When do you stop using condoms?

Contributor: chicmichiw chicmichiw
If you use condoms with your partner(s), is there ever a point in a relationship where you would stop using them? I think it's a kind of commitment to make that step, especially in trust. And of course, provided there's some other form of contraception if you're not into kids at the moment.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
I am female and...
35
I am male and...
7
I would never stop using condoms.
9
Never used condoms to begin with.
3
1 - 6 months into the relationship.
10
6 - 12 months into the relationship.
4
Between 1 and 2 years.
After 2 years.
After I love you.
After marriage.
6
Other.
18
Total votes: 92 (49 voters)
Poll is closed
03/05/2013
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Contributor: rihanne rihanne
Quote:
Originally posted by chicmichiw
If you use condoms with your partner(s), is there ever a point in a relationship where you would stop using them? I think it's a kind of commitment to make that step, especially in trust. And of course, provided there's some other form of ... more
after a year maybe.
03/05/2013
Contributor: ShadowedSeductress ShadowedSeductress
I am a female and my partner and I stopped using condoms 6-12 months after we first got together.
03/05/2013
Contributor: Feisty Feisty
We prefer to use condoms over any other type of contraception.
03/05/2013
Contributor: spunkmonkey spunkmonkey
After we get married and are ok with having kids.
03/05/2013
Contributor: deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by chicmichiw
If you use condoms with your partner(s), is there ever a point in a relationship where you would stop using them? I think it's a kind of commitment to make that step, especially in trust. And of course, provided there's some other form of ... more
Probably after marriage.
03/05/2013
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
After you've been dating a while and are planning for the long term and would be okay with the possibility of a child happening
03/05/2013
Contributor: LikeSunshineDust LikeSunshineDust
We'll stop using condoms when we want to get pregnant.
03/05/2013
Contributor: VeganChick (is Gone) VeganChick (is Gone)
We used them religiously in the beginning but just kind of stopped after awhile. We had to order them online because we wanted vegan ones and that was just a lot of money. We still have one sitting in the drawer... lol.
03/05/2013
Contributor: Mrs.Tee Mrs.Tee
Quote:
Originally posted by chicmichiw
If you use condoms with your partner(s), is there ever a point in a relationship where you would stop using them? I think it's a kind of commitment to make that step, especially in trust. And of course, provided there's some other form of ... more
after marriage
03/05/2013
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
My husband will stop using condoms when I have no more periods.
03/05/2013
Contributor: Gone (LD29) Gone (LD29)
It's not about a specific time or milestone for me. We stopped using condoms when we knew we were both clean of STDs and I went on the pill, and still didn't use condoms for a while after I went off the pill. We started using condoms again after we had our son and hormonal birth control didn't agree with my system anymore.
03/05/2013
Contributor: epiphanyjayne epiphanyjayne
Both of us were tested and I was on Birth control. we never used condoms, we waited 3 months before we had sex. we said I love you after the first time.
03/06/2013
Contributor: twelve13 twelve13
We stopped after we both got tested, were monogamous, and I was on the pill.
03/06/2013
Contributor: EmuLove EmuLove
I have never used a condom with my hubby (even before we were married) but I havn't with anyone else
03/06/2013
Contributor: HisLittleFiend HisLittleFiend
We started out using them but it didn't take long for us to stop... I don't know the exact time, but they offer NO sensation for him and I hate them, too. I'm on the pill, we always pull out, and we're completely monogamous.
03/06/2013
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
I can't remember exactly, I think it was about 3 months into our relationship but he was always good about pulling out.
03/06/2013
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
We never used condoms. My wife was on the pill and have been monogamous the whole time we've been together. After our second child she had her tubes tied.
03/06/2013
Contributor: Toy Fiend Toy Fiend
I see no reason to use protection when I have an IUD. The only time I would use it is if I was with a partner who had an STI.
03/06/2013
Contributor: ashboo32 ashboo32
1-6 months
03/06/2013
Contributor: KrazyKandy KrazyKandy
When you feel comfortable doing so.
03/06/2013
Contributor: SaucyxGirl SaucyxGirl
Condoms are my only method of BC, so the only time that we didn't use them was when we were trying to get pregnant.
03/06/2013
Contributor: hotinpink hotinpink
Quote:
Originally posted by chicmichiw
If you use condoms with your partner(s), is there ever a point in a relationship where you would stop using them? I think it's a kind of commitment to make that step, especially in trust. And of course, provided there's some other form of ... more
Never used condoms with my current partner. I did with all the rest though.
03/06/2013
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
I don't worry about getting pregnant since I can't but I do want protection from STD's & STI's.
03/06/2013
Contributor: Septimus Septimus
I trust my partner completely, but after 5 years we still use condoms. I'm just really paranoid about getting pregnant.
03/06/2013
Contributor: Kirill1171 Kirill1171
Maybe 6 - 12 months into the relationship.
03/06/2013
Contributor: bog bog
Quote:
Originally posted by chicmichiw
If you use condoms with your partner(s), is there ever a point in a relationship where you would stop using them? I think it's a kind of commitment to make that step, especially in trust. And of course, provided there's some other form of ... more
Condoms forever! They haven't let me down yet, and if it ain't broke, don't fix it!
03/07/2013
Contributor: libbyv libbyv
Quote:
Originally posted by chicmichiw
If you use condoms with your partner(s), is there ever a point in a relationship where you would stop using them? I think it's a kind of commitment to make that step, especially in trust. And of course, provided there's some other form of ... more
we waited till marriage
03/07/2013
Contributor: Bleu Bleu
I don't think I will stop using them unless we go through a method of sterilization. I don't want kids so I'm on the pill AND use a condom. We're super paranoid too. We're not married, I we both have no STDs or STIs to worry about, but we are in a long distance relationship so the worst thing I can go home with is a baby.
03/07/2013
Contributor: tunacan75 tunacan75
I don't really get how or why people don't use them if they don't want kids. It just seems kind of selfish to me that you're willing to risk bringing a new life into this world at the sake of your pleasure.

Granted, I'm a virgin (still do other stuff with my GF since we're obviously on this site), but still, I can't even imagine the idea of "we'll take a pregnancy if it happens" either, since I know I'd definitely need to plan for that. 9 months can fly by pretty quick.
03/07/2013