My girlfriend and I got the Beaded Matador|Silicone beaded matador for two reasons, the first and main one being that we wanted a toy that both of us could enjoy at the same time. The second reason was that my girlfriend had recently gotten me in to anal play and we wanted a toy that was long enough to reach me instead of her. After several uses, I am happy to say that for the first reason we are both immensely satisfied but for our second reason, the Beaded Matador (excuse the pun) comes up short. Try as we might the anal beads would just not make it all the way around while I was wearing the ring. The one time that we stretched it enough to get the first one in, it stayed for just a second before coming back out. On the other hand, the beads reach her just fine, and she loves the way they tug every time I move, though they will come out if we roll around too much. Even though I can’t use them on myself while wearing the ring, we have tried them out separately, much to my girlfriend’s enjoyment. The fact that I am willing to try, and even find pleasure in new things like this (which I do immensely) is a huge turn on for the both of us. Because they are floppy it’s a little difficult getting them in at first but their small size makes them perfect for beginners. (Like me)

We were both a little iffy on the horned attachment which holds the vibrating bullet because it seemed like it would get in the way of penetration. And although we were right about the bull keeping me from pushing in as deep as I normally can, she loves the way that its horns and nose wrap around and massage her clit. That, mixed with the vibrations that end up running all the way down my penis, made up for the lack of depth. The bullet is moderately powerful and not too loud, especially during sex. But I recommend, if you have the resources, to replace the bullet that it comes with, with a more powerful model. It makes the toy noisier but the bonus is that the vibrations spread deeper and stimulate her clit even more. She has even said that when we put our own bullet in, it made my cock feel like one of her vibrators.

Cleaning is easy, just remove the bullet and the rest is waterproof. The ring is stretchy to an extent but firm and I have yet to have a problem with breaking and doubt I will anytime soon. As for the size, the ring fits pretty snugly but not so tight that it is uncomfortable. (Though this will differ for every guy, for reference, personally I’m about 4.5” circumference)