Fisting is something that my Master and i both love but that he chooses to do only infrequently. The first time was hard for me as I couldn't take his whole hand - despite plenty of lubrication - and it upset me that I "failed".

The second time though was totally different - it wasn't planned and Master realised just as he was about to push his hand right into me he still had his watch on... - and of course it wasn't a buckle one so he had to back off - but in hindsight it was a good thing as it allowed us to take it to a certain degree and show me it was possible as I was still upset over my "failure" and it made us laugh letting me take some of the pressure off.

The third time was the charm - I was laying on my stomach and we were just messing around and he teased me until I thought I was going to explode and that was when he told me that his entire fist was inside me. We didn't use a lot of lube that time because he wasn't expecting to fist me but I was so wet from his teasing that it just happened.

In my opinion, it is somthing that you need to build up to and not have expectations of "success" or "failure" which is were I definitely went wrong at the start. Like all play it isn't a competition and should be fun no matter what happens.

The only pain I have found from it is when he is pushing his knuckles into me and I found that bearing down on it actually helped. But lubrication is definitely the key.

Have fun!

This is an intriguing conversation to me. I have never been fisted nor have I ever fisted my partner, but it does sound interesting.
After reading the other responses, I have to ask - anal or vaginal or both?
If both, is one more difficult than the other?
His scarlett's statement about "bearing down on it actually helped" made me wonder if this experience was vaginal. It would seem like this would help anally, but maybe it works for both.

I think vaginally is less intimidating but I do enjoy large anal toys so I think that it might be something to work towards. I know I would love to try anal fisting my partner.

Jimbo with us it is vaginal and I know that "bearing down" helps when being fucked anally too - it was something that I found helped as I was pushing against his fist while he was pressing into me

Vaginal fisting is so incredibly hot. I've had it done to be a few times, and I've done it to a woman once or twice. I think it's the hottest sex there is. Sometimes I feel like I'd beg for it or do just about anything.

It doesn't happen everytime there is an attempt- even after having been fisted before. As one gentleman put it... An incredibly turned on woman has an incredibly stretchy pussy. Sometimes either partner doesn't have the patience.

It's not just a pushing motion either. It is more of a twisting motion. If you're meeting resistance you can't just push through it. The body will give in it's own way.

Yes. LUBE. Or one very wet woman...

Yes, motion is very important. Fisting isn't something that you can force or be too aggressive with.

I'd love to hear from anyone who's fisting partners both vaginally and anally. I have not yet gotten to fist someone in the ass, but want to and am curious about the difference in process and feel.

Isn't it beautiful??

hahah! I really want the dual fist. Fist and dildo, really no complaints!

Fisting is so hot for me. Never had anal fisting tried on me. Yes lube and being really turned on is key. Size of partner's hand has to be considered.
Also as above, practice with larger toys, 2".

to me fisting is an amazing feeling. both extreme pleasure and slight pain at the same time. not really into the pain thing but this is a kind of pain that really feels good. the feeling of my pussy being stretched to the limits is orgasmic! we don't do it often but I love it...(vaginally)when he gets up to his knuckles I get so excited because I know the amazing feeling that is coming next... now anally that is something to think about and perhaps try. Anal sex is also something I enjoy so maybe work up to anal fisting also...

what's the risk of permanent stretching here? she and I want to try this, but we're worried it might leave her stretched for good. someone said that fisting doesn't work every time, so this tells me the stretch isn't permanent, but can someone provide some specific experiences and advice?

interesting reading.... hummm

Man i have a fist that is a good 5 inches across. Puch that dude in there and it will hurt someone.

Never thought I'd say this, but fisting a girl actually sounds pretty hot now that I think about it. I'll have to make that happen lol

so many adventurous people on here! Bravo