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Contributor: Bitxhslapmakeup Bitxhslapmakeup
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My Boyfriend has trouble keepinq his penis hard durinq sex i mean he has no problem gettinq an erection but after the second ejaculation his penis just dies out of nowere... Do You Think It's Me.?? iHope Not, But does anyone have advice 2help me.?
10/25/2010
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Contributor: The two of us The two of us
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Originally posted by Bitxhslapmakeup
My Boyfriend has trouble keepinq his penis hard durinq sex i mean he has no problem gettinq an erection but after the second ejaculation his penis just dies out of nowere... Do You Think It's Me.?? iHope Not, But does anyone have advice 2help ... more
No it is not you. Some times with us guys we get so involved and loose focus. We are trying hard to please that we lose stimulation. The fact that you get two orgasms is good. Give him time to recuperate and he will be ok.
10/26/2010
Contributor: Matheri89 Matheri89
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Originally posted by Bitxhslapmakeup
My Boyfriend has trouble keepinq his penis hard durinq sex i mean he has no problem gettinq an erection but after the second ejaculation his penis just dies out of nowere... Do You Think It's Me.?? iHope Not, But does anyone have advice 2help ... more
Many times, the body will compensate for exhaustion, including cramping, fainting, or sleepiness to prevent further overuse. With rest, the body will recover. The penis and testes are the same. Give a short rest afterwards, and use the time for cuddling, talking, making out, or other foreplay. Eventually, his function will return, and you can continue if you wish. That said, two male orgasms is pretty good. You may want to work on making the sex longer so that two orgasms occur over a longer period of time.

If he wasn't able to become erect at all, this would be an issue. In this case, it's not. It's definitely not you, and don't let anyone tell you that!
10/26/2010
Contributor: Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
There are many men who aren't even able to perform more than once per day or night, so a hard time maintaining an erection after two is not a problematic issue. A little time, or a nap, or even a meal should help in most cases.
10/26/2010
Contributor: Alicia Alicia
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Originally posted by Tori Rebel
There are many men who aren't even able to perform more than once per day or night, so a hard time maintaining an erection after two is not a problematic issue. A little time, or a nap, or even a meal should help in most cases.
Yep exactly.
10/26/2010
Contributor: Bitxhslapmakeup Bitxhslapmakeup
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Originally posted by Matheri89
Many times, the body will compensate for exhaustion, including cramping, fainting, or sleepiness to prevent further overuse. With rest, the body will recover. The penis and testes are the same. Give a short rest afterwards, and use the time for ... more
Thank You So Much So iWas So Worried That Maybe He Wasnt Interested In Me Anymore... And When We Take Breaks In Between He Usually Does Come Back 2 Life... SO Thank'sxz
10/26/2010
Contributor: Bitxhslapmakeup Bitxhslapmakeup
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Originally posted by The two of us
No it is not you. Some times with us guys we get so involved and loose focus. We are trying hard to please that we lose stimulation. The fact that you get two orgasms is good. Give him time to recuperate and he will be ok.
Thanks.!!
10/26/2010
Contributor: Bitxhslapmakeup Bitxhslapmakeup
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Originally posted by Tori Rebel
There are many men who aren't even able to perform more than once per day or night, so a hard time maintaining an erection after two is not a problematic issue. A little time, or a nap, or even a meal should help in most cases.
Lol, Yea iCud Make Him A Meal He Wud Appreciate That Alot
10/26/2010
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
2 ejaculations is actually pretty good.

You could have him try doing Kegels - they will help strengthen the pelvic area which will help to keep the penis erect longer - the downside is that he will probably have to "try' to keep it erect for any longer period of time.
10/26/2010
Contributor: markeagleone markeagleone
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Originally posted by Bitxhslapmakeup
My Boyfriend has trouble keepinq his penis hard durinq sex i mean he has no problem gettinq an erection but after the second ejaculation his penis just dies out of nowere... Do You Think It's Me.?? iHope Not, But does anyone have advice 2help ... more
make it last longer and itll be better
01/19/2011
Contributor: KnK KnK
Idk if this is actually helpful or not, but the first thing that came to mind was cock rings.
01/19/2011
Contributor: ihavenipples ihavenipples
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Originally posted by KnK
Idk if this is actually helpful or not, but the first thing that came to mind was cock rings.
Everyone is different but I wouldn't dare to put on a cock ring at that point. That penis blew twice already and just needs a break. There are other things they can do instead of penetrative sex.
01/20/2011
Contributor: CPTInsanity CPTInsanity
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Originally posted by Bitxhslapmakeup
My Boyfriend has trouble keepinq his penis hard durinq sex i mean he has no problem gettinq an erection but after the second ejaculation his penis just dies out of nowere... Do You Think It's Me.?? iHope Not, But does anyone have advice 2help ... more
Its not you. This happens to almost all of us guys at one point or another. I'm still fairly young, but I went to the doc and got a persciption for that. One pill and you can go litterally all night long, and get it back up within about five minutes after climax. But you might have to beat your boyfriend off with a stick if you go that option.
01/25/2011
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
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Originally posted by ihavenipples
Everyone is different but I wouldn't dare to put on a cock ring at that point. That penis blew twice already and just needs a break. There are other things they can do instead of penetrative sex.
Give him a couple of hours and then try again. It gives him a good time to practice cunnilingus, right?
01/25/2011
Contributor: UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
Yeah, if you're getting two ejaculations out of him you probably don't have anything to worry about.
01/26/2011
Contributor: Curious Cloud Curious Cloud
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Originally posted by UnknownGirl
Yeah, if you're getting two ejaculations out of him you probably don't have anything to worry about.
I agree, My guy can be all ready to go, but after the first, he is down for the count. It can take a few min, to a few hours before he is able to go again. He is so sensitive that even light stimulation is painful.

So I would say NO its not you!!! you are doing a great job hahaha
01/26/2011
Contributor: Josh aka FootMan Josh aka FootMan
I wouldn't say it's an issue.. it's not you. Is he able to get it up shortly after? Say like 15 to 30 minutes?

I'm only 22 and for as long as I can remember, my dick pretty much goes limp 80% of the time within 5 minutes after an orgasm. If I "try" can pretty easily keep myself moderately hard - but as far as multiple orgasms for me - it usually only happens a couple times a month. I prefer to extend foreplay and see her come over and over, than to just fuck until I come and then do it all over again shortly after.

Not many people can stay rock hard after an orgasm and keep going - most of us need some sort of break in between - age and health both play a factor in all of this. When I ran daily and worked out more, I was able to go over and over again. It makes sense when you think about it. Being more in shape means more oxygen in the blood, and also more blood flow to the penis. 30 Pounds heavier and only 2 years later I've found it harder to keep up this pace even after quitting smoking cancer sticks about five months ago.

Solution: Wait for the snow to melt so I can run my big ass down the street.

If you guys really want to go at it "all night" maybe try working out regularly if at all possible.
01/26/2011
Contributor: Curious Cloud Curious Cloud
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Originally posted by Josh aka FootMan
I wouldn't say it's an issue.. it's not you. Is he able to get it up shortly after? Say like 15 to 30 minutes?

I'm only 22 and for as long as I can remember, my dick pretty much goes limp 80% of the time within 5 minutes after ... more
I laughed so hard "run my big ass down the street".

My fiance, said... wait... did I write this??? haha It fit him 100%
01/26/2011
Contributor: thedude thedude
2 words, blue pill
01/28/2011
Contributor: Cream in the Cupcake Cream in the Cupcake
Well, Doesn't every guy go limp after cumming?
01/28/2011
Contributor: Say what? Say what?
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Originally posted by Bitxhslapmakeup
My Boyfriend has trouble keepinq his penis hard durinq sex i mean he has no problem gettinq an erection but after the second ejaculation his penis just dies out of nowere... Do You Think It's Me.?? iHope Not, But does anyone have advice 2help ... more
In my personal experience, I have no problem keeping my erection after the second ejaculation but usually depending on my mood and the time of day and other factors, my erection may or may not return. The most I've been able to keep my erection for is about after 6 ejaculations but that is rare.
11/04/2011
Contributor: arewehavingfun? arewehavingfun?
Dear Bitxhslapmakeup--

You and your boyfriend seem very young and inexperienced. For a guy to have 2 orgasms/ejaculations close together is an accomplishment at any age past 20, give or take a few years. The fact that he wants to be with you, hopefully for reasons other than sex, should tell you that he finds you attractive.

And, if you are with him for many years, you will find the action slowing down, but more satisfying.

Hope everyone's comments are helpful to you.
11/13/2011
Contributor: Rawhide Rawhide
He goes down after TWO ejaculations, and this is a problem? Damn
11/13/2011
Contributor: Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
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Originally posted by The two of us
No it is not you. Some times with us guys we get so involved and loose focus. We are trying hard to please that we lose stimulation. The fact that you get two orgasms is good. Give him time to recuperate and he will be ok.
This.
11/13/2011
Contributor: irishlove irishlove
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Originally posted by Bitxhslapmakeup
My Boyfriend has trouble keepinq his penis hard durinq sex i mean he has no problem gettinq an erection but after the second ejaculation his penis just dies out of nowere... Do You Think It's Me.?? iHope Not, But does anyone have advice 2help ... more
You're saying this usually happens after his SECOND ejaculation....he's not God. Men can't preform forever. You should be happen he keeps going. Some men just want to stop after cumming the first time.
11/13/2011
Contributor: Darklyvan Darklyvan
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Originally posted by Bitxhslapmakeup
My Boyfriend has trouble keepinq his penis hard durinq sex i mean he has no problem gettinq an erection but after the second ejaculation his penis just dies out of nowere... Do You Think It's Me.?? iHope Not, But does anyone have advice 2help ... more
Two ejaculations is not bad, of course that depends on the amount of time it takes to reach climax. I have and average limit of thee in a night, but my wife and I are still in a newlywed stage and have sex nearly every night. If I go longer between session I can have more.
11/13/2011
Contributor: LQ LQ
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Originally posted by Bitxhslapmakeup
My Boyfriend has trouble keepinq his penis hard durinq sex i mean he has no problem gettinq an erection but after the second ejaculation his penis just dies out of nowere... Do You Think It's Me.?? iHope Not, But does anyone have advice 2help ... more
"...after the second ejaculation..." Demanding much? LoL? I've only been involved with one guy who can go more than once without a rest.
11/14/2011
Contributor: tlaskowski tlaskowski
my hubby has cum 3 times in a row but that took alot of practice! we had to build up to his body being able to do it for that long! just give him time and a little rest and he should be able to go again shortly!
11/21/2011
Contributor: tlaskowski tlaskowski
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Originally posted by tlaskowski
my hubby has cum 3 times in a row but that took alot of practice! we had to build up to his body being able to do it for that long! just give him time and a little rest and he should be able to go again shortly!
and if u want to keep going grab a toy let him watch while he rest and he will get hard shortly after! hope this helps!
11/21/2011
Contributor: eroticmutt eroticmutt
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Originally posted by Bitxhslapmakeup
My Boyfriend has trouble keepinq his penis hard durinq sex i mean he has no problem gettinq an erection but after the second ejaculation his penis just dies out of nowere... Do You Think It's Me.?? iHope Not, But does anyone have advice 2help ... more
It's normal for a penis to get soft after even one ejaculation, and especially two. Try a cock ring or have him wait longer before cumming. That or you can try having him do oral on you, use his hands, or a toy on you
11/24/2011