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Contributor: spicywife spicywife
Do you have hair on your chest, back, shoulders and/or butt and do you shave it those areas?

I am curious because when do we ever see male celebrities in movies (regular non-porn movies) that are hairy in the chest or back areas? I'm not sure about porn movies though because I don't watch porn. Are guys typically hairy in those or no?

Also, I am strictly talking about the areas mentioned above and I am not including hair in your genital region.

My husband is hairy on his chest and I like it. The only problem is he is also somewhat hairy on the lower back region which is kind of.. not sexy. But I don't have the heart to ask him to shave it! I am trying to just learn to appreciate it. I mean, hair is just harmless hair... right...?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
I am hairy in one or more of those areas and I do not shave because I like it
5
I am hairy in one or more of those areas and I do not shave because I don't care either way
39
I am hairy in one or more of those areas and I do shave because I like it better that way
27
I am hairy in one or more of those areas and I do shave because my partner prefers it or because I prefer it
10
My partner is hairy in those areas and does not shave because he likes it or I like it (or both)
16
My partner is hairy in those areas and does not shave because he doesn't care either way
30
I am not hairy in those areas (or not terribly so)
30
I am not hairy in those areas and I wish I was! Bring on wolf-man!
2
My partner is not hairy in those areas (or not terribly so)
13
My partner is not hairy in those areas but I wish he was!
2
Other (please explain)
15
Total votes: 189 (171 voters)
Poll is closed
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Contributor: Alan & Michele Alan & Michele
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Originally posted by spicywife
Do you have hair on your chest, back, shoulders and/or butt and do you shave it those areas?

I am curious because when do we ever see male celebrities in movies (regular non-porn movies) that are hairy in the chest or back areas? I'm not ... more
It depends on the kind of porn movies I think. From what I've seen in newer mainstream porn there aren't a lot of hairy chests and no hairy backs. I don't know if that's just in the genres that we watch, or if it's true of all porn these days. But in the classic porn that we've seen there are a lot of natural bodies, hair and all.
08/25/2009
Contributor: spicywife spicywife
Personally, I think hair makes a guy look rugged and to me that's a good thing. The lower back hair is just slightly off-putting to me for some reason...

Thanks for the info Michele! I figured it may be the same as mainstream movies.
08/26/2009
Contributor: removedacnt removedacnt
My husband has the hairiest chest and stomach and I love it!!! I love running my fingers through it. I love rubbing up against him when we're making love. And now that he's older there's more there. And there's more on his back, etc. Which I don't really care about either way. But I would be so mad if he shaved any part of his front side.
08/26/2009
Contributor: spicywife spicywife
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Originally posted by removedacnt
My husband has the hairiest chest and stomach and I love it!!! I love running my fingers through it. I love rubbing up against him when we're making love. And now that he's older there's more there. And there's more on his back, ... more
Me too, I think hairy chests are sexy. I've noticed that my husband's chest hair has increased some as he has aged (he is still just 26 but he used to be nearly bare) but it's still not super hairy.. just enough to play with though!
08/26/2009
Contributor: DigitalMisfit DigitalMisfit
I think hairy chests are very sexy. I love touching it.
Bare-chest men seem somehow adolescent. I did once date a man who shaved his chest.
Want to know what is NOT sexy?
Stubble chest!
08/26/2009
Contributor: LEATHERETTEeYeS LEATHERETTEeYeS
My boyfriend is hairy all over. Seems I can find very few parts of him that aren't covered in it. BUT, I love him and I wouldn't change a thing; his hairy, large, masculine body is an attractive contrast to my smooth, feminine body: SEXY.
08/26/2009
Contributor: Britni TheVadgeWig Britni TheVadgeWig
I voted "other" because I am not a male, nor do I currently have a male partner. However, I LOVE body hair on men. I prefer hairy to hairless, as there is something so masculine and sexy about men with hair.
08/26/2009
Contributor: Gary Gary
Me personally, I am very hairy. I have long hair, a long beard, and I am pretty hairy everywhere else too, (I was the dude in 8th grade that had a full beard). My wife kind of likes it (or so she says). But the hair on my shoulders and back really annoy me. So every now and then my wife will shave me with the clippers like I am some kind of zoo animal. It feels so good afterward!
08/26/2009
Contributor: Luscious Lily Luscious Lily
I'll be the brave odd woman out... I'm not a big fan of body hair on guys, especially backs, butts, and bellies. A bit of chest hair, I can deal with. Arm and leg hair, no problem. Facial hair, the jury's still out. I'm just not a fan of furry torsos. Unfortunately for me, as we grow older my boyfriend is beginning to grow more and more body hair, so I'm going to have to learn to love the fur.
08/26/2009
Contributor: spicywife spicywife
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Originally posted by Luscious Lily
I'll be the brave odd woman out... I'm not a big fan of body hair on guys, especially backs, butts, and bellies. A bit of chest hair, I can deal with. Arm and leg hair, no problem. Facial hair, the jury's still out. I'm just not a fan ... more
Facial hair is a must for me on my man, not sure why - it's just sexy! My husband would gladly shave his back hair if I really want him too so perhaps we'll give it a shot.. not like it won't grow back. It seems like it might look silly though since he's got hair on his legs, chest, stomach and nearly everywhere else.
08/26/2009
Contributor: Tuesday Tuesday
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Originally posted by Luscious Lily
I'll be the brave odd woman out... I'm not a big fan of body hair on guys, especially backs, butts, and bellies. A bit of chest hair, I can deal with. Arm and leg hair, no problem. Facial hair, the jury's still out. I'm just not a fan ... more
A little facial hair is ok with me. I'm with you on the lack of love for body hair. But my husband is quite hairy and I married him anyway. So many other redeeming qualities.

BTW, I read that Ron Jeremy shaved his back for all 1500 of his films.
08/26/2009
Contributor: Alan & Michele Alan & Michele
I'm not a hairy guy all over, but I've got a short beard which I'm beginning to suspect my wife hates.

Alan
08/26/2009
Contributor: spicywife spicywife
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Originally posted by Alan & Michele
I'm not a hairy guy all over, but I've got a short beard which I'm beginning to suspect my wife hates.

Alan
Oh no!
08/26/2009
Contributor: Backseat Boohoo Backseat Boohoo
I'm kind of in the middle when it comes to "ideals." I like a guy with some hair, especially on his chest and arms, but I've seen guys who were covered from head to toe in hair so thick it looked like they were wearing a carpet, and that just struck me as odd. By the same token, I always feel a little confused when I see a man without a single hair on his body.

Honestly, though, it's all about the other factors. Hair is really one of a thousand things to consider, and it's toward the bottom of my list.
08/26/2009
Contributor: Dark Muse Dark Muse
I can go either way on the chest hair issue. I love my boyfriend's chest and belly hair, and I find his tummy absolutely wonderful to lick and touch. I also love to see well-defined pecs and abs that aren't hindered by fuzz. I do know I'm not too keen on back hair.

My boyfriend is fuzzy on his chest, belly, arms, and is basically a Sasquatch below the waist to his ankles. He's also got sexy facial hair. I absolutely adore laying my head on his chest when cuddling and running my fingers through his chest hair.
08/29/2009
Contributor: sandman sandman
Quote:
Originally posted by spicywife
Do you have hair on your chest, back, shoulders and/or butt and do you shave it those areas?

I am curious because when do we ever see male celebrities in movies (regular non-porn movies) that are hairy in the chest or back areas? I'm not ... more
I have a moderately hairy chest but no hair on my back. As far as shaving it, I don't BIC it but occasionally trim it. My wife doesn't really prefer one or the other.
08/29/2009
Contributor: Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
I am not a fan of chest hair. A little treasure trail is okay and normal amounts of arm/legs hair is fine. I prefer none on the butt but am not so lucky. The face needs to be clean shaven, period. Most hair disgusts me.
08/29/2009
Contributor: adirondacker adirondacker
I'm a fairly hairy guy pretty much everywhere on my body and strangely enough I have very hairy upper arms? It is a common joke amongst my girlfriend and our friends that she needs to get me waxed or have me shave. She will say she is going to the minute we get home but either she always forgets, doesn't care, or actually likes it. It has never been an issue but if she ever had concerns, off it would go (except my beard). I like my hair, I like the jokes about it, I like that I can actually grow a beard, go hair! Of course though I feel the total opposite when it comes to the ladies...
08/30/2009
Contributor: Seductive Seductive
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Originally posted by adirondacker
I'm a fairly hairy guy pretty much everywhere on my body and strangely enough I have very hairy upper arms? It is a common joke amongst my girlfriend and our friends that she needs to get me waxed or have me shave. She will say she is going to ... more
Of course.
09/01/2009
Contributor: spicywife spicywife
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Originally posted by Adriana Ravenlust
I am not a fan of chest hair. A little treasure trail is okay and normal amounts of arm/legs hair is fine. I prefer none on the butt but am not so lucky. The face needs to be clean shaven, period. Most hair disgusts me.
Is it because hair can be greasy or just because its hair?
09/01/2009
Contributor: spicywife spicywife
And if you do shave your back hair/etc, what do you find is the best method for doing so?
09/01/2009
Contributor: Victoria Victoria
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Originally posted by Gary
Me personally, I am very hairy. I have long hair, a long beard, and I am pretty hairy everywhere else too, (I was the dude in 8th grade that had a full beard). My wife kind of likes it (or so she says). But the hair on my shoulders and back really ... more
I really DO like it - and now you're out in public, telling everyone about our zoo animal shaving rituals???? Those are *private*, Gary! Geeez...boundaries!
09/01/2009
Contributor: Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
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Originally posted by spicywife
Is it because hair can be greasy or just because its hair?
Because it's hair.
09/01/2009
Contributor: spicywife spicywife
Quote:
Originally posted by Victoria
I really DO like it - and now you're out in public, telling everyone about our zoo animal shaving rituals???? Those are *private*, Gary! Geeez...boundaries!
I'll block it out. I heard nothing about any zoo's are animals.
09/01/2009
Contributor: spicywife spicywife
Quote:
Originally posted by Victoria
I really DO like it - and now you're out in public, telling everyone about our zoo animal shaving rituals???? Those are *private*, Gary! Geeez...boundaries!
I'll block it out. I heard nothing about any zoo's or animals.
09/01/2009
Contributor: Danzig ate your mother Danzig ate your mother
I think chest hair is yummy. (^_^)
09/01/2009
Contributor: Lis794 Lis794
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09/03/2009
Contributor: Lis794 Lis794
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Originally posted by Lis794
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09/03/2009
Contributor: Lis794 Lis794
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Originally posted by Danzig ate your mother
I think chest hair is yummy. (^_^)
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09/03/2009