My sex drive is a lot higher then my husbands so no we don't have sex together every single night. I would if I could but he usually kisses me and reminds me thats why I have toys lol I tend to take care of my own needs when he isn't up for it so I'm still having sex daily.
Can we have some honest answers?
01/02/2012
I don't have sex every day, not even close. I have no problem telling my boyfriend that I'm not in the mood if it's the case. Sex is not an obligation.
01/03/2012
Sex is better than television, but not better than sleep.
01/03/2012
Every day we're together...we have sex. Minus one night when we were both really, really sore from all the sex we had the day before. We couldn't even move.
01/03/2012
Quote:
I voted every day, meaning, I would have sex every day at least once if my girl wanted it. That doesn't mean we do have sex every day, but I always want it. 24/7
Originally posted by
Rossie
Sometimes when I come across similar threads, a lot of EFers claim they have sex every single day, what about you? There are times when I'm too exhausted from chores, and I want nothing to do with sex, am I the only one? I'm going to keep
...
more
Sometimes when I come across similar threads, a lot of EFers claim they have sex every single day, what about you? There are times when I'm too exhausted from chores, and I want nothing to do with sex, am I the only one? I'm going to keep this poll private, because I want honest answers!
less
The frustrating part is I have ED issues, so it doesn't always work, but I still want it all the time
01/03/2012
I set a rule to never turn down sex, but there are nights when we are both tired so we sleep instead. I'd say 3-4x/week is average for us.
01/03/2012
Unless I've gone 36+ hours with not a wink of sleep, I'm up for sex!
01/03/2012
I'm not in a position right now to be able to have sex regularly at all, but ideally it would be.. pretty much whenever the mood takes us. I'm pretty easily turned on, even if I'm not really into it at first, too. It was never trouble for my last partner to get me going XD
As for masturbation, I actually don't do it that often =\ which is weird, considering the growing toy collection! I seem to just be too tired or not really driven enough, most of the time! No fun
As for masturbation, I actually don't do it that often =\ which is weird, considering the growing toy collection! I seem to just be too tired or not really driven enough, most of the time! No fun
01/04/2012
I have nights where I'm ok with skipping. Right now, though, I only have weekends free, so I take full advantage of them.
01/04/2012
I have a pretty high sex drive so when I have the time I will.
01/04/2012
Quote:
I am good for once or twice a day when hubby is home - 4 days a week. I will give it a roll for a quicki or give him a blow or hand job if I am super tired. He will most often pass if he knows I am sleepy and just lay next to me a jack off if he wants to cum before bed. I will do the same if its in reverse and diddle myself with my fingers or a toy. I think the most times we have done it in a day was like 4 times fucking and a couple mutual mast. Sessions.
Originally posted by
Rossie
Sometimes when I come across similar threads, a lot of EFers claim they have sex every single day, what about you? There are times when I'm too exhausted from chores, and I want nothing to do with sex, am I the only one? I'm going to keep
...
more
Sometimes when I come across similar threads, a lot of EFers claim they have sex every single day, what about you? There are times when I'm too exhausted from chores, and I want nothing to do with sex, am I the only one? I'm going to keep this poll private, because I want honest answers!
less
I do play on the side and I have had some nearly unconscious middle of the night romps with male fuck-buddies who have come by. This is when hubby is gone off to work though most of the time but he knows about it.
01/04/2012
Quote:
I will have sex with my partner every day, no matter how tired I am.
Originally posted by
Rossie
Sometimes when I come across similar threads, a lot of EFers claim they have sex every single day, what about you? There are times when I'm too exhausted from chores, and I want nothing to do with sex, am I the only one? I'm going to keep
...
more
Sometimes when I come across similar threads, a lot of EFers claim they have sex every single day, what about you? There are times when I'm too exhausted from chores, and I want nothing to do with sex, am I the only one? I'm going to keep this poll private, because I want honest answers!
less
01/05/2012
Most of the time I go for it, but other times we can be too tired.
01/21/2012
I have the highest sex drive of anyone I know in my "normal" life. I beg for sex daily and don't get it that often. When I was I was so happy and relaxed. I would have sex every day if I could. The things like soreness and being tired that normally get in the way for most people don't for me. Doesn't matter....still want it. Always.
01/21/2012
There are some days where when my head hits that pillow, my eyes close and that's all she wrote!
01/22/2012
Quote:
Though it would be nice, we don't. We dont live together and don't always have privacy
Originally posted by
Rossie
Sometimes when I come across similar threads, a lot of EFers claim they have sex every single day, what about you? There are times when I'm too exhausted from chores, and I want nothing to do with sex, am I the only one? I'm going to keep
...
more
Sometimes when I come across similar threads, a lot of EFers claim they have sex every single day, what about you? There are times when I'm too exhausted from chores, and I want nothing to do with sex, am I the only one? I'm going to keep this poll private, because I want honest answers!
less
01/22/2012
I may be single right now But I still need to be satisfied everyday.
01/25/2012
If works kills me that day, I have absolutely no energy.
01/25/2012
I would have sex everyday multiple times if I could but its just not practical. I make a point of doing some kind of sexual act with my partner every time I do see him (I have to get it out of my system). I masturbate frequently too so most days I either have sex, masturbate or do both.
02/26/2012
i go through phases. some times i dont have an appetite, and then sometimes i am insatiable
02/28/2012
Quote:
i have it with him every night even if im tired
Originally posted by
Rossie
Sometimes when I come across similar threads, a lot of EFers claim they have sex every single day, what about you? There are times when I'm too exhausted from chores, and I want nothing to do with sex, am I the only one? I'm going to keep
...
more
Sometimes when I come across similar threads, a lot of EFers claim they have sex every single day, what about you? There are times when I'm too exhausted from chores, and I want nothing to do with sex, am I the only one? I'm going to keep this poll private, because I want honest answers!
less
02/28/2012
Quote:
We have about 3 good nights a week. Sometimes on the weekend, however, now that we are "empty nesters" we can "go at it" four or five times!!! We DID buy and tried the "making love EVERY DAY" and planned to do it for a year, but honestly, WORK...more then anything else, then a bout of the flu, and just plain fatigue, made it simply physically impossible. I admire those who really do, or claim to, daily, but it is near impossible for two BUSY professional parents to pull it off. We DO show affection and love EVERY day. Sex...it would be nice, but maybe when we have retired!!!
Originally posted by
Rossie
Sometimes when I come across similar threads, a lot of EFers claim they have sex every single day, what about you? There are times when I'm too exhausted from chores, and I want nothing to do with sex, am I the only one? I'm going to keep
...
more
Sometimes when I come across similar threads, a lot of EFers claim they have sex every single day, what about you? There are times when I'm too exhausted from chores, and I want nothing to do with sex, am I the only one? I'm going to keep this poll private, because I want honest answers!
less
02/28/2012
Quote:
I'm in this group!!
Originally posted by
jedent
we strive for nightly but obviously if life, injury or illness get in the way we take a break.
02/29/2012
Quote:
Everyday.
Originally posted by
Rossie
Sometimes when I come across similar threads, a lot of EFers claim they have sex every single day, what about you? There are times when I'm too exhausted from chores, and I want nothing to do with sex, am I the only one? I'm going to keep
...
more
Sometimes when I come across similar threads, a lot of EFers claim they have sex every single day, what about you? There are times when I'm too exhausted from chores, and I want nothing to do with sex, am I the only one? I'm going to keep this poll private, because I want honest answers!
less
03/12/2012
Sometimes I am tired and have to sleep, but I always *want* to regardless. My wife on the other hand is frequently unsettled or sick and doesn't want to.
03/12/2012
Sex every single day sounds insane to me. Unless yr a trust fund baby living off of someone else's money? Yeah. I would have to think that most working people (this includes stay at home parents, because parenting is a full time job) don't have the energy for sex EVERY day. Personally? I don't even want sex every day, so I don't think I'd have if daily even it I could. Sometimes I feel sad, sometimes I feel self-conscious, sometimes I just want to watch tv. 3-4 times a week is ideal, but 2 times or less, or no sex at all during a week can be fine sometimes, too. Occasionally, that just makes more sense and is more fulfilling; there are other things I want to do in my free time during some weeks.
03/13/2012
I'm usually up for sex every single day unless I am sick to my stomach or on my period (I usually have horrendous cramps). Those are the only two times I can't even stand the thought of sex.
03/16/2012
We try to have sex every day but if not we still fool around with each other
03/16/2012
my bf and i had sex evernight
03/16/2012
Butterfly Princess
Things definitely have changed for us since we had our fist child 5 and half years ago.
Having kids really does change the dynamic of a relationship, as well as the woman's body.
There are times when it doesn't matter how tired we are, if we want to be together, than we will be together.
But many times we are both too tired, and we are happy with just cuddling and talking before falling asleep.
In a healthy relationship, you don't "have to" have sex every night to show your partner you love them. My husband and I have been married to each other for 8 years, and we love each other very much. Sometimes that is displayed in the bedroom, but often it is in the daily things we do for each other.
Our relationship is based on mutual trust, consideration, and love. Sex is fun, and we enjoy being together, but that is only one aspect of our relationship. We love to connect on an emotional and spiritual plane as well as the daily tasks of life we demonstrate our love and faithfulness to each other and our family.
We enjoy going out for our date nights and discovering new things together as well. It is wonderful to have someone that you can trust explicitly and know they will be there for you your entire life. This is what we enjoy; living our lives together, and sharing in our journey.
Having kids really does change the dynamic of a relationship, as well as the woman's body.
There are times when it doesn't matter how tired we are, if we want to be together, than we will be together.
But many times we are both too tired, and we are happy with just cuddling and talking before falling asleep.
In a healthy relationship, you don't "have to" have sex every night to show your partner you love them. My husband and I have been married to each other for 8 years, and we love each other very much. Sometimes that is displayed in the bedroom, but often it is in the daily things we do for each other.
Our relationship is based on mutual trust, consideration, and love. Sex is fun, and we enjoy being together, but that is only one aspect of our relationship. We love to connect on an emotional and spiritual plane as well as the daily tasks of life we demonstrate our love and faithfulness to each other and our family.
We enjoy going out for our date nights and discovering new things together as well. It is wonderful to have someone that you can trust explicitly and know they will be there for you your entire life. This is what we enjoy; living our lives together, and sharing in our journey.
03/16/2012