At first I did not like the idea of deep throating when I had no experience with it at the time. I thought it would make me get sick. But what I finally learned was to relax the throat.

It would be a good idea to relax your throat and make your man feel good. Just try not to think about the pain. While your doing that try to take quick breaths through your nose. If you cannot breath after a few seconds, stop doing it and take a few breaks at a time.

It's actually a pretty fun feeling for both partners. Since deep throating is hard for you at that moment get some practice if you want out of your toy. That's what I did.

Well hope this will help you for your relationships and such