Flex - o - pleaser - prostate massager discontinued by Cal Exotics - review by Airen Wolf

I bought this Flex-O prostate pleaser for my husband for his birthday after he admitted that he was interested in and liked anal play. This was a first for us as it's usually me who gets and plays with toys! This product had a good review and for $16 I figured why not? I placed the order feeling all naughty inside as this was the first really spicy gift I had bought him!

It arrived on the day of his birthday much to my surprise and pleasure. He opened the box and we both looked at the size of the toy, it is 14 inches tall and made of hard plastic. It has a nice weight in the hand, not enough to make it's use uncomfortable but enough that when you get that "perfect" placement it stays put. The neck is very flexible and the end piece isn't so large that it makes insertion painful.

The toy takes 2 C batteries and packs quite a punch vibration wise. This toy isn't a battery hog, after around three hours of play the two we used are still going strong with no reduction in intensity. The battery housing is located on the handle and is very easy to decipher and use. Simply slide the housing open, insert batteries and slide closed. There is a slide button on the handle which is easily reached and easy to use during play which graduates to top speed in 5 clicks. The top speed is powerful but surprisingly quiet. It cannot be heard outside my bedroom door laying on top of the bed clothes at full speed and when inserted it has just a low hum.

The product is made of hard plastic and though it cannot be sterilized by boiling or by dishwasher (it's definitely not water proof). It can be washed easily with hot water, soap and antibacterial cleaner. You can also wipe it with isopropyl alcohol though we prefer to simply use a condom to cover it for much easier cleanup. We can both use the toy with complete confidence simply by changing the condom and clean up is just a spritz with antibacterial cleaner after the play is over. It has a seam on the cylindrical end piece that I worried about hiding bacteria so we decided just not to chance it, safe is always better.

This toy works excellently as a prostate stimulator with plenty of vibration speeds and intensities as well as the length to reach the prostate. It also works well as a clitoral stimulator and I found that I liked the higher vibes for that. The head of the toy is large enough to rest like a bullet between my labia and stimulate a large area, it's also good for pinpoint clitoral stimulation. It also makes a wonderful G spot stimulator, though like my husband I found that the higher vibrations were a bit much even covered with a condom. The neck of the toy is very flexible and made stroking the G spot easier and more pleasurable for me than a hard resistant vibe. It also feel lovely on the nipples and even on the back of the neck! It's not as powerful as a body massager but it is still pleasant.

We wandered upstairs excited but a bit shy with each other, a nice feeling we haven't had for many years! He looked at the toy and inserted the batteries after admiring the nifty bag I had crocheted to store it in. I got out the lube and he showed me how much to use for his comfort, apparently he was a bit more educated with anal toys than he lead me to believe! LOL

He slid the end of the toy inside his rectum easily and remarked that although it was hard plastic it wasn't painful. He assisted me in adjusting the perfect depth and then I started the vibration on the lowest setting. He breathed out and adjusted the toy which has a sort of gradual hook to it to pinpoint stimulate the prostate. He asked me to turn it up and I watched his cock twitch to life. I adjusted the toy slowly as he asked and slowly turned up the vibrations.

He didn't like the highest vibration for direct stimulation on his prostate and asked me to turn it down to almost halfway. He said it caused his prostate to spasm painfully and start to go numb with the higher vibrations on the middle vibrations it was just plain heaven. It didn't take very long before he was furiously stroking his cock and asking me to slowly rock the toy left and right. He was actually moaning and thrashing on the bed which was a sight to see as he is usually very reserved and quiet during sex. After he came he collapsed and asked me to remove the toy, which was easy and not painful. Cleanup was a cinch due to the condom and he lay there basking in the post-orgasmic glow talking about how he would describe the toy in my review!

This continues to be a favorite of Sigel and myself. The plastic is easily cleaned and hasn't discolored or cracked. I would still recommend this product to anyone who likes a longer necked vibrator for "G" spot stimulation and Sigel has recommended this product to other guys for prostate stimulation. An added benefit to this is the product is that it is good for guys who are experiencing a swollen or irritated prostate as it can cause a less painful orgasm leading to relief. After a visit to the doctor to determine what is causing the prostatitis and providing the doctor recommends frequent orgasm, this toy can help with minimal pain beyond the discomfort of the irritated prostate.