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When you reach for a toy, what pronoun are you using in your mind?

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Contributor: Gracie Gracie
Do you think of your toys as he, she or it? Do you have any ideas why you think this way?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
I think of most of my toys as a he.
Makoto , alittlebit , giggles26
3
I think of most of my toys as a she.
ToyTimeTim , ghalik , Bex1331 , Missmarc
4
I think of most of my toys an an it.
Kitka , Ryuson , ToyTimeTim , pasdechat , BG529 , roskat , Makoto , Love Obsessed , gorgeous , Inwitari , - Kira - , All His , ghalik , Talena , pootpootpoot , G&L , mlmac , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , lovekink , Mamastoys , Rossie , solitudinarian , vanilla&chocolate , humpday , ksparkles16 , Envy , B8trDude , Checkmate , hithere;) , potstickers , Deeder , darthkitt3n , sweetpea12 , Ms. N , LavenderSkies , gloomybear , elli , BlooJay , woodsdragon , MaeGal , Taylor , Em2Theilee , Stinkytofu10 , Azule , Girly Juice , DeliciousSurprise , Vadim50 , leanright69 , LoveBug721 , LoneOokami , wicked48 , AliMc , edeneve , Beautiful-Disaster , karenm , CharmCity , surreptitious , ashboo32 , TJax , bog , marmouse , Nezzie13 , Vanille , Wicked Wahine , GirlyGirlRed , General , alliegator , Ayogirl230 , dual-stim-lover , Cora Jane
70
Some are hes and some are shes.
Modern^Spank^Anthem , Badass , PassionateLover2 , Beck , alittlebit , badk1tty , DeliciousSurprise , TJax
8
Some are hes, some are shes and some are its.
PassionateLover2 , Gracie , Mwar , alextge , sophia430 , sunkissedJess , TJtheMadHatter , Kodie , chicmichiw , VeganChick (is Gone)
10
other
Rin (aka Nire) , Annemarie
2
Total votes: 97 (90 voters)
Poll is closed
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Contributor: Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
It really depends on the toy. I've got a few realistic toys that are "hes," but most are "its." I don't usually think of them as "shes."
05/29/2012
Contributor: Annemarie Annemarie
They're all "its".
05/29/2012
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
They're all "its" for me as well.
05/29/2012
Contributor: Ryuson Ryuson
(Review Program Mentor)
I agree, none of my toys have a gender.
05/29/2012
Contributor: Badass Badass
some are he's and some are she's for me..
05/29/2012
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
All my strokers are 'she's', all my other toys are 'it's'. My only realistic dil is still affectionately refereed to as she or Ronda (Randy VixSkin). I do have one 'he' but I do not use him for masturbation, he is just a prop I use for video's and work shops etc..
05/29/2012
Contributor: roskat roskat
No genders, they're all objects.
05/29/2012
Contributor: Love Obsessed Love Obsessed
I just think of them as it.
05/29/2012
Contributor: gorgeous gorgeous
"its"..... that would be weird calling it a gender like its a person.
05/29/2012
Contributor: Inwitari Inwitari
They are all "it" to me. For some reason I don't find myself assigning a gender to things.
05/29/2012
Contributor: PassionateLover2 PassionateLover2
Quote:
Originally posted by Gracie
Do you think of your toys as he, she or it? Do you have any ideas why you think this way?
From my Cock Rings, to (Lady) Fleshlights, to Anal plugs, they all have some gender!
05/29/2012
Contributor: All His All His
We refer to all of ours with 'it'
05/29/2012
Contributor: Beck Beck
Some are he's and some are she's. Like Mimi, Fifi, and Uma are she's. Angelo would be a boy. It just depends.
05/29/2012
Contributor: Talena Talena
I never really thought of it but when I tell hubs to get the toy..I say get it...so I guess it.
05/29/2012
Contributor: G&L G&L
I always say "lets get it" or "Its going to fun"
05/29/2012
Contributor: mlmac mlmac
I guess I consider my toys as an it. I do however call my toys by name, usually with the name it came with or something that is a shortened version of that name.
05/29/2012
Contributor: PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
Mine would be a it. Or I will say let me get so and so. Meaning the name of the toy.
05/29/2012
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
Never really thought about that, they're 'its'.
05/29/2012
Contributor: Bzz Bzz
just it. pronouns would be weird.
05/29/2012
Contributor: Claire-Bear Claire-Bear
No gender for mine.
05/29/2012
Contributor: vanilla&chocolate vanilla&chocolate
I usually say "the" or "my" - they aren't gendered.
05/29/2012
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
I refer to them as "it".
05/30/2012
Contributor: ksparkles16 ksparkles16
I mostly think it....although sometimes when I write reviews I will call a toy he or she just to switch it up
05/30/2012
Contributor: hithere;) hithere;)
Generally 'it' but I must say some of my realistic dildos cant help but be a 'he'
05/30/2012
Contributor: alittlebit alittlebit
I always think of them as hes unless they're particularly adorable or cutesy, then they're kind of obligated to be female.
05/30/2012
Contributor: Deeder Deeder
"It". I can't even assign a gender to my car even though I talk to it all the time.
05/31/2012
Contributor: sweetpea12 sweetpea12
Quote:
Originally posted by Gracie
Do you think of your toys as he, she or it? Do you have any ideas why you think this way?
I think of my toys as an it
05/31/2012
Contributor: gloomybear gloomybear
well i guess my mimi could be considered a she but i usually refer to it as the vibrator which is an it lol
05/31/2012
Contributor: badk1tty badk1tty
Quote:
Originally posted by Gracie
Do you think of your toys as he, she or it? Do you have any ideas why you think this way?
Some are he, some are she, some are it.
05/31/2012