I first tried the Waterproof silicone bendi G by myself in the bathtub. I was speaking to my boyfriend on the phone and he was doing a good job of getting me aroused by some good ‘ol phone sex. I got myself aroused and went to try the toy. Unfortunately I had very little success with it, but I tried not to let that get me down. I again tried it a few days later, again with my boyfriend on the phone to help me get in the mood. This time I was not in the bathtub but on my bed lying down, hoping that I would maybe be more relaxed this time. I gave myself a clitoral orgasm by stimulating myself manually, and that went off without a hitch.

I turned the toy on, and inserted it. From the start, it did not feel very comfortable. The material of the toy (silicone) and the very defined ridges of the sex toy did not really agree with my body. I tried lubricating with my saliva but that didn’t seem to help much. I think that if I had had some KY jelly or other lubricant with me it would have been better. After a few minutes the ridges and the material began to irritate my vagina and I had to stop. Also I found that the curved tip at the top of the toy made it a little more difficult to find my G-Spot because the tip is relatively small and more precise in where it provides stimulation. This sex toy would probably be much better for someone who knows exactly where their G-Spot is and has more experience with G-Spot masturbation. The toy bends any which way you want it to, and that again adds to precision. But unfortunately for me, I found that bending it made it more uncomfortable because of the ridges. After this, I still did not give up, however, and the third time I was actually with my boyfriend and we brought out the toy during foreplay. He lubricated it with his saliva, and I was also very turned on and making my own lubrication, and he bent it up, inserted it, and began to thrust. Again I had the same reaction of the toy just not feeling right in my body. We tried a few alterations of angle, speed, etc. but no luck.

 Despite my lack of success with this sex toy, I do not want to discard it as a “bad” toy. I think that just my personal body and what is pleasurable to me is just different than the stimulation that this toy provides. On a positive note, the curved tip of the toy provides great clitoral stimulation! The toy’s vibrations are also very quiet, but the toy does squeak VERY loudly when you bend it. I think this toy is best suited for women who are more experienced with their G-Spots, and enjoy a toy with ridges.