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How to deal with jealousy issues?

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Contributor: kittyloveswahwah kittyloveswahwah
My partner an I are really open about our sexual desires. He told me he was really attracted to this one guy at work. I'm trying so hard not to be jealous! I don't know what to do?
02/05/2014
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Contributor: wrecklesswords wrecklesswords
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Originally posted by kittyloveswahwah
My partner an I are really open about our sexual desires. He told me he was really attracted to this one guy at work. I'm trying so hard not to be jealous! I don't know what to do?
That's a toughie.

What makes you jealous about that? The fact that someone else could be in his sexual fantasies? Or the fact that it's a man?
02/05/2014
Contributor: charmedtomeetyou charmedtomeetyou
(Review Program Mentor)
If you have no other reason to be concerned and have a stable relationship, just try to look at it as a sign that he trusts you. He was honest and open about an attraction. We all have them. Just being attracted to someone doesn't mean we'll act on it. I know that's easier said than done, but just try to think of a time when you saw someone who you were attracted to physically.....didn't mean you were going to act on it, right?

I think that open communication cures a lot of ills, and it seems like a great sign that he felt comfy enough to share with you.
02/05/2014