Does your sex drive match that of your partner? What things have you tried to make them match if they don't?
Do your sex drives match?
11/21/2010
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My sex drive is considerably higher then my hubby's but I don't need them to match that's what they make toys for
Hubby is still convinced I'm gonna ride him to death which isn't a bad way to go lol and he reminds me from time to time 'you know they make a toy for that'
Hubby is still convinced I'm gonna ride him to death which isn't a bad way to go lol and he reminds me from time to time 'you know they make a toy for that'
11/21/2010
Mine is significantly more than my wife's - though it's gotten better over time. Weekends are great - it's just hard to get that mid-week romp to bridge the gap.
11/21/2010
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We have times set aside just for us, then it's just about anything goes.
Originally posted by
PropertyOfPotter
Does your sex drive match that of your partner? What things have you tried to make them match if they don't?
11/21/2010
I have a higher sex drive than my one ex and my current boyfriend. It can be pretty frustrating. I would have sex several times a day if I could get it, but my boyfriend just isn't like that usually. I'm pretty happy with the once a day I'm getting, but I could definitely go for more.
11/21/2010
I run on top-fuel with a shot of nitrous while the wife runs on unleaded. Thank the gods I have toys.
11/21/2010
We are pretty evenly matched. My hubby might be slightly more driven but not by much.
11/21/2010
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We seem to go back and forth. When I was first dating him, (he was my first) our drives were pretty evenly matched (I was a horny teen ager and he was a horny man a little older than I am) then, when we had babies, my drive was not very strong. When you have babies and small children, all your energy seems to be focused on them, and you don't have a lot of time for sex. Admittedly, we still had sex 3-4 times a week, even then. (He reminded me that one of his most happy memories of our sex life was when we brought our youngest baby home from the hospital. I has had a C Sec, my nipples were sore from breastfeeeding a baby with a latch on disorder (and a premie) I had a problem where my skin had been torn off when they removed the plastic coating on my hips after the surgery. I felt pretty bad. I also couldn't get into the water bed, where we sleep, from the Section scar. He said the second night home, I was lying on the air mattress he had set up for me on our floor, I got the baby to sleep and said "Somebody needs a blow job." He said, "You were in a lot of pain, you were just home from the hospital with a new baby, you were barely sleeping at all. And you still thought of me and my needs. It was very sweet. Good BJ, too." Anyway.)
Originally posted by
PropertyOfPotter
Does your sex drive match that of your partner? What things have you tried to make them match if they don't?
Now, he's in his 50s and my drive is very strong. His is as well. But, as he says sometimes, "Sometimes your mind writes a check your body can't cash." But, we're still doing well. It's weird, even though I've always had a very strong drive (except for when we had babies and I was on Depo) my drive is stronger by a little bit now. I hear, "I'm tired!" a lot. I say, "So what? I'm horny." A lot.
11/21/2010
They didn't used to match, now mine is catching up now that I've hit 30! His hasn't decreased since the day we met, so he's very pleased that I'm usually RARING to go!
11/21/2010
We are completely unmatched. My wife is going through menopause and her sex drive is very low and mine is moderately high. We devote one night a week for each other, but it doesn't always include sex.
11/22/2010
We have two smaller children (4 years and 2 years) and are almost 18 weeks pregnant. Our sex drives totally match and it makes things amazing!!! We've been having sex twice a day (usually) and it's sooo wonderful!
11/22/2010
His is higher than mine, usually. The week after I fnish my period I want it ALL the time. He can't keep up that week, but anytime after that, his is higher than mine.
11/22/2010
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Absolutely We're rabbits!! Thanks college..LOL
Originally posted by
PropertyOfPotter
Does your sex drive match that of your partner? What things have you tried to make them match if they don't?
11/22/2010
My husband says that my sex drive is a bit stronger than his at the moment, but he does a nice job of keeping up with me even though I might have him contemplating getting a massage to take care of his aching hips and knees.
11/22/2010
I think i'm a tad bit more "freakier" than she is but shes OK with it,
12/14/2010
His is a bit higher than mine, but it really just brings mine up too.
12/14/2010
My bf has the high drive--he's up almost all the time, meanwhile I barely have a drive at all.
12/14/2010
I've never actually dated a guy with a sex drive as big as mine. It's frustrating sometimes, and sometimes it kind of hurts my feelings, not going to lie. But such is life. I have my toys and porn.
Also, I am convinced I am the only single person on this entire site.
Also, I am convinced I am the only single person on this entire site.
12/14/2010
mine's probably a little higher, but it's not so big of a difference that it makes either of us unhappy. We both just compromise once in awhile
12/14/2010
We're pretty close. 90% of the time I'm just as horny as he is, the other 10% I'm "worse" than he is. Most recently, his roommate had a mutual friend of theirs over, and I REALLY wanted to go have sex. I got turned down because it's "rude to just go upstairs to really obviously have sex." I should have just gone upstairs and masturbated just to prove a point. In fact...next time I think I will.
12/22/2010
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My girlfriend and I are very balanced. We both have very strong libidos. She has a sex drive like a man! I love it!
Originally posted by
PropertyOfPotter
Does your sex drive match that of your partner? What things have you tried to make them match if they don't?
12/22/2010
My sex drive is a little bit higher than my wife's, but just today at lunch she caught me off guard and it was a nice surprise. I would say 75% of the time my sex drive is stronger.
12/22/2010
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My sex drive is closer to Arch's than to Sigel's...but Arch is 14 years Sigel's junior. So I'm about normal!
Originally posted by
PropertyOfPotter
Does your sex drive match that of your partner? What things have you tried to make them match if they don't?
12/22/2010
some of them i keep up with and others keep up with me
12/23/2010
For the most part, yes. Generally I want sex more, but he usually does more of the work so I can understand him not wanting to if he's tired. But thankfully we have a swing now, so getting exhausted during sex isn't much of an issue anymore It's practically effortless, which makes him wanna fuck me more! Total win, in my opinion!
12/23/2010
My sex drive is definitely higher than my husband's is now. But after all these years that has changed back and forth. At times, it has been equal. And at other times one of us has had the higher drive. So I guess it all works out in the end.
12/23/2010
I have been married 12 years and since the beginning my husband has had a stronger drive than me. However since I turned 30 I just can't get enough sex. I could do it 5 times a day. LOL. He works very long hours so we usually do it about 6 times a week. I wish it was more but I think the quality matters more than the quantity and it's always good.
01/10/2011
Not even close. I've been married 14 years, and my sex drive has been much, much higher the entire time. Unless mine plummets, I doubt I see ever see her equal to mine.
01/10/2011
We've gone back and forth as well. There was a while back in college where I just couldn't keep up, but I think that had a lot to do with medications I was taking at the time. These days, it's not even close. I've tried doing things to remove stress from her life, getting new toys, romantic dates, the works. Given my track record, I'm inclined to believe that you can't really do anything to get them to match.
01/19/2011
Ours are a perfect match. HIGH!
01/19/2011
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