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Which vibrator should I buy to use during sex (missionary)?

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Contributor: RedBlue RedBlue
Alright, I'm overwhelmed! I've been looking at sex toys for two weeks now and still can't decide what to buy!
I'm trying to find a clit vibrator that would fit nicely in between me and my bf in tighter positions like missionary and would be somewhat powerful and rumbly.
I already have Magic Wand which is awesome, and the lower setting gets me off in under 30 sec, but its not exactly position-friendly So I'd like to exchange some power for maneuverability...
I started by looking at Pyxis which is small and looks awesome, but, apparently, has very little power.
Lily/Nea and Spirit look like they would be easy to slip between the bodies, but some reviews says that these aren't too strong either. Are they?
Tiani 2 maybe? Not a fun of g-spot stimulation, but if the upper part works fine, it might be a go. We-Vibe rabbits look a bit intimidating.
I also looked at We Vibe Touch and Siri, which has pretty good reviews for power, but would these be small enough? I really like when my bf holds me tight in missionary and it feels that Siri or Touch might not allow that.
Other options are Salsa / Tango, which also get awesome power ratings. Would it be easy to hold and manipulate?
What is your experience? What do you use??
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Contributor: edeneve edeneve
seems like most who have the Salsa swear by it. have you checked out the Leaf line of vibes?
01/08/2014
Contributor: RedBlue RedBlue
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Originally posted by edeneve
seems like most who have the Salsa swear by it. have you checked out the Leaf line of vibes?
I've check out Spirit. Looks very promising, but people says its not at all powerful. Have you tried it? What's you opinion on that one?
01/08/2014
Contributor: BareNaked BareNaked
For missionary, we've found that bullets work great. It's easier to have them stay in place and not a lot of bulk getting in between.
01/08/2014
Contributor: Lioncub Lioncub
I have the Nea, Spirit, We Vibe Touch, Tango, and Salsa. Out of these I like the Salsa or Tango best for missionary. They have the power I need and are small enough to fit and stay in place. The Spirit does seem to have nearly the power I thought it would. The Nea is okay but not one I reach for frequently.
01/08/2014
Contributor: RedBlue RedBlue
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Originally posted by Lioncub
I have the Nea, Spirit, We Vibe Touch, Tango, and Salsa. Out of these I like the Salsa or Tango best for missionary. They have the power I need and are small enough to fit and stay in place. The Spirit does seem to have nearly the power I thought ... more
Wow, you got a lot of vibes, I'm jealous Could you elaborate on your experience with Spirit and Nea please?
01/08/2014
Contributor: snowlights snowlights
I've used something shaped like the Nea/Lily etc, and our bodies held the toy in place no problem, really. I can't remember what brand it was, my partner at that time had bought it on his own. If you're going to be staying close so something like a wand won't work, I think these toys would stay where you put them.
01/08/2014
Contributor: Lioncub Lioncub
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Originally posted by RedBlue
Wow, you got a lot of vibes, I'm jealous Could you elaborate on your experience with Spirit and Nea please?
The Nea is an okay vibe for me it fits nice just not as powerful and a bit noisy. The Spirit seems to have about 1/2 the power as my salsa. I like power and strong vibes though...the stronger the better. That's just my opinion and how they work for me. I would check out the reviews for each toy and get a broader idea as they may work good for you. Our total collection is about 400 items right now.
01/08/2014
Contributor: epiphanyjayne epiphanyjayne
We vibe Salsa!!! all the way!! love it, it works like a charm and is nice and small and not intrusive at all. it is my fave for almost every position. I also have the touch and tango, they're great to but for some reason salsa just does it for me best.
01/08/2014
Contributor: RedBlue RedBlue
and there is also Mimi!!! I forgot to add it in my poll. What do you think of it?
01/08/2014
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by RedBlue
and there is also Mimi!!! I forgot to add it in my poll. What do you think of it?
Great suggestion - we have both and almost never use the Salsa because it will not hold a charge - the Mimi on the other hand works like a charm. Both should be charged in the few hours preceding when you plan to use them. Apparently batteries that small don't work as well as larger ones. We had the Mio cock ring and just sent it back - it couldn't hold a charge either.
01/09/2014
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
This might be what you're looking for, after reading Airen's review on it, if you're interested I can find out when it will be restocked. (They had a bit of an issue getting the toy into the country, but I'm thinking that should be over by now.)
01/09/2014
Contributor: charmedtomeetyou charmedtomeetyou
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Originally posted by Ansley
This might be what you're looking for, after reading Airen's review on it, if you're interested I can find out when it will be restocked. (They had a bit of an issue getting the toy into the country, but I'm thinking that should be ... more
I don't know if that's true. If you read my back and forth with Airen in the comments section, it would really only be good for girl on top, as it is unlikely to stay in place for thrusting. More of a grind on it toy than an add on to various positions.

I wanted it to be a differently designed We-vibe that might get better G-spot action, but it doesn't seem to be that.
01/09/2014
Contributor: eri86 eri86
I have both the tango and the salsa from we-vibe. In terms of power and rumble alone I would suggest those. Though any of the we-vibe couples vibrators would probably be you best bet since they are designed to be hands free for both partied involved.
01/10/2014
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by charmedtomeetyou
I don't know if that's true. If you read my back and forth with Airen in the comments section, it would really only be good for girl on top, as it is unlikely to stay in place for thrusting. More of a grind on it toy than an add on to various ... more
I think you inferred her comments to mean that it doesn't work at all with thrusting and that's not exactly what she said.

The truth of the matter is nothing is ever going to be 100% perfect because it's always going to be a universal design. What one person may find to be annoying, another thinks is heaven. It's good that we're discussing the pros and cons of each suggestion. At the end of the day, you still have to leap and see what happens. I've read reviews on toys that I thought were going to be the creme de la creme and they were used once and put away, cast off into the shadows to gather dust for all eternity.
01/11/2014
Contributor: BellaSucette BellaSucette
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Originally posted by RedBlue
Alright, I'm overwhelmed! I've been looking at sex toys for two weeks now and still can't decide what to buy!
I'm trying to find a clit vibrator that would fit nicely in between me and my bf in tighter positions like missionary and ... more
My favorite is the high intensity bullet. It's pretty small, in fact most times I keep it in my jacket pocket, and it is extremely powerful. It is my ultimate best friend. <3
01/16/2014
Contributor: witch-drummer witch-drummer
I too am looking at the We-Vibe 4. Looks like a lot of fun so very interested in reading everyone else's thought that have used it.
01/30/2014
Contributor: LAndJ LAndJ
My hands down favorite clit vib, the High Intensity bullet, is actually a cheaper bullet that works great with a partner.
01/30/2014
Contributor: KRD KRD
Bullets usually work pretty well and are fairly cheap.
02/09/2014
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
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Originally posted by Ansley
This might be what you're looking for, after reading Airen's review on it, if you're interested I can find out when it will be restocked. (They had a bit of an issue getting the toy into the country, but I'm thinking that should be ... more
oh yes, I'm so wanting to have this vibe. I can't wait to try it w/ my honey! yahoo!
02/11/2014
Contributor: PadoruLover PadoruLover
i haven't used it yet but I've heard great things about the we-vibe 4. Me and my boyfriend are saving up for one.
03/17/2014
Contributor: CinnamonNights CinnamonNights
I don't have any of those specific vibes but I do have the we-vibe 4.
I'd recommend the we-vibe 4 myself. It's small, the silicone has less drag than most silicone, and its not weak. Though in terms of power, the we-vibe4 does have power but it's not "wand massager" strong if that's what you're after.

I feel it really also depends on how much space you think you'd have between you and your mate. Whatever you use should probably be small enough to fit in your hand and thus fit between you two.

I personally can only use the we-vibe 4 during missionary (or some other vibe that kinda holds itself in place and has a remote) cuz my mister has quite the gut on him. I can't fit my arm between us so I can't use anything else.
03/28/2014
Contributor: NorthBayLady NorthBayLady
don't have a preferred vibe as long as it works and does the job I am happy
04/01/2014
Contributor: Lvstoplay Lvstoplay
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Originally posted by RedBlue
Alright, I'm overwhelmed! I've been looking at sex toys for two weeks now and still can't decide what to buy!
I'm trying to find a clit vibrator that would fit nicely in between me and my bf in tighter positions like missionary and ... more
I love my Tiani 2. They're no longer being sold in the USA, so if you live here you might have a hard time getting a new one.
04/05/2014
Contributor: wanderer5964 wanderer5964
ive learned that for missionary a smaller one works alot better. maybe look into a bullet
04/08/2014
Contributor: Dr Anal Dr Anal
I voted other because you can definitely do better than those options for a trusty vibe
04/25/2014
Contributor: thebest thebest
something else... idk what tho
05/04/2014
Contributor: GirlyGirlRed GirlyGirlRed
The spirit is something that you would definitely want to check out.
05/09/2014
Contributor: lalapetitee lalapetitee
Salsa hands down!!! I love it so much I own two! Its very powerful and doesn't make my clit go numb. The MiMi isn't strong enough for me.
05/26/2014
Contributor: heezag heezag
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Originally posted by edeneve
seems like most who have the Salsa swear by it. have you checked out the Leaf line of vibes?
so many options!
08/02/2014