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Contributor: Chevylady37 Chevylady37 01/17/2011

What kind of vibrator would be great for a beginning couple

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Contributor: Chevylady37 Chevylady37
what's best for a beginning couple
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Contributor: Beth D Beth D
I don't really think any of those would be great choices for a 'couple'. I mean, those all seem like solo toys to me. That's not to say solo toys aren't awesome for couples as well of course. I just... I wouldn't pick any of them, lol
01/17/2011
Contributor: Airekah Airekah
My suggestion to you is to try the Bendable You Too, I just did a review on this product and it is great for solo or for couples and is rather affordable. Check it out.
01/17/2011
Contributor: liilii080 liilii080
What are you looking for? Something for your partner to use on you? Something you can use together? I like to use the form 2 between my partner and I. Something like the vibrating panty options might be fun for you both.
01/17/2011
Contributor: Cowboyssweetie Cowboyssweetie
I've used the rabbit before as a tease for my husband
01/17/2011
Contributor: Alan & Michele Alan & Michele
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Originally posted by Beth D
I don't really think any of those would be great choices for a 'couple'. I mean, those all seem like solo toys to me. That's not to say solo toys aren't awesome for couples as well of course. I just... I wouldn't pick any of them, lol
I agree. Better choices might be soft insertables that a man wouldn't have to worry about hurting his partner with, bullets that would rest well on the perineum as well as the clit, and small toys that would fit between them easily during sex. Vibrating cock rings are fun to explore too.
01/17/2011
Contributor: Solar Ray Solar Ray
I think a smallish silicone vibe is a great starter toy... it's easy to clean and they just feel better to me than other types of vibes... well glass is nice as well but not really a starter vibe imo.

I'd actually get something from a company like Fun Factory or Lelo because they have great quality toys that last.
02/17/2011
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
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Originally posted by Solar Ray
I think a smallish silicone vibe is a great starter toy... it's easy to clean and they just feel better to me than other types of vibes... well glass is nice as well but not really a starter vibe imo.

I'd actually get something from a ... more
I was going to say the same thing!

I am a huge fan of Fun Factory after purchasing my Little Paul.
03/03/2011
Contributor: Eva Schwaltz Eva Schwaltz
I think bullets are the best for partner play.
07/05/2011
Contributor: js250 js250
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Originally posted by Chevylady37
what's best for a beginning couple
Rabbits are great for couple play if you are willing to go ouside of the normal. put the bunny part on his penis and rub up and down, use to vibrate between the testicles and anus, etc.
07/09/2011
Contributor: Miss Anonymous Miss Anonymous
Vivid's swirl marble vibrator
08/14/2011
Contributor: clevernickname clevernickname
Vivid's swirl marble vibrator (Blue) looks more versatile.
09/08/2011
Contributor: JGrey JGrey
i do not like any of the listed vibes
11/13/2011
Contributor: Love Perpetua Love Perpetua
I think for partner sex you are better off with a small multi-use vibe, like a strong bullet with multiple speeds, or maybe the silicone MiMi.
01/14/2012
Contributor: Entropy Entropy
Wow I really don't like any of the ones you're interested in. After owning several jelly and rubber toys, I made the decision to stick with quality materials. If you choose a vibe made by a respected manufacturer, in say silicone, it can last you for many years. If you're on a tight budget, check out the Astrovibes from Fun Factory currently going for around $10 with the EF promotions. It's not the best vibe on this site, but it is worlds beyond the three you're looking into. Good luck! Let us know what you decided.
01/15/2012
Contributor: LAndJ LAndJ
I'm not a big fan of any of these options. Personally, I think bullets work best to start off with if you want to try vibrations for the first time with a partner.
01/15/2012
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
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Originally posted by Chevylady37
what's best for a beginning couple
I'd try something made of non-porous material
01/15/2012
Contributor: sweetpea12 sweetpea12
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Originally posted by Chevylady37
what's best for a beginning couple
Evolved seduction, because it's has great power levels. And it's just a great all around basic toy
02/10/2012
Contributor: MeliPixie MeliPixie
None of these say "couple's play" to me, they are all solo toys. Get something you can both have fun and be stimulated by, possibly simultaneously.
02/10/2012
Contributor: sweetiejo sweetiejo
Not to big into any of them for couples play.
02/10/2012
Contributor: K101 K101
I have both the rabbit and sting ray. I have had the sting ray vibe for about 2 years and love it! The straps are annoying, but it's a great vibrator and works so well for it's purpose. It's actually the ONLY strap on clit vibe that worked for me and I wasted lots of $ on many of em'. I would not buy the rabbits at all. They always tear up quickly. Instead I would find a good quality, awesome rabbit style vibe like Flutter. They do the same thing, but are different. If you are looking for a dual action/rabbit style, I'd highly recommend checkout out Evolved's. Flutter is my favorite dual action and Sugar is awesome too and great for beginners! Plus, they're really cheap for such good quality.
02/13/2012
Contributor: Djiffy Djiffy
For couples play, you might want to consider something that more than just the woman will get some use out of.
03/03/2012
Contributor: cottonxcandy cottonxcandy
I chose other, I think you should choose a toy that you both use for your first toy!
03/21/2012
Contributor: Brandonn Brandonn
Eden makes a pretty nice bullet and its around $15
03/21/2012
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
None of these.
03/21/2012
Contributor: MR Chickhabit MR Chickhabit
shop around more. these are bad choices.
03/21/2012
Contributor: BlooJay BlooJay
Not sure about these. I would look around more.
03/21/2012
Contributor: wildorchid wildorchid
Try something that is non-porous. Clit vibes are great starter toys that can by used by couples as well as alone. Also, consider higher quality brands like LELO, Fun Factory or Leaf.
03/21/2012
Contributor: geliebt geliebt
Out of these, the Vivid's looks like a nice, basic choice.
03/21/2012
Contributor: Lizzy Lizzy
Look at the wow#4
03/28/2012
Contributor: sexxxkitten sexxxkitten
Maybe a We-vibe. It's for couples.
04/22/2012
Contributor: Sinfully Sinfully
Out of the choices you listed I would choose the rabbit pearl.
04/22/2012
Contributor: vanilla&chocolate vanilla&chocolate
I selected other, because the We-Vibe 3 is designed specifically for couples!
04/22/2012
Contributor: MR Chickhabit MR Chickhabit
anything liberator.

ANYthing.
05/28/2012
Contributor: MadTown MadTown
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Originally posted by Chevylady37
what's best for a beginning couple
eager beaver is a good starter rabbit vibe
08/08/2012
Contributor: Terri69 Terri69
Vivid's swirl marble vibrator
08/08/2012
Contributor: ksparkles16 ksparkles16
I'd try something different like the Mimi or a bullet.
08/09/2012
Contributor: giftdgecko giftdgecko
Really depends on what you enjoy. He enjoys just using toys on me We like Lelo so far as our general choice
08/09/2012
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
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Originally posted by Chevylady37
what's best for a beginning couple
Definitely other, get something made of silicone.
08/13/2012
Contributor: Chelle Love Chelle Love
Vivid's swirl marble blue vibrator if I had to pick from just this list. It all depends on how sensual or kinky you guys get though.
08/13/2012
Contributor: damnbul12 damnbul12
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Originally posted by Chevylady37
what's best for a beginning couple
Vivid's swirl marble vibrator
10/31/2012
Contributor: darkr darkr
vibrating cock ring
11/01/2012
Contributor: Sweet-n-Playful Sweet-n-Playful
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Originally posted by Chevylady37
what's best for a beginning couple
If you want a toy to use together, it's best go cordless I think. Personally, I like toys I can use during sex like bullets and vibrating cock rings.
11/01/2012
Contributor: mmmmm mmmmm
Vivid's swirl marble vibrator
11/01/2012
Contributor: Arlinnae Arlinnae
I would choose something more versatile. Definately something with nfinite speed settings as I find the speed is extremely important. Probably I would pick a beginner package or something.
11/03/2012
Contributor: Chevylady37 Chevylady37
which is better for solo
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Contributor: liilii080 liilii080
I'm not a rabbit fan so I voted for the swirl.
01/17/2011
Contributor: Orion Orion
Would go and get you a Lelo there worth it.
01/17/2011
Contributor: SiNn SiNn
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Originally posted by Chevylady37
which is better for solo
I like them all really
08/14/2011
Contributor: MeliPixie MeliPixie
I really anted a certain silicone dildo that used to be carried here but was discontinued, it was a gorgeous blue with white marbling that looked almost like smoky lightning. Since I couldn't get that, I would love the marbled vibe you showed here.
02/10/2012
Contributor: sweetiejo sweetiejo
For a first time solo use i would go more towards evolved products just because I love the brand. My first vibrator was the red diamond princess and i would recommend it to anyone who is just starting. It is a great vibrator with varying vibration speeds.
02/10/2012
Contributor: geliebt geliebt
Solo, I would probably go for something else. This depends entirely on what you're into, but I always love a nice rabbit vibe!
03/21/2012
Contributor: Secret Pleasure Secret Pleasure
I think their are better options but these dont look bad.
03/21/2012