Silicone butterfly kiss - g-spot rabbit vibrator by Cal Exotics - review by shelberlynn

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Butterfly kiss bliss!

If you're looking for a toy that has power and don't mind some noise then this toy might be for you! Silicone makes this a great toy because it's one of the safest materials on Eden. It's a very pretty toy and works well too.
Silicone, high powered, dual motors, and double stimulation
Loud when on high, not very discreet, dragging silicone
Rating by reviewer:
extremely useful review


The butterfly kiss is a dual vibrator for both clitoral and g-spot stimulation. The shaft isn't too big or too small, so it's great for most beginners and advanced users. You can use this vibe anywhere, although I wouldn't suggest anal you could use it for such. The butterfly sitting at the center of the shaft, meant for clitoral stimulation, could keep this toy from getting lost during anal penetration. The vibrations are deep and rumbly. It's nice and smooth except for the butterfly which has some texture. This toy could work well for both users who like texture and those who don't like much of it.
  • Who / How / What
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    Who might this product be best for? How is it best used? What are the best circumstances or situations for using this product?
    • Couples
    • Everyone
    • Solo
  • Where
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    Where / what types of places can this product be used?
    • Anywhere
    • Tub/shower/pool
  • Body / part areas
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    What areas on the body can this product be used / what areas does it stimulate best?
    • All over body
    • Anal
    • G-spot

Material / Texture

Butterfly kiss is made mostly of silicone, but has plastic on the very end where the push button and battery compartment are. The silicone on this toy isn't buttery smooth and I wish it had been. It has some drag to it, so a water based lube is almost a must for comfort and pleasure. It's also the kind of silicone that collects lint and hair, so keep this one either in a storage pouch (not included) or in your toy box away from other toys which may have similar material that could ruin this toy. There is no smell or taste to this toy either. All users will appreciate the silicone of this toy unless they don't like drag to a material. The easiest way to bypass the drag on the material is to use a water based lube.
    • Bumpy
    • Flexible
    • No odor

Design / Shape / Size

I noticed that on the description of the product it has the width and insertable dimensions swapped. The total length is 12 and 1/4" and the insertable length is 6 1/2". The circumference is 2 1/2". This toy is small enough that beginners won't feel intimidated and advanced users can feel confident that it will hit their g-spot and clitoris. I found that the design of the toy was very pleasing. I enjoy the fact that the butterfly is slightly textured on what I assume to be it's belly. The butterfly's wings hit my inner labia and the antennae and belly rubbed in the perfect position for clitoral stimulation. The head on the toy is wider than the shaft making sure that it can stimulate your g-spot even though the toy isn't curved. The toy is also flexible above the butterfly so that it is easy to hit your g-spot and rub your clit without hardly any troubles. The butterfly sits at half shaft on this toy, and from the shaft to the tip of the antenna, the butterfly is roughly an inch and a half.
    • Beginner
    • Realistic

Functions / Performance / Controls

Dual motors make sure that the vibrations are strong throughout the entire toy. The motors seem to be located about where the butterfly is and then the other seems to be near the top of the toy itself. The vibrations are stronger at the head of the toy, making sure to send amazing vibrations right to your g-spot. The antenna of the butterfly is where these vibrations are the weakest, but they are strong on the butterfly's belly and wings. This toy is waterproof and I was worried about submerging it completely under water but after doing so the toy was fine. The vibrations are stronger in the water and the noise is muffled more so than when the toy is used in bed under a few layers of blankets.

This toy is not nearly as quiet as I would like. I'm not sure if it is heard easily behind a closed door but even under blankets, this toy is loud. On the lowest vibrations it isn't hardly heard and on medium it is slightly louder. On the highest vibrations it is pretty loud. This toy isn't very discreet in looks or sound level. A bonus to this toy is that with hour long use each day all week the battery life is still strong. The control is a push button located at the bottom of the battery compartment. Three levels of rumbly vibrations are easily accessed by pushing the button. This toy does not remember the previous setting so you will need to cycle through. Turning the toy off is as simple as pushing the button once more after the highest setting. I prefer only having one button to do everything. The button is not too sensitive so no worries about it changing vibrations after you have found the one you prefer. The button is not easily pushed but it is still easy to push when you want to push it.
    • Easy to use
    • Long lasting power
    • Strong patterns

Care and Maintenance

This toy is made of silicone and silicone lubes will damage it. Using water based lubes is best. Because of the motors you can not boil it. If you're planning to share you should use a condom just to be safe. You can clean it with soap and water or an antibacterial toy cleaner. The silicone of this toy does collect lint so you may wish to keep it in a storage pouch. Keep in mind that there isn't one included. Also, keep it away from other toys because that may ruin it. This silicone has a lot of drag, and using some lube can really help make using this toy a pleasurable experience.
out of package
    • Easy to clean
    • Easy to store


The packaging for this product is not discreet at all. It has a picture of the toy and a few facts on the back. The toy is inside a plastic bag with battery instructions inside as well. This toy is not extremely big and a storage bag or toy box should be sufficient to store it. It takes two AAA batteries but they are not included in the packaging. Plan to buy some AAA batteries or use some from your battery stash.
battery instructions
    • Not discreet
    • Recyclable

Personal comments

I personally loved this toy. It may not be a super high class fancy toy, but it feels nice and does its job pretty quickly. Plus the little butterfly is just so darn cute! It's not a luxury toy, so those who are looking for such won't find it with this one. I personally don't mind that. California Exotics toys are usually decent and reasonably priced from my experiences. If you're like me and just want an easy to use toy that does a decent job then this is a great toy for you.


I had a good experience with this toy but I did find that it was kind of loud on high. Also I tried it without lube and found it extremely unpleasing. As soon as I used some lube though it was fine and felt great. This is a toy I would reach for just because I know it will be reliable!
Follow-up commentary
I still love this toy, actually I now like it even better! I liked it a lot to start with, but the more I use it, the better it feels. The wings don't always seem to hit the right spot, but the g-spot portion hits exactly where I need it to, and after using it this long I've gotten the hang of hitting the right spot almost every time! The batteries also seem to last a long time, which is really nice.
This product was provided free of charge to the reviewer. This review is in compliance with the FTC guidelines.
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  • XxFallenAngelxX
    Thank you for the review!
  • bayosgirl
  • sunkissedJess
    Great review! Thanks for sharing
  • shelberlynn
    You all are very welcome thanks for reading and rating my review!
  • bog
    Great job! Thank you so much!
  • K101
    Really great review on this! I have two versions of this darn toy, but not the updated silicone one. It doesn't sound like Cal Ex bothered to update or should I say upgrade the vibrations in these toys, only the material. That's too bad, but the one I have (it's the same only a different material and has a bunny as the clitoral stimulator. I had the first version of this butterfly one though) is pretty fun to use, but doesn't give me as nice results as my more expensive dual-actions, so I tend to leave it in the toy-box. Thanks for sharing on this. I enjoyed reading it!
  • shelberlynn
    I agree. Its a decent toy for the price.... its just not an expensive one. I had a good experience with it. And if you use it with a partner its a great teaser!
  • Allison.Wilder
    I'm not a huge fan of these types of toys, but you almost sold me on this one. It's loud though, so I'll pass. Thanks for the great review!
  • shelberlynn
    If it wasnt loud it'd be great!
  • married with children
    good review, thanks for sharing.
  • Beautiful-Disaster
    Thank you for your review!
  • bratcat
    greate review! this is one of those toys i know everyone has and loves and have wanted to get myself but was always put off by the materials so i love that they finally made a silicone version. i just wish the colors we're as pretty/purlescence as its predecessor.
  • shelberlynn
    Yeah I agree. Prettier colors would be nice!
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