yea that's true! I didn't know I don't like broad stimulation until I got my MiMi. I am now sure that I need pinpoint instead. So it may not be money wasted depending on how you look at it.
Hopefully I like pinpoint stimulation because that is what the Bliss massager is all about.
11/09/2012
Contributor: Beck Beck
I'm low on points.
11/09/2012
Contributor: Lady of the Lab Lady of the Lab
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Originally posted by Beck
I'm low on points.
Oh noes : / When I wasn't editing before, I found that writing reviews were the only way to make headway in saving up points. Maybe a double points special will come next month *fingers crossed, knocking on wood*
11/09/2012
Contributor: lalapetitee lalapetitee
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Originally posted by Beck
I'm low on points.
Me too! I just used up all of mine today! I applied to be an editor...fingers crossed!
11/09/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Lady of the Lab
So, I was planning on buying a prostrate toy today to take advantage of the sales, but then it went out of stock. As 2 pm starting to creep around, I kept looking back at the Bliss massager in black, thinking "Well, I don't know when ... more
If I buy on impulse, it is still something that appeals to me.
11/09/2012
Contributor: VanillaFreeSex VanillaFreeSex
if it's really stressing you (i've been there) you can cancel if it hasn't been shipped yet. otherwise, go ahead and research it now in case you want to return it when it arrives. you don't even have to pay return shipping. eden is great about returns.
11/09/2012
Contributor: Lady of the Lab Lady of the Lab
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Originally posted by VanillaFreeSex
if it's really stressing you (i've been there) you can cancel if it hasn't been shipped yet. otherwise, go ahead and research it now in case you want to return it when it arrives. you don't even have to pay return shipping. eden is ... more
That's a good call, but I think I am going to give it a chance since it might be a learning experience. I thank you for the suggestion, I didn't think that was an option. ^.^
11/09/2012
Contributor: travelnurse travelnurse
Yes, I impulsively buy all the time!!
11/09/2012
Contributor: Lady of the Lab Lady of the Lab
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Originally posted by travelnurse
Yes, I impulsively buy all the time!!
I like your enthusiasm. I think I'll stick to planning with the occasional impulse purchase since I have few data points for reference as to what I like.
11/09/2012
Contributor: married with children married with children
I have good idea of what toys to purchase on my future orders. But every now and then I will add something that is on sale.
11/09/2012
Contributor: Redweird Redweird
I research research research!!
11/09/2012
Contributor: *Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
I have tons of points but nothing I want that I haven't already bought! I got a vibe the other night for 30% off an the next day WHAM 40% off
11/09/2012