who is harder to convince to try new things, males or females?

who is harder to convince to try new things, males or females?

Caprieclipse Caprieclipse
So just out of curiosity i am wondering who is harder to convince in relationships to try new things, from new toys, new role plays, positions, situations, locations, etc???
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
males
25  (46%)
females
29  (54%)
Total votes: 54
Poll is closed
12/20/2011
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K101 K101
I didn't vote because I don't think it's determined by gender. It's about the person inside and what they like and also what they've experienced in the past. Sometimes somebody doesn't want to do something due to a bad experience. I do want to say I don't think it's OK to EVER push them or keep on at them about doing something they say they aren't comfortable with. Sure, they might give in, but that's not them wanting to do it. No fun that way.
12/20/2011
Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by Caprieclipse
So just out of curiosity i am wondering who is harder to convince in relationships to try new things, from new toys, new role plays, positions, situations, locations, etc???
honestly, I don't think it's dependent on gender.
12/20/2011
Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
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Originally posted by Missmarc
honestly, I don't think it's dependent on gender.
Same here. It's more likely dependent on upbringing, past experiences, and personality. No vote from me. (Protip: always include some kind of "other" option in your polls.)
12/20/2011
EdenJP EdenJP
Quote:
Originally posted by Caprieclipse
So just out of curiosity i am wondering who is harder to convince in relationships to try new things, from new toys, new role plays, positions, situations, locations, etc???
Females for sure
12/22/2011
Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
I didn't vote because none of this applied to me. It's not determined by gender, but by background, personality, etc. Pretty much echoing Nire.
12/23/2011
RemusHalifax RemusHalifax
I'd say guys, typically, but it all depends on the person. I think by nature, men tend to be more stubborn.
12/23/2011
Moein Moein
I remember after marriage how I spent a long time to let my wife accept oral sex. Where I didn't find it so difficult to give her oral. But finally she accepted it.
12/25/2011
InnocentISwear InnocentISwear
In my experience, it completely and totally depends on the person. Male/female doesn't seem to make much difference.
12/26/2011
Sir Sir
I do not believe that it has anything to do with gender, it's more of the type of person and their background and open-mindedness. I've had difficulty with women and men.
02/13/2012
dhig dhig
depends on the person, definitely
02/13/2012
Kush Kush
Males.
02/13/2012
melianofvalinor9 melianofvalinor9
I think it's males only because they have more of an ego problem.
02/13/2012
dks210 dks210
It really depends on the person. You can't fit an entire sex into a box.
02/13/2012
RonLee RonLee
I don't know what kind of males you ladies have been with, kids who are worried about what you're going to tell your friends about them perhaps?
None of them with a sense of adventure I guess.
02/13/2012
mizzmilla mizzmilla
I think it depends.
02/14/2012
Apirka Apirka
In my experience, it has been the guy that I'm with. I'll eventually win them over, but they aren't 100% gung-ho at the start.
02/21/2012
ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by Caprieclipse
So just out of curiosity i am wondering who is harder to convince in relationships to try new things, from new toys, new role plays, positions, situations, locations, etc???
In my experience, men 1000 times over. Their pride gets in the way of half of everything.
02/21/2012
ECU Pirate ECU Pirate
Depends on the person I guess. I would think most guys would be up for about anything but that might just be me. haha
02/22/2012
duff duff
lol no one winning yet looks lik 50/50
02/22/2012
Secret Pleasure Secret Pleasure
depends on the person.
02/22/2012
bsgs bsgs
it might depend on the person, however, in my experience, its always been the female
02/22/2012
SadoMas SadoMas
depends on the person.
07/02/2012
Jordan B Jordan B
I guess it would depend on the person but I find that males are harder to convince.
07/02/2012
HusbandandWife HusbandandWife
Quote:
Originally posted by Caprieclipse
So just out of curiosity i am wondering who is harder to convince in relationships to try new things, from new toys, new role plays, positions, situations, locations, etc???
I agree that it has more to do with the individual. For us I think she is more reluctant to try new stuff. I reckon I am the freak at my house!
07/02/2012
Velocity Velocity
Personally i know i can be hard to convince to try new things, but it's definitely an individual thing.


always have an other option. ;]
07/13/2012
HotMama2three HotMama2three
Quote:
Originally posted by ViVix
In my experience, men 1000 times over. Their pride gets in the way of half of everything.
Exactly. So annoying.
07/13/2012
remember.me remember.me
Other would be great option. I think it depends on the person, their past, their experiences, their personality, etc. In MY relationships, I'm the one who has trouble trying new things, though.
07/13/2012
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
For me it has always been the females, very few have been open to new experiences.
07/14/2012
amazon amazon
I think it not only depends upon the person, but also very much on what the "thing" is.
07/14/2012
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