Do you ever feel awkward using a toy in the bedroom?

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Do you ever feel awkward using a toy in the bedroom?

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Contributor: xocoraxo xocoraxo
Do you ever feel super awkward whipping out a vibrator during sex or any toy?
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Absolutely not!
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Yes
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Sometimes
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Total votes: 84 (83 voters)
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Contributor: talon4196 talon4196
The toy has to fit our position. If it doesn't, it's awkward.
01/04/2013
Contributor: Lildrummrgurl7 Lildrummrgurl7
There was some awkwardness early on but not anymore.
01/04/2013
Contributor: Geogeo Geogeo
Quote:
Originally posted by xocoraxo
Do you ever feel super awkward whipping out a vibrator during sex or any toy?
i sometimes feel very watched if i take out a vibrator
01/04/2013
Contributor: sexxxkitten sexxxkitten
No awkwardness for us.
01/04/2013
Contributor: Sweet-n-Playful Sweet-n-Playful
Quote:
Originally posted by xocoraxo
Do you ever feel super awkward whipping out a vibrator during sex or any toy?
Not anymore, I did when I was younger
01/04/2013
Contributor: Supervixen Supervixen
Not at all, but then again, I like to be watched.
01/04/2013
Contributor: CollegeFun2014 CollegeFun2014
I feel awkward if it's the first time but after that first time I don't
01/04/2013
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
To be honest, I did feel a bit awkward when I first incorporated toys into our foreplay sessions, but that has long passed.
01/04/2013
Contributor: Loriandhubby Loriandhubby
from time to time i do feel awkward. but i try to forget about it and enjoy the feelings..
01/04/2013
Contributor: Lioncub Lioncub
I did at first, but not so much anymore.
01/04/2013
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Quote:
Originally posted by xocoraxo
Do you ever feel super awkward whipping out a vibrator during sex or any toy?
Absolutely not!
01/04/2013
Contributor: spunkmonkey spunkmonkey
We don't really use toys much, but I have no problem using them.
01/04/2013
Contributor: AmethystSmoke AmethystSmoke
I haven't felt awkward since the early days when we first began using toys but got over it pretty darn quickly since they added so much to our enjoyment. Now we can both ask for the toys we want by name.
01/04/2013
Contributor: Sammi Sammi
When we first started using them, yes. But not anymore.
01/05/2013
Contributor: KinkyNicki92 KinkyNicki92
the very first time but not anymore
01/05/2013
Contributor: The Vixen The Vixen
I was a little shy the first time but that didn't last long.
01/05/2013
Contributor: deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by xocoraxo
Do you ever feel super awkward whipping out a vibrator during sex or any toy?
If my partner was there yeah.
01/05/2013
Contributor: TrenchcoatHunters TrenchcoatHunters
Quote:
Originally posted by xocoraxo
Do you ever feel super awkward whipping out a vibrator during sex or any toy?
Not at all!
01/05/2013
Contributor: solitudinarian solitudinarian
Now that I'm with someone who accepts that I use sex toys, no.
01/05/2013
Contributor: GirlOnGirl GirlOnGirl
No, I wouldn't want to sleep with someone that wouldn't accept toys in the bedroom.
01/05/2013
Contributor: Arlinnae Arlinnae
Nah, my partner thinks the kinkier the better
01/05/2013
Contributor: chicagobearsfan chicagobearsfan
At first suggestion he was against the idea of using vibrators/dildos when we were having sex, but then he realized that he could tie me up and use them on me and I think he has more fun than I do.
01/05/2013
Contributor: Rory Rory
No problem here my husband bought my first toy and he does the ordering when I want new toys!!
01/05/2013
Contributor: Hummingbird Hummingbird
Definitely not, that is where I use it the most! This is a new experience for us since last spring and gradually he has come to enjoy them too. We discussed it and slowly began using the smaller less intimidating toys together like the Lelo Tiani 2, a great couples toy by the way. Now were up to the Sqweel 2, Ohmibod Better than Chocolate, Harmony wireless wonder, Mystic wand and more!

I do still enjoy solo play, but its more fun with my partner involved.
01/05/2013
Contributor: Miss Chemical Miss Chemical
Not really, by now I can kind of gauge what will be easy and fun and what won't.
01/05/2013
Contributor: ginnyluvspotter ginnyluvspotter
sometimes because my s/o isnt into it so much
01/05/2013
Contributor: Talena Talena
If it helps me or my partner get off then I'm for it.
01/05/2013
Contributor: nikki0668 nikki0668
Never feel awkward using a toy in the bedroom.
01/05/2013
Contributor: wrecklesswords wrecklesswords
Quote:
Originally posted by xocoraxo
Do you ever feel super awkward whipping out a vibrator during sex or any toy?
I do not, however, my girlfriend does. She gets really shy about using them at all.

Most of the time, the only time we use them together is when she is drunk or VERY horny.

It's a slow process, but I am more than willing to work with her on it.
01/05/2013