Younger than 15, but answered that one.
Females: At what age did you have your first orgasm? Or have you not had an orgasm yet? If so was it solo or with a partner? And was it during oral sex, or penetration?
03/05/2011
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I didn't vote either, because I was having them WAY before I hit 15.
Originally posted by
buzzvibe
Dang. I remember getting in trouble as a young child--like 3 or 4 years old--for masturbating. I would sit by myself in preschool and do it until I climaxed. I didn't know what I was doing or that it was a natural thing, I just knew it felt good.
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Dang. I remember getting in trouble as a young child--like 3 or 4 years old--for masturbating. I would sit by myself in preschool and do it until I climaxed. I didn't know what I was doing or that it was a natural thing, I just knew it felt good. I'm sure the grown-ups all knew what I was up to. I recall one afternoon the teacher telling my parents that they couldn't get me to participate in group activities, and one day my mom caught me when she got there to pick me up and lectured me the whole way home. I'm sure it was embarrassing for my parents, LOL.
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So, I didn't vote since "before I can remember" isn't an option. less
I don't know how old I was, honestly. I'm pretty sure that I just masturbated right from infancy. I remember my brother getting caught masturbating (when I was about 3 or 4) and him being told that that was something he should only do in private... and I made a mental note to myself "Dang, he's silly that he wasn't doing it under the covers at night like I do!"
I know that I was certainly masturbating to orgasm before the age of six. I had no idea that that's what it was called, but that's what it was. It wasn't really until puberty that I learned words like "orgasm" and was able to put them with my experiences.
03/06/2011
Age 2 or 3, thankfully solo!
I remember having them in my sleep as a very small child. I think while I was being potty trained, I would sleep with my legs crossed and squirm as my bladder got full. The squirming made me have an orgasm, and then I would wake up and tell my parents I needed to use the restroom. I wasn't masturbating intentionally, it just kind of happened.
I remember having them in my sleep as a very small child. I think while I was being potty trained, I would sleep with my legs crossed and squirm as my bladder got full. The squirming made me have an orgasm, and then I would wake up and tell my parents I needed to use the restroom. I wasn't masturbating intentionally, it just kind of happened.
03/06/2011
Haha, I was just talking about this last night, I was definitely under 4. At the first house we lived in, we had a hot tub. I quickly discovered that the high powered water jets felt very very nice. As for intentional masturbation, I think I was 9 or 10. It took two years of having sex for me to be able to orgasm from penetration, though, so I was 16. Funny story, my boyfriend and I got "caught" by my mother the day of that wonderful first orgasm during sex. For me it was mainly a matter of position, though. It's much easier for me in positions where I can get g-spot stimulation and some clitoral stimulation.
03/07/2011
I've been masturbating since I was really little - probably age 6 or 7 - without knowing exactly what I was doing, but I didn't achieve orgasm until I was 16.
03/13/2011
I've been masturbating since I was 12. I am 19 now and have not had an orgasm.
03/13/2011
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Another write-in vote here. I had my first around, hmm, 8 or 9, I guess. It kind of surprised me because I didn't know what had happened. That's what made me begin hiding in corners at the library to look up genitals and then sex as a result of that, and figuring it out. Major lightbulb moment for me!
Originally posted by
Cwhitten006
I'm very curious about asking other females about their first orgasm experience because I am soon to be 25, have 2 kids, am married and have never had an orgasm. I'm just wondering if I'm the only 25 year old female that has not yet
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I'm very curious about asking other females about their first orgasm experience because I am soon to be 25, have 2 kids, am married and have never had an orgasm. I'm just wondering if I'm the only 25 year old female that has not yet experienced one. Or if my husband and me are doing something wrong. If you have any tips or advice on how to achieve one, please feel free to share. I'd like to share a little about my sex life, to see if a few of you ladies out there to help me. I don't care to ride, because I'm insecure about my body like most female, but I have done it many times. My husband eats me out, I don't care to masturbate, I believe thats what I have him for. He pleases me not me please myself. However I have attempted it before and I felt awkward. If your wondering about the toys I get, he uses them on me. So any advice?
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04/15/2011
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I was 13. solo accidental. Hmmm...maybe I should blog aobut this. It would be interesting.
Originally posted by
Cwhitten006
I'm very curious about asking other females about their first orgasm experience because I am soon to be 25, have 2 kids, am married and have never had an orgasm. I'm just wondering if I'm the only 25 year old female that has not yet
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I'm very curious about asking other females about their first orgasm experience because I am soon to be 25, have 2 kids, am married and have never had an orgasm. I'm just wondering if I'm the only 25 year old female that has not yet experienced one. Or if my husband and me are doing something wrong. If you have any tips or advice on how to achieve one, please feel free to share. I'd like to share a little about my sex life, to see if a few of you ladies out there to help me. I don't care to ride, because I'm insecure about my body like most female, but I have done it many times. My husband eats me out, I don't care to masturbate, I believe thats what I have him for. He pleases me not me please myself. However I have attempted it before and I felt awkward. If your wondering about the toys I get, he uses them on me. So any advice?
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05/08/2011
I'm 19 and I recently just had my first orgasm! We got that Wild G and he went at me !! I had the experience of a life time! it's all about finding the right spot!
05/08/2011
I was around 8 or 9 years old and solo.
05/08/2011
Mine was at around 13 and solo.
06/05/2011
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12, solo.
Originally posted by
Cwhitten006
I'm very curious about asking other females about their first orgasm experience because I am soon to be 25, have 2 kids, am married and have never had an orgasm. I'm just wondering if I'm the only 25 year old female that has not yet
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I'm very curious about asking other females about their first orgasm experience because I am soon to be 25, have 2 kids, am married and have never had an orgasm. I'm just wondering if I'm the only 25 year old female that has not yet experienced one. Or if my husband and me are doing something wrong. If you have any tips or advice on how to achieve one, please feel free to share. I'd like to share a little about my sex life, to see if a few of you ladies out there to help me. I don't care to ride, because I'm insecure about my body like most female, but I have done it many times. My husband eats me out, I don't care to masturbate, I believe thats what I have him for. He pleases me not me please myself. However I have attempted it before and I felt awkward. If your wondering about the toys I get, he uses them on me. So any advice?
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06/20/2011
I was *well* below your youngest age when I first had them, I used to masturbate with the shower head before I even knew what masturbation even was.
07/26/2011
Solo 18!
07/28/2011
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i agree. I used to be really uptight about partners' fantasies etc. but i think feeling comfortable about myself and what I want and exploring my own fantasies and inhibitions too helped me to respect others to do the same. As I'm not just my body, my physical desires do not cancel out my spiritual and emotional needs and wants and I appreciate as much in others. My family was very religious and conservative about sexuality (though I've begun talking a bit more openly and happily so on all fronts with my mother and sister as of late), though i was always interested of course in my body and was reprimanded several times by friends' parents for experimental playtime. Growing out of patterns of shame associated with sexuality and into healthy self-love has been the most holistically rewarding steps I've ever taken.
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Backseat Boohoo
I don't HAVE to do anything. I CHOOSE to please myself because it's my body, I like exploring it, and I like pleasing myself. I like having partners who please me and go out of their way to do so, but I also like it when my partners please
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I don't HAVE to do anything. I CHOOSE to please myself because it's my body, I like exploring it, and I like pleasing myself. I like having partners who please me and go out of their way to do so, but I also like it when my partners please themselves, because they know their bodies better (so they can help me out when I want to please them,) and I enjoy seeing them happy. And besides, a partner isn't a plastic fuckdoll or a person I have just so they can complete me. I don't need to be completed, I am more than enough, I am a whole person. A partner is just a compliment to my current self, another individual who is also a complete and separate person.
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That's how I view masturbation. less
On another note, cowgirl is the best position for clitoral orgasm as I had when I was probably 19, 69 (the event, not the age) has also been a good orgasm be-getter, and my ivibe pocket rocket has brought me new awakenings and frontiers in sexual and personal independence. The personal touch (mine, not trojans') clitoral orgasm was long in comming, though so much more transcendental than with toys or a partner, and I didn't experience that until a few months ago Fantasies and listening to my own heartbeat helped with that, and patience, and porn with really orgasming pornstars. Loving myself has translated into a lot more love for other and that in turn has lead to more love for myself too, and seeking to keep my whole self happy and honestly so.
08/17/2011
I was that little kid who always got yelled at to get my hand out of my pants. My mom used to tell me shed put chili on my fingers. Not because they are weird about sex its just i would always do it always. I started humping pillows and stuff at a really young age cause it felt good. And found out alot durimg tub time, just from washing. My first orgasm was fairly young, grammer school for sure. I masturbated constantly through puberty, several times a day because i was hooked on orgams. You just have to find out what works for you.
08/17/2011
Probably around 8 or so solo.
08/17/2011
I was about 11 and it was done solo. I thank God I was blessed with the ability to have an orgasm everytime during sexual activity. I've even had orgasms durning fully clothed dry humping. hahahaha
08/18/2011
12 years old and solo.
08/18/2011
I was thirteen at the very most and I was alone.
08/18/2011
Age 12, solo.
08/18/2011
10. in the shower with the shower head
08/27/2011
I was around 13 when I started trying to find ways to orgasm, my first was actually in the bath under the water faucet but that quickly turned into the in the shower with the shower head
Was kinda funny because I had thought I had an orgasm before.. but apparently not. I was a little startled when it hit but then it felt so good I just relaxed and thought "Wow!"
Was kinda funny because I had thought I had an orgasm before.. but apparently not. I was a little startled when it hit but then it felt so good I just relaxed and thought "Wow!"
08/27/2011
solo is easier
10/16/2011
There was no option for me, I was under 15, probably about 9, and it was solo.
05/26/2012
I know that you're hesitant to going solo because you think that's what your husband is for, but perhaps you could try going solo (maybe with him watching, if that makes it more comfortable). It's a lot of pressure to expect him to figure it out if you haven't yet. Get a *really* strong vibrator, and just do what feels goods. Do it until you start getting frustrated, lay off for a little bit and give your body time to calm down. Then come back to it. After about 4 or 5 rounds, it gets pretty wild. I had to do it for months before I finally came. It's really a game about perseverance more than anything. Trust me, I don't think you're husband will mind!
05/26/2012
I was around 12 or 13, and it was solo. I will say that masturbation really does help - you need to figure out what your own sexual response is when you're the only person in the room before you can replicate that with your husband! : )
05/30/2012
Younger than 15, and solo.
05/30/2012
Girlfriend was about 10 or 11 and she was solo.....she's 28 now
05/30/2012
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HAHA my girlfriend named her shower head Fred
Originally posted by
jedent
Write in vote: around 11, solo. I discovered the whole shower jet stream young. Possibly younger than that but 11 is the earliest I remember.
05/30/2012