Fulfill-a-fantasy flogger - whip discontinued by Ruff doggie styles - review by Kayla

The Fulfill-a-Fantasy flogger is a pink and black suede flogger. It's 30 inches total in length with 8 inches of that being on the handle. A 30 inch flogger may be difficult to use in small, enclosed spaces. The handle itself is made out of nice, braided pink and black leather. The flogger also features a nice leather piece for hanging made out of the pink and black material. This flogger is very well-made. It looks like it will be very durable and last for a very long time. While the tails are suede and can seem to be a little "flimsy", unless you take scissors to the tails, they hold up well to play.

The flogger came packaged in some protective plastic and nicely placed in the box. It wasn't squished into a corner, and the tails were happily unharmed when I received it. It includes a tag on the handle of the flogger that states that it is from Ruff Doggie Styles. It also appears that its alternative name is "Suede Flog-Her".

Unlike leather floggers, suede floggers are known for being more thuddy. While leather floggers may sting, most suede floggers actually are very pleasant to be flogged with. Most bottoms will describe the sensation as being like a massage. This flogger holds true to that principle. My boyfriend absolutely loves the sensation of the soft tails being dragged over his body - when it comes to an actual flogging or just teasing by running the tails over him. If you've had a bad experience with floggers in the past, I still recommend trying out a suede flogger - it does feel so much different than a leather flogger.

Suede floggers are primarily used as a warm-up toy. This one is no different. It works great as a warm-up toy because it's so soft and gentle. However, if you put some effort into using this Fulfill-a-Fantasy flogger, it's definitely very possible to make it sting. The best way to avoid sting is to make sure that you're hitting with the blunt of the tips instead of just the tips of the suede. It's near-impossible to leave marks or draw blood with this flogger however.

The handle is pretty good sized. Like I said, it's eight inches, and it's very comfortable for me to wrap my hand around the handle. It has about six inches of "graspable" room and would work well for either male or females. My fingers overlap when I grasp the handle. The handle itself is not weighted which may be a problem if that's something that you consider important in a flogger. However, it doesn't make much of a difference in use if you never have looked into having your floggers weighted - it's only something many serious BDSM practitioners take into account.

From the top's point of view, this flogger is very comfortable to use. It's a little light at a half of a pound, but it's still very easy to control. The tails are about average length for a regular flogger, and it's so soft that many beginners can pick it up without any worry of hurting their partner. However, if you're considering using this on a partner, I do recommend that you try out your swings on a pillow. It's a lot harder to be accurate then it looks, and it's definitely better to be safe than sorry.

When it comes to safety, the main idea is that you need to keep the flogger tails away from anywhere dangerous - this includes the face, extremities, and the lower back and spine. If you're planning on being rough with the flogger, make sure you look up some of the safety issues that come with using a flogger. There are tons of BDSM book that would advice you on this - almost every beginner BDSM book tells you the basics.

Since suede hates water and any other wet material, the flogger tails must be specially cleaned with suede cleaner. I would recommend that you just take precautions and make sure the tails never end up near blood, lubrication, or any bodily fluids. The handle, however, is leather, so if you wanted to clean the handle, go ahead and use warm water and a wash cloth. I'd be careful washing the handle so you don't get water near the tails, though.

Overall, I would recommend this flogger to beginners and advanced players alike. It's not weighted, but it easily makes up for that in price and in durability. It's soft and a great experience for those who are new to floggers and BDSM play. It's easy to control and great for a first flogger.

This is one of my boyfriend's favorite floggers. It provides great sensation without being painful in the slightest. This is also the first real warm-up flogger that we have ever owned, so we're very excited about it.

Still one of my favorite floggers ever. The suede is still gorgeous, soft, and supple. The handle is still holding up really great. The little loop on the top is still firmly in place. None of the tails are fraying or anything. It's still absolutely perfect and still one of the most-used floggers we own.

If they had these in different colors, I'd totally buy another one for flourentine. As it stands, I think I'm going to buy a matching one for it anyway. Gorgeous and still completely recommended. Times ten.