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How Often Do You And Your Partner Have Sex?

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Contributor: AshMegYo AshMegYo
I'm in a Military relationship; my fiance is in the US Army. Before he left for basic we had sex all the time...almost every night. Being he's gone, we don't have any (obviously).
How often do you and your partner have sex?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Not very often (not at all, once or twice a week)
19
Quite often (3-5 times a week)
36
Every Night
12
Numerous times a Day.
6
Total votes: 73 (66 voters)
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Contributor: inmytoybox inmytoybox
I know this must be hard. I had a long distance relationship twice and it was rough. Just think about how awesome and wonderful it will be once hes home!
01/18/2012
Contributor: froggiemoma froggiemoma
Most of the time every day.
01/18/2012
Contributor: shcoo shcoo
5 or 6 times a week.
01/19/2012
Contributor: Howells Howells
Then this topic will hurt you Make sure to pile up some vibrators to make it less hard!
01/19/2012
Contributor: Daemonin Daemonin
We used to have sex every day, but we're currently long-distance while we get finances in order. It's been a few months.
01/19/2012
Contributor: ksparkles16 ksparkles16
few times a week
01/20/2012
Contributor: poetprincess poetprincess
Quote:
Originally posted by AshMegYo
I'm in a Military relationship; my fiance is in the US Army. Before he left for basic we had sex all the time...almost every night. Being he's gone, we don't have any (obviously).
How often do you and your partner have sex?
Lately we have been having relationship issues so we have not had sex in a month, thank goodness I have toys lol..
01/20/2012
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
Usually 3 or 4 times a week. But I would prefer at least 6.
01/20/2012
Contributor: married with children married with children
it was every day for years, but for the past 5 or so we are down to 3-5 a week.
01/21/2012
Contributor: tufails tufails
My boyfriend probably wishes it were more often, but I think the 3-5 range is where we're at.
Best of luck to you two, make sure to keep in touch! I bet the wait will be worth it when he gets back ;D
01/21/2012
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by AshMegYo
I'm in a Military relationship; my fiance is in the US Army. Before he left for basic we had sex all the time...almost every night. Being he's gone, we don't have any (obviously).
How often do you and your partner have sex?
I'd say 3-5 times a week.
01/23/2012
Contributor: js250 js250
Quote:
Originally posted by poetprincess
Lately we have been having relationship issues so we have not had sex in a month, thank goodness I have toys lol..
Sorry to hear this!! If you need someone to 'talk' to, just message me. You do have a friend if you want one!! Good luck!!
01/23/2012
Contributor: js250 js250
A few times a week and if we have a small dry spell for a few days we go on a marathon. Lock the doors, turn off the phone and make a weekend out of it!!

Sorry about the distance between you and your husband, AshMegJo, that has to be very difficult and scary for both of you. Keep your communication lines open, maybe you could have phone sex or Skype to keep the passion in place.
01/23/2012
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
Once, maybe twice a week....which is a miracle, considering we fight like cats and dogs and he works 15 hours a day.
01/23/2012
Contributor: cottonxcandy cottonxcandy
About 5 times a week on average
02/28/2012
Contributor: Fun Lover Fun Lover
First married everyday, kids were born and growing up 3 to 5 days per week, kids gone now most everyday and sometimes multiple times per day I love retirement.
02/29/2012
Contributor: AJvil AJvil
Quote:
Originally posted by AshMegYo
I'm in a Military relationship; my fiance is in the US Army. Before he left for basic we had sex all the time...almost every night. Being he's gone, we don't have any (obviously).
How often do you and your partner have sex?
maybe 3 times a week
02/29/2012
Contributor: Angelica Angelica
Not very often, sadly.
02/29/2012
Contributor: ECU Pirate ECU Pirate
A few times a week.
02/29/2012
Contributor: DiamondKoala DiamondKoala
Couple of times a week just to keep it fun.
02/29/2012
Contributor: hippie hippie
every day, and sometimes multiple times a day, but a long distance relationship slows that down
02/29/2012
Contributor: SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by AshMegYo
I'm in a Military relationship; my fiance is in the US Army. Before he left for basic we had sex all the time...almost every night. Being he's gone, we don't have any (obviously).
How often do you and your partner have sex?
everyday sometimes multiple times a day
02/29/2012
Contributor: BlooJay BlooJay
About 5+ times.
02/29/2012
Contributor: Lady Hazel Lady Hazel
Quote:
Originally posted by AshMegYo
I'm in a Military relationship; my fiance is in the US Army. Before he left for basic we had sex all the time...almost every night. Being he's gone, we don't have any (obviously).
How often do you and your partner have sex?
I have four children and I work alot of swing hours... so we really vary from week to week.
02/29/2012
Contributor: AHubbyof2SexualMinds AHubbyof2SexualMinds
We've been married almost a decade and probably once or twice a week is normal. Sometimes more, sometimes less (during her time of the month, she wants nothing to do with sex), of course I'd like a little more, but not distraught.
02/29/2012
Contributor: SparklyGlitter SparklyGlitter
normally once in the morning or day and then again at night
02/29/2012
Contributor: Princess-Kayla ♥ Princess-Kayla ♥
Usually around once a week. It's been over a week since the last time though. I need it.
03/02/2012
Contributor: sweetpea12 sweetpea12
Quote:
Originally posted by AshMegYo
I'm in a Military relationship; my fiance is in the US Army. Before he left for basic we had sex all the time...almost every night. Being he's gone, we don't have any (obviously).
How often do you and your partner have sex?
As often as possible
04/12/2012
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
It varies but usually 3-5 times a week.
04/12/2012