The Outlaw harness has revolutionized my sex life. True, I’m always trying and loving new things, but this thigh harness|The fix thigh harness fills a special niche. Its particular forte is easy and pleasurable side-by-side sex.

Sex with a regular harness is great, but sometimes getting the harness and fitting it feels like a lot of trouble that can interrupt the flow of things. The thigh harness goes on easier and faster than a regular harness, and my favorite part is that you can put on the harness for foreplay and add the dick later without taking the harness off! My lover and I really appreciate that feature. It’s easy to adjust it on yourself with the D-rings, and it stays put through the most vigorous thrusting. Over time, with lots of movement, the straps will loosen a bit, but never enough to affect your thrusting.

Most everybody loves thigh grinding, so although the thigh harness might look funny to some, it makes perfect anatomical sense. Especially stellar positions are side-to-side and girl-on-top. I find regular harnesses are better for missionary position: I get tired faster thrusting just my thigh than my entire pelvic region—probably because missionary with this harness involves balancing on both arms and just one leg as opposed to both arms and both legs. On the other hand, regular harness don't work too well for side-by-side sex.

With this harness, my favorite position is laying side by side with my lover. I grab her ass and bounce her up and down while moving my leg slightly. Because it’s such an easy position to maintain, I can thrust away to her delight. Side-by-side with this harness is really a very low-stress, relaxing, and highly pleasurable position that I imagine would be especially appreciated by anybody who tires easily or whose mobility is impaired. Another great position for this harness involves the wearer sitting on a comfy chair and bouncing their partner on their thigh.

This harness will fit almost any person, regardless of size. My own thighs are a thick 31 inches around the widest part, and this harness fit with a little room to spare on the strap that goes around the widest part. It looks sexy on; the styling, buckles, and dark leathers definitely give it a kinky flair. Like all Outlaw harnesses, it comes with a cute velvet drawstring storage pouch. The ability to put an inexpensive mini vibe in the provided cut-outs is a nice plus, but my lover usually needs something stronger in terms of vibration.