Bound by diamonds thigh Harness - leg harness discontinued by Cal Exotics - review by HerselfTheElf

The Bound by diamonds thigh harness is best used with a partner. Hence the thigh harness part. I just can't seem to figure out a way to strap it onto my own thigh and penetrate myself. Trust me though, I've thought long and hard on that.

This harness and probe can be used by anyone. Novice or pro, male or female.

When I pulled the harness/probe out of the box, I didn't notice any scent. And only a faint scent of new plastic when I placed it under my nose. Not a bothersome scent in any way at all. The probe is made of pliable TPR, in an opaque, kinda clear coloring. And they weren't kidding when they used the word "pliable" on the box. In my opinion, almost too pliable. It bends with very little effort. It is 5 1/2" in length including the base. The 5" of which is for penetration, tapers slightly in girth from 1.5" at the base to 1" at the bulbous tip. The base is a tad more than 2" wide.

The harness is made of a plastic/leather like material dressed up with a few diamond like stones on the sides near the straps. The straps themselves are made of velcro, and only velcro. Without any other material on the backside of the strap, makes them slightly rough against your skin ( I mean the skin of the wearer). They can be adjusted to wrap around 31". It features a 2" O-ring to hold the probe in place, which it does quite well. The O-ring feature allows for the harness to be used with other accessories, opening up a wide range of possibilities. It appears to be made well, the straps are sewn on tightly and the pleather material is flexible and durable. To me, the whole thing looks like a WWE pro wrestling championship belt.

The probe alone is a little smaller than my preference. Probably would be a better fit for a new user. Don't assume anything here. I had a lot of fun with this probe, regardless of its girth. I love the various size adjustments that can be made with the straps. It certainly isn't restricted to thigh use only.

Starting with its intended thigh use, it adjusted to fit his leg perfectly. He's a slim man, so there was lots of extra strap available. It was super easy to slip the probe through the O-ring, and then strap the harness onto him. I had a lot of fun sliding up and down on it, while manually stimulating my man. Because I had a whole bunch of positions I wanted to try out, it was perfect for getting me good and ready, and keeping him reigned in.

Next, I slid the harness down his leg onto his calf, and tightened the straps a bit. By this time we realized that a cloth of some sort was needed between his skin and the straps. All the friction from my moving had caused the straps to scratch at him, leaving a rug burn like marking. But again, what fun I had giving him oral, and being filled at the same time. For these uses, the flexibility of the probe wasn't an issue. But when we tried to use it anally using a water based lube (don't use anything other than water based), it was a struggle. The probe wanted to flex more than it wanted to probe. Although once inside, it was actually a perfect fit. And as long as we kept the thrusting close, it stayed in as well.

The whole thing is waterproof and therefore easy to clean. Any antibacterial hand or dish soap will work. fine.

After playing around with my man and left to my own devices, I couldn't stop thinking of other ways to test out this harness/probe. So, off I went to shower, smuggling the toy inside my robe pocket. I wasn't sure what I was going to do with it yet, but I felt inspired. Once in the shower, I looked around a little perplexed at first, and then AH HA! The safety bar secured to the wall. I strapped it around the bar (several times really) and had myself doggie style. It also can strap around a pillow, for another version of solo play.

I imagine there are so many more possibilities for this harness. I look forward to the next time I'm feeling inspired!