What is the one position you had the hardest time getting used to?

Contributor: Bethy Cassatt Bethy Cassatt
Just wondering: anything that really confused/got you all turned around?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Reverse Cowgirl
30
Anything involving a chair/couch
7
Standing Up
42
69
18
Shower Fun/Bathtub Sex
43
Other
19
Total votes: 159 (116 voters)
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Contributor: jr2012 jr2012
69 is still so hard for me...to this day!! I just can't concentrate on the job at hand while receiving at the same time!
09/22/2012
Contributor: *Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
Quote:
Originally posted by jr2012
69 is still so hard for me...to this day!! I just can't concentrate on the job at hand while receiving at the same time!
This is my problem with 69 I focus too much on what I am getting to worry about what I am suppose to be giving.
09/22/2012
Contributor: js250 js250
I am 5'2"--my hubby is 6'3". YOU try standing up sex with that height difference, pretty damn difficult!!!!!
09/22/2012
Contributor: Moniqua Moniqua
Standing up.
09/22/2012
Contributor: Beck Beck
Being on top. I just can't do it. It hurts me, it's awkward, and it never works out.

Though, standing up isn't something that we can do either. Hubby is 6ft and I am 5ft 3 in, so it doesn't work well. I have to bend over and stand on my tip toes.
09/22/2012
Contributor: Supervixen Supervixen
Woman on top. I used to worry that I'm not thrusting right, or moving the best way I can...it made me really appreciate the thruster's job when I started going at him on top!
09/22/2012
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
Quote:
Originally posted by js250
I am 5'2"--my hubby is 6'3". YOU try standing up sex with that height difference, pretty damn difficult!!!!!
aaahhhhhh, but he can lift you...
09/22/2012
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
missionary for me cuz they couldn't stop laying on me too much - except one - oh my...
09/22/2012
Contributor: VictoriaDaniel1 VictoriaDaniel1
Quote:
Originally posted by Bethy Cassatt
Just wondering: anything that really confused/got you all turned around?
standing up is really hard when I'm 5'4 and he's 6'2
09/22/2012
Contributor: Boyfriend Boyfriend
probably standing or shower sex
09/22/2012
Contributor: solitudinarian solitudinarian
I'm 5'4" and my boyfriend is 6'6". Standing sex and shower sex aren't really possible...
09/22/2012
Contributor: Lildrummrgurl7 Lildrummrgurl7
We've given up trying standing. Like most posters so far, I'm 5'4 and he's 6'. We just learned how to make shower sex work though.
09/22/2012
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
Shower sex.
09/22/2012
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
Quote:
Originally posted by jr2012
69 is still so hard for me...to this day!! I just can't concentrate on the job at hand while receiving at the same time!
Same here. During 69 I just cannot give my partner the proper attention that I want to give. As well I really like more tongue attention given to the underside of my cock by my partner which is impossible in 69.
09/22/2012
Contributor: sexxxkitten sexxxkitten
Standing up is a pain!
09/22/2012
Contributor: Pudyqat Pudyqat
In the small shower and tub we have, that would be the answer!
09/23/2012
Contributor: K101 K101
Quote:
Originally posted by Bethy Cassatt
Just wondering: anything that really confused/got you all turned around?
None of those have gotten me confused or all turned around. I can't think of any sex position that has.

Oh, I see! For some reason, I couldn't figure out why everyone said standing up is hard. I guess I was picturing standing up while one person is holding the other. I guess because we do it standing with him holding me, my legs wrapped around him. So I was really getting scared when people were saying height difference made that impossible. LOL. I didn't think it WAS possible to have sex while both parties stood, without bending at all or holding the other up. So, no, we cannot have sex while simply standing in front of one another. Just like JS250 said, we are about the exact same heights as her and her hubby! So it would never work. As for standing up with him holding me, my legs around his waist -- that works out fine.
09/23/2012
Contributor: AHubbyof2SexualMinds AHubbyof2SexualMinds
Standing up or shower/bathtub sex. Both have been difficult for us.
09/23/2012
Contributor: Bullfroggy and Rose Bullfroggy and Rose
Quote:
Originally posted by jr2012
69 is still so hard for me...to this day!! I just can't concentrate on the job at hand while receiving at the same time!
It is easy to get lost in the moment
09/23/2012
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by Bethy Cassatt
Just wondering: anything that really confused/got you all turned around?
Standing up and shower sex are the most difficult ways.
09/24/2012
Contributor: Kittybit Kittybit
Standing is challenging... I'm 5'2" and he is 6'6"
09/24/2012
Contributor: pirata pirata
reverse cowgirl is horribly awkward. we tried it once and never again
09/24/2012
Contributor: damnbul12 damnbul12
Shower Fun/Bathtub Sex
09/24/2012
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Quote:
Originally posted by Bethy Cassatt
Just wondering: anything that really confused/got you all turned around?
Reverse Cowgirl
09/24/2012
Contributor: Flan-Flan Shazam Flan-Flan Shazam
Quote:
Originally posted by Bethy Cassatt
Just wondering: anything that really confused/got you all turned around?
69 didn't so much confuse me at first as kinda make me feel like I was just shoving my genitals and ass in my partner's face, which was a bit embarrassing, LOL. But we both liked it a lot.
09/24/2012
Contributor: Upyourreviews Upyourreviews
Quote:
Originally posted by Bethy Cassatt
Just wondering: anything that really confused/got you all turned around?
I'm too short for standing up with every guy I've ever been with, lol.
09/29/2012
Contributor: Kappa8564 Kappa8564
Quote:
Originally posted by jr2012
69 is still so hard for me...to this day!! I just can't concentrate on the job at hand while receiving at the same time!
My girlfriend tells me the exact same thing.
10/01/2012
Contributor: Mikemanz Mikemanz
standing
10/01/2012
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
Reverse Cowgirl anal
10/01/2012