Does a guy receiveing anal play during sex make him bi.

Contributor: extrafun extrafun
I have alway been a little curious about how it would feel to receive anal, or anal play while having sex with a women. (and by sex I mean normal vaginal penetration). I dont think this makes me bi or even bi curious but I would like some input.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
No this does not make you bi or bi curious
202  (75%)
Yes this does make you at least bi curious
6  (2%)
Maybe, dependes on if you want to have sex with another man
61  (23%)
Total votes: 269
Poll is closed
04/19/2011
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Contributor: Mommy2 Mommy2
I don't think it does
04/19/2011
Contributor: DeliciousSurprise DeliciousSurprise
If you're a man, and you want to have sex with other men, you might be bisexual.

Or not.


Either way, the manner in which you choose to fuck has nothing to do with your sexual orientation.
04/19/2011
Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
Nope, not gay or bi.

All it means is that you like playing around back there.
04/19/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
Quote:
Originally posted by El-Jaro
Nope, not gay or bi.



All it means is that you like playing around back there.
This!
04/19/2011
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by extrafun
I have alway been a little curious about how it would feel to receive anal, or anal play while having sex with a women. (and by sex I mean normal vaginal penetration). I dont think this makes me bi or even bi curious but I would like some input.
Simply wanting to stimulate your anal passage and it's related nerves doesn't change or affect your sexual orientation at all! Ask George W. In his opinion it makes you a well rounded individual!

Seriously though, I do wish men (and women) would THINK before making deciding these issues! If you aren't looking to be penetrated by a warm, living cock then you aren't bi-curious or 'secretly' gay you simply want to explore all your holes! Wanting the physical experience of kissing, touching, holding, caressing and otherwise pleasuring and being pleasured by another man while still enjoying sex with women makes a man bi-sexual. Wondering or fantacizing about having sex with a guy and enjoying real PIV sex, if you are also a guy, makes you bi-curious.

If you really don't get aroused or want to have sex with a woman, and you are a man then you are probably gay...unfortunately sexuality is one of those areas that defies labels and absolutes.

I would say that for you, anal penetration during PIV sex has little to do with having a man in your bed and more to do with wanting to explore your own body.
Does that help?
04/19/2011
Contributor: sexyk515 sexyk515
i thinks it does
04/19/2011
Contributor: PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
It doesn't have anything to do with sexual orientation. Just the type of pleasure you prefer.
04/19/2011
Contributor: PersonalAngel PersonalAngel
It doesn't make you gay, its the same as any fantasy it just what you find pleasurable.
04/19/2011
Contributor: newfoundlust newfoundlust
Quote:
Originally posted by extrafun
I have alway been a little curious about how it would feel to receive anal, or anal play while having sex with a women. (and by sex I mean normal vaginal penetration). I dont think this makes me bi or even bi curious but I would like some input.
No, it just means you realize you have nerves that are in your genital area that are there. They are all meant to be stimulated.
04/19/2011
Contributor: Fuck it. Fuck it.
If you're fantasizing about a guy doing it, you might be bi. You would know if you were bi before we would. :p
04/19/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
The butt wants what the butt wants. It doesn't define your orientation.

If you want sex with a man (not have an occasional fantasy about a man, but WANT sex with an other man) then you may be bi or gay. If you want sex with women, but want anal stimulation, you're hetero, but just like anal play.

I'm a woman and I like anal play. Does that make me.....a gay man? No more than it would make you one.
04/19/2011
Contributor: liilii080 liilii080
Liking to be touched on the rump does not make you bi, it just means your body enjoys that sensation.
04/19/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
Quote:
Originally posted by extrafun
I have alway been a little curious about how it would feel to receive anal, or anal play while having sex with a women. (and by sex I mean normal vaginal penetration). I dont think this makes me bi or even bi curious but I would like some input.
I dont think it does. I have been with a couple of guys who loved anal play!
04/19/2011
Contributor: Midway through Midway through
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
The butt wants what the butt wants. It doesn't define your orientation.



If you want sex with a man (not have an occasional fantasy about a man, but WANT sex with an other man) then you may be bi or gay. If you want sex with women, ... more
I love the way you worded this, LOL. Clearly, you're a gay man

Couldn't have said it better myself!
04/19/2011
Contributor: Kdlips Kdlips
yes
04/19/2011
Contributor: kawigrl kawigrl
i guess it depends but not really- if you want to do it with another guy i'd say bi curious but if its just about stimulation ur just plain hetero
04/19/2011
Contributor: starsNairguitars starsNairguitars
I think that you would only be bi/bi-curious if you actually lusted after another man.
04/19/2011
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
Quote:
Originally posted by kawigrl
i guess it depends but not really- if you want to do it with another guy i'd say bi curious but if its just about stimulation ur just plain hetero
i agree
04/19/2011
Contributor: SamsDelight SamsDelight
Quote:
Originally posted by Airen Wolf
Simply wanting to stimulate your anal passage and it's related nerves doesn't change or affect your sexual orientation at all! Ask George W. In his opinion it makes you a well rounded individual!



Seriously though, I do wish men ... more
Totally agree. Exploring all the way your body can give you pleasure does not make you gay or bisexual.
04/19/2011
Contributor: Solar Ray Solar Ray
Well if you want a guy's penis in you that "might" make you bi... but if you want a dildo or anal probe in your butt to make it feel good I'd say that makes you just want a dildo or anal probe in your butt to make it feel good.
04/19/2011
Contributor: Joie de Cherresse Joie de Cherresse
Unless you're thinking about wanting a MAN to play with you, no it doesn't make you bi.
04/19/2011
Contributor: married with children married with children
if he is attracted to guys as well as women, then that would make him bi.
04/20/2011
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Sexual orientation is not connected to location of stimulation. Enjoying a bit of buttplay makes you no more gay than enjoying oral sex does.
04/20/2011
Contributor: A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople)
No, its just a desire to have more of his erogenous zones stimulated.
04/20/2011
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
Not in my opinion.
04/20/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by Midway through
I love the way you worded this, LOL. Clearly, you're a gay man



Couldn't have said it better myself!
Mid said "Clearly, you're a gay man"



Bitchth
04/20/2011
Contributor: removedacnt removedacnt
Many men enjoy it and are not the least bit gay.
04/20/2011
Contributor: The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
Not only gay and bi men can enjoy a little play back there.
04/20/2011
Contributor: Lady Venus Lady Venus
Quote:
Originally posted by kawigrl
i guess it depends but not really- if you want to do it with another guy i'd say bi curious but if its just about stimulation ur just plain hetero
This.
04/20/2011