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Opis by Shots Media or Flexi Ribbed Lover by Cal Exotics - which to try first with my partner?

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Contributor: Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama 09/29/2011

Our order is due in tomorrow and we have both of these products in it. We're newbies to toys - and we will only have one chance to use something before hubby goes out of town for the weekend.

Which would would you recommend we try first - and why?

(I'm afraid trying both in the same session would be too exhausting - we've gone from once or twice a week to almost daily and are both wiped out...but we just discovered toys!!)

Oh - we've only really used the Butterfly Kiss before..

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Which one would you recommend to try first? (22 posts)
Contributor: Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama
Which product would you recommend we try first before hubby goes out of town for the weekend? We've only used the Butterfly Kiss.
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Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
Try both! You don't have to try both to completion, but try them both none the less. The Opis is silicone

I don't care too much for jelly it burns my sensitive skin. But by all means, both for sure! Your husband will probably enjoy the option of switching back and forth too.
09/29/2011
Contributor: Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama
We're already playing to the point that its hard to walk sometimes (for me - not him) and I think I'm as much a toy for him as the vibrator is because he loves watching me...

which is cool - I guess.

But I'd hate to not be able to walk while he was gone.
09/29/2011
Contributor: Ryuson Ryuson
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The silicone one will last a lot longer and is much more sanitary than the jelly one!
09/29/2011
Contributor: The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
I say go with the Opis!
09/29/2011
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
Get the Opis, silicone is non-porous and hypoallergenic, always better than jelly toys that contain phthalate.
09/30/2011
Contributor: K101 K101
Opis, no doubt! I hated the butterfly kiss. That thing was a nightmare. Have fun with your new journey! And remember, there's plenty of time to discover what you guys like. I know it's so exciting though! Heck, it's still exciting years later. Lol
09/30/2011
Contributor: Lano4ka Lano4ka
Opis
03/05/2012
Contributor: calliope calliope
Flexi looks cool but Opis looks like it's made better.
03/05/2012
Contributor: cottonxcandy cottonxcandy
I think the Opis looks better because it's not jelly material.
03/06/2012
Contributor: brevado brevado
The ribbed doesn't beat out the purple
07/10/2012
Contributor: KRD KRD
Opis
07/11/2012
Contributor: ksparkles16 ksparkles16
Opis!
07/11/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
I love seeing old posts from you. I miss you HNSTM!
07/11/2012
Contributor: Falsepast Falsepast
Opis
07/11/2012
Contributor: Lavendar Lavendar
opis!
07/11/2012
Contributor: Azule Azule
Opis is safer I think.
07/11/2012
Contributor: Kaltir Kaltir
Opis:-D
07/11/2012
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Quote:
Originally posted by Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama
Which product would you recommend we try first before hubby goes out of town for the weekend? We've only used the Butterfly Kiss.
Definitely the Opis (Purple).
07/11/2012
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
I'd pick Opis.
07/11/2012
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama
Which product would you recommend we try first before hubby goes out of town for the weekend? We've only used the Butterfly Kiss.
Opis!
07/11/2012
Contributor: bratcat bratcat
Opis! its better quality/safer material, plus the texture looks amazing.
03/12/2013