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Contributor: mistyblue mistyblue
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Any suggestions on how to or what to get (brand) to help my husband last longer. We/I really need the help.
01/15/2010
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Contributor: Sammi Sammi
I've never tried any of these, so I can't be of help there.

Have you ever tried a cock ring? We've had good luck with those.
01/16/2010
Contributor: Jimbo Jones Jimbo Jones
I agree with Sammi, a cock ring is probably the best way to go if he wants to lasy longer.
01/16/2010
Contributor: Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
We haven't found a cock ring that works well for us but I did have a chance to try Wet Together Pleasure Gels for Couples and the stuff for him did prolong ejaculation without making him numb.
01/17/2010
Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
Use a cock ring in combination with an erection cream or gel. I just did a few few reviews of both. Check my profile for suggestions.
01/17/2010
Contributor: Saraid Saraid
I would suggest a cock ring for sex and maybe get him something like the Fleshlight STU or any other Fleshlight to practice more. The more he uses it and practices holding back, the longer he'll last with you.
01/17/2010
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
I love long sessions with my b/f but how long is sufficient? Or what is too short for you both? My b/f always wishes he could last longer regardless of the time......
Again as others have mentioned, a cock ring can work also, just plain practice. A masturbator sleeve can also be an aid.
I would stay away from desensitizing creams overall.
01/17/2010
Contributor: SexyTigerX SexyTigerX
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Originally posted by Adriana Ravenlust
We haven't found a cock ring that works well for us but I did have a chance to try Wet Together Pleasure Gels for Couples and the stuff for him did prolong ejaculation without making him numb.
We tried Not Gel Yet. At first he said it burned and than he said he was so numb he couldn't feel anything. So I went down to lick it off and my lips were very numb. Really odd feeling. No more of that one!

I'm going to try Wet Together Pleasure Gels for Couples like Adriana Ravenlust suggests. Good luck.
01/17/2010
Contributor: Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
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Originally posted by SexyTigerX
We tried Not Gel Yet. At first he said it burned and than he said he was so numb he couldn't feel anything. So I went down to lick it off and my lips were very numb. Really odd feeling. No more of that one!

I'm going to try Wet ... more
Our experience is that.. he really couldn't feel any sensation or lack there of because of the product which is great. It's really a negative thing whether he's completely numb or he's trying to focus on not cumming, so it was a good product for us.
01/17/2010
Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
Foreplay.

A guy will last as long as he can. To hold back is torture for me and can sometimes end with me not being able to finish as all.

So, if we're enjoying our time together, I try to focus on my partner more.
01/17/2010
Contributor: Colossus Colossus
some of the condoms they make now are specially designed to maximize performance. I've heard Durex Performax are some of the best, though I've never tried them myself
01/17/2010
Contributor: sensual sensual
I am new to sex toys, and I am trying to put together a package for my husband and I who have been apart for awhile. I have selected the deep throat stroker, the Siena Rondo so far, I was hoping to add a cock ring and a dvd, any suggestions on my selections or for a cock ring and dvd,what I am looking for in a movie is a horny story line but not corny. thanks
04/25/2010
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by mistyblue
Any suggestions on how to or what to get (brand) to help my husband last longer. We/I really need the help.
The only one of these I've tried is Semenex - it's awful! It hardened into an unusable lump about 1 hour after opening it.
04/25/2010
Contributor: Sera Sera
Viagra???? There's medications for that problem. But don't you love him the way he is? If you did, it wouldn't really matter, would it?
07/30/2010
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by Sera
Viagra???? There's medications for that problem. But don't you love him the way he is? If you did, it wouldn't really matter, would it?
Viagra addresses ED (erectile dysfunction) not PE (premature ejaculation). Although I have found that Cialis actually helps with both ED & PE

Right now there are no PE drugs on the market - but I know there is at least one in clinical trials. Most people rely on kegels - which help both control and intensity (a 2-fer as they say) and delay creams - which in my mind isn't cool if it causes both of you to delay.
07/30/2010