What kind of vibrator would be great for a beginning couple
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                    what's best for a beginning couple
                    
                    
                    
                    01/17/2011
                
				
				
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                        I don't really think any of those would be great choices for a 'couple'. I mean, those all seem like solo toys to me. That's not to say solo toys aren't awesome for couples as well of course. I just... I wouldn't pick any of them, lol 
                        
                        
                        01/17/2011
			        
			        
                
                        My suggestion to you is to try the Bendable You Too, I just did a review on this product and it is great for solo or for couples and is rather affordable. Check it out.
                        
                        
                        01/17/2011
			        
			        
                
                        What are you looking for?  Something for your partner to use on you?  Something you can use together?  I like to use the form 2 between my partner and I.  Something like the vibrating panty options might be fun for you both.
                        
                        
                        01/17/2011
			        
			        
                
                        I've used the rabbit before as a tease for my husband
                        
                        
                        01/17/2011
			        
			        
                
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                        I agree. Better choices might be soft insertables that a man wouldn't have to worry about hurting his partner with, bullets that would rest well on the perineum as well as the clit, and small toys that would fit between them easily during sex. Vibrating cock rings are fun to explore too.
                        
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                                            Beth D
                                        
                                        
                                
                                            I don't really think any of those would be great choices for a 'couple'. I mean, those all seem like solo toys to me. That's not to say solo toys aren't awesome for couples as well of course. I just... I wouldn't pick any of them, lol 
                                        
                                    01/17/2011
			        
			        
                
                        I think a smallish silicone vibe is a great starter toy... it's easy to clean and they just feel better to me than other types of vibes... well glass is nice as well but not really a starter vibe imo.
I'd actually get something from a company like Fun Factory or Lelo because they have great quality toys that last.
                        
                        I'd actually get something from a company like Fun Factory or Lelo because they have great quality toys that last.
02/17/2011
			        
			        
                
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                        I was going to say the same thing!
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                                            Solar Ray
                                        
                                        
                                            
                                                
                                    
                                
                                                    I think a smallish silicone vibe is a great starter toy... it's easy to clean and they just feel better to me than other types of vibes... well glass is nice as well but not really a starter vibe imo.
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                                                    I think a smallish silicone vibe is a great starter toy... it's easy to clean and they just feel better to me than other types of vibes... well glass is nice as well but not really a starter vibe imo.
I'd actually get something from a company like Fun Factory or Lelo because they have great quality toys that last. less
                                            
                                        I'd actually get something from a company like Fun Factory or Lelo because they have great quality toys that last. less
I am a huge fan of Fun Factory after purchasing my Little Paul.
03/03/2011
			        
			        
                
                        I think bullets are the best for partner play.
                        
                        
                        07/05/2011
			        
			        
                
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                        Rabbits are great for couple play if you are willing to go ouside of the normal. put the bunny part on his penis and rub up and down, use to vibrate between the testicles and anus, etc.
                        
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                                            Chevylady37
                                        
                                        
                                
                                            what's best for a beginning couple
                                        
                                    07/09/2011
			        
			        
                
                        Vivid's swirl marble vibrator
                        
                        
                        08/14/2011
			        
			        
                
                        Vivid's swirl marble vibrator (Blue) looks more versatile.
                        
                        
                        09/08/2011
			        
			        
                
                        i do not like any of the listed vibes
                        
                        
                        11/13/2011
			        
			        
                
                        I think for partner sex you are better off with a small multi-use vibe, like a strong bullet with multiple speeds, or maybe the silicone MiMi.
                        
                        
                        01/14/2012
			        
			        
                
                        Wow I really don't like any of the ones you're interested in.  After owning several jelly and rubber toys, I made the decision to stick with quality materials.  If you choose a vibe made by a respected manufacturer, in say silicone, it can last you for many years.  If you're on a tight budget, check out the Astrovibes from Fun Factory currently going for around $10 with the EF promotions.  It's not the best vibe on this site, but it is worlds beyond the three you're looking into.  Good luck!  Let us know what you decided.
                        
                        
                        01/15/2012
			        
			        
                
                        I'm not a big fan of any of these options. Personally, I think bullets work best to start off with if you want to try vibrations for the first time with a partner.
                        
                        
                        01/15/2012
			        
			        
                
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                        I'd try something made of non-porous material
                        
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                                            Chevylady37
                                        
                                        
                                
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                                    01/15/2012
			        
			        
                
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                        Evolved seduction, because it's has great power levels. And it's just a great all around basic toy
                        
                                        Originally posted by 
                                            Chevylady37
                                        
                                        
                                
                                            what's best for a beginning couple
                                        
                                    02/10/2012
			        
			        
                
                        None of these say "couple's play" to me, they are all solo toys. Get something you can both have fun and be stimulated by, possibly simultaneously.
                        
                        
                        02/10/2012
			        
			        
                
                        Not to big into any of them for couples play.
                        
                        
                        02/10/2012
			        
			        
                
                        I have both the rabbit and sting ray. I have had the sting ray vibe for about 2 years and love it! The straps are annoying, but it's a great vibrator and works so well for it's purpose. It's actually the ONLY strap on clit vibe that worked for me and I wasted lots of $ on many of em'. I would not buy the rabbits at all. They always tear up quickly. Instead I would find a good quality, awesome rabbit style vibe like Flutter. They do the same thing, but are different. If you are looking for a dual action/rabbit style, I'd highly recommend checkout out Evolved's. Flutter is my favorite dual action and Sugar is awesome too and great for beginners! Plus, they're really cheap for such good quality. 
                        
                        
                        02/13/2012
			        
			        
                
                        For couples play, you might want to consider something that more than just the woman will get some use out of.
                        
                        
                        03/03/2012
			        
			        
                
                        I chose other, I think you should choose a toy that you both use for your first toy!
                        
                        
                        03/21/2012
			        
			        
                
                        Eden makes a pretty nice bullet and its around $15
                        
                        
                        03/21/2012
			        
			        
                
                        None of these.
                        
                        
                        03/21/2012
			        
			        
                
                        shop around more. these are bad choices.
                        
                        
                        03/21/2012
			        
			        
                
                        Not sure about these. I would look around more.
                        
                        
                        03/21/2012
			        
			        
                
                        Try something that is non-porous.  Clit vibes are great starter toys that can by used by couples as well as alone.  Also, consider higher quality brands like LELO, Fun Factory or Leaf.
                        
                        
                        03/21/2012
			        
			        
                
                        Out of these, the Vivid's looks like a nice, basic choice.
                        
                        
                        03/21/2012
			        
			        
                
                        Look at the wow#4
                        
                        
                        03/28/2012
			        
			        
                
                        Maybe a We-vibe. It's for couples.
                        
                        
                        04/22/2012
			        
			        
                
                        Out of the choices you listed I would choose the rabbit pearl.
                        
                        
                        04/22/2012
			        
			        
                
                        I selected other, because the We-Vibe 3 is designed specifically for couples!
                        
                        
                        04/22/2012
			        
			        
                
                        anything liberator.
ANYthing.
                        
                        ANYthing.
05/28/2012
			        
			        
                
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                        eager beaver is a good starter rabbit vibe
                        
                                        Originally posted by 
                                            Chevylady37
                                        
                                        
                                
                                            what's best for a beginning couple
                                        
                                    08/08/2012
			        
			        
                
                        Vivid's swirl marble vibrator
                        
                        
                        08/08/2012
			        
			        
                
                        I'd try something different like the Mimi or a bullet.
                        
                        
                        08/09/2012
			        
			        
                
                        Really depends on what you enjoy. He enjoys just using toys on me  We like Lelo so far as our general choice
                        
                        
                        08/09/2012
			        
			        
                
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                        Definitely other, get something made of silicone.
                        
                                        Originally posted by 
                                            Chevylady37
                                        
                                        
                                
                                            what's best for a beginning couple
                                        
                                    08/13/2012
			        
			        
                
                        Vivid's swirl marble blue vibrator if I had to pick from just this list. It all depends on how sensual or kinky you guys get though.
                        
                        
                        08/13/2012
			        
			        
                
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                        Vivid's swirl marble vibrator
                        
                                        Originally posted by 
                                            Chevylady37
                                        
                                        
                                
                                            what's best for a beginning couple
                                        
                                    10/31/2012
			        
			        
                
                        vibrating cock ring
                        
                        
                        11/01/2012
			        
			        
                
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                        If you want a toy to use together, it's best go cordless I think.  Personally, I like toys I can use during sex like bullets and vibrating cock rings.
                        
                                        Originally posted by 
                                            Chevylady37
                                        
                                        
                                
                                            what's best for a beginning couple
                                        
                                    11/01/2012
			        
			        
                
                        Vivid's swirl marble vibrator
                        
                        
                        11/01/2012
			        
			        
                
                        I would choose something more versatile. Definately something with nfinite speed settings as I find the speed is extremely important. Probably I would pick a beginner package or something.
                        
                        
                        11/03/2012
			        
			        
                
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                    which is better for solo
                    
                    
                    
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                        I'm not a rabbit fan so I voted for the swirl.
                        
                        
                        01/17/2011
			        
			        
                
                        Would go and get you a Lelo  there worth it.
                        
                        
                        01/17/2011
			        
			        
                
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                        I like them all really
                        
                                        Originally posted by 
                                            Chevylady37
                                        
                                        
                                
                                            which is better for solo
                                        
                                    08/14/2011
			        
			        
                
                        I really anted a certain silicone dildo that used to be carried here but was discontinued, it was a gorgeous blue with white marbling that looked almost like smoky lightning. Since I couldn't get that, I would love the marbled vibe you showed here. 
                        
                        
                        02/10/2012
			        
			        
                
                        For a first time solo use i would go more towards evolved products just because I love the brand. My first vibrator was the red diamond princess and i would recommend it to anyone who is just starting. It is a great vibrator with varying vibration speeds.
                        
                        
                        02/10/2012
			        
			        
                
                        Solo, I would probably go for something else. This depends entirely on what you're into, but I always love a nice rabbit vibe!
                        
                        
                        03/21/2012
			        
			        
                
                        I think their are better options but these dont look bad.
                        
                        
                        03/21/2012
			        
			        
                
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