My wife Di just recently became the proud owner of a Terra Firma Harness|Terra firma dee harness - Double strap harness and a Nexus Sr. double dildo|Nexus Sr. - Double ended dildos. We were about to embark on a journey we had talked about for years, her strapping on a cock and fucking me the way I've fucked her for years. The first time we tried it, I actually had an orgasm, Di on the other hand had a few problems and no orgasms. The harness kept shifting and her end of the dildo popped out a couple of times. This is when, being first time strap-on user, we admitted we needed help.

Di and I hoped that help would come from a video we just received and finished watching titled " Bend Over Boyfriend|Bend Over Boyfriend, " produced by Fatale Media, featuring Carol Queen and her partner Robert Morgan. The back of the DVD case explains the movie as a step-by-step guide to male anal sex|The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Men. With all the pictures of women wearing strap-ons we hoped it was included in the instruction.

We turned on the video hoping for at least a little info on how to fit a harness properly and using a double dildo|Double ended dildos. When the video started we were really hopeful because it started with three cut scenes of women wearing harnesses fucking guys in the ass. Well that all changed when Carol and Robert came on and started discussing the basics of anal sex. They talked about how to approach your partner with the idea of anal sex and began explaining how the anus works. Needless to say Di was ready to turn it off right there, but I convinced her to give it a chance. This video is meant for people who are just exploring anal sex and it does contain good information for beginners. Carol and Robert do a great job of explaining the ins and outs of anal sex. They cover relaxation techniques, cleanliness, safe sex methods, communication, oral and manual stimulation of the anus, insertion of fingers and dildos, lubrication, and then Carol in a short segment shows the different types harnesses and dildos. Unfortunately for us she gives very little advice on wearing or adjusting a harness and no information on using a double dildo.

Neither Di or I found this video very erotic, so if you're looking to get turned-on -- this might not do it. There are cut scenes showing two other couples watching the video and the women eventually strap-on dildos and fuck their guys while Carol fucks Robert. After about twenty minutes of bad music, the guys finally cum and then Carol does commercials for different sex toy companies. and it's finally over.

Alas ,Bend Over Boyfriend lies at the bottom of our toy and movie cabinet, never to be watched again. As I said in the original review, it is probably great for someone just getting started in strap-on or anal sex. My wife and I bought it hoping to learn new things after practicing anal pleasure on my butt for quite a few years and after recently purchasing a strap-on for her to use on my tight ass. Being experienced in anal play we found it boring and a rehash of everything we already knew. Don't get me wrong, it's full of good info, safe sex, communication, etc., but if you already practice these things this instructional video will just bore you terribly.