My bff - vibrator by Doc Johnson - review by Alan & Michele

My bff

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My BFF is Wide and Rumbly

My BFF is a multi-speed G-spot vibrator with deep thuddy vibrations that go from a gentle massage to a wild rumble. It's quiet, waterproof, and made of a velvety-textured plastic that is easy to take care of. My BFF is a thick toy though, so be sure the size is something you can handle.
Nice rumbly vibrations. Quiet. Waterproof.
May be too girthy for some users.
Rating by reviewer:
extremely useful review


Doc Johnson's MY BFF vibrator has an angled head designed to hit the G-spot and a thick contoured shape to please girls who like a little more girth to their toys. It's also great for clitoral stimulation, and has a waterproof seal so you can enjoy it in the bath or shower.

Material / Texture

This vibrator is made of hard ABS plastic with a polyurethane coating that gives it a very nice velvety soft surface. It's considered hypo-allergenic, and does not contain any latex or phthalates. It has a faint powdery scent that's actually pleasant, but you can only smell if it's directly under your nose.

Along both sides of the My BFF there are three raised areas that are about the size of a pinky finger pad, meant to give a little extra sensation when the toy is inserted.

Design / Shape / Size

My BFF is a big toy. Not in length (which is only 6" overall) but in girth. The center bulge is 1-3/4" wide, and from the side the angled head is a little over 2" wide. This means that if you cannot comfortably insert at least three fingers in your vagina, the BFF could be a real challenge for you. Once inserted, this vibrator will undoubtedly provide a real sense of fullness while the tip presses against the G-spot.
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Only 4" or so of this toy is insertable, because the darker colored base is what you unscrew to insert the batteries, and the bottom half of that is a twist-dial controller.

Even though it's not a "pocket toy", you could easily slip this in your travel bag or suitcase and not have it take up too much room.

Functions / Performance / Controls

The My Bff needs 2 AA batteries to run and, as mentioned before, you twist the dial base to turn the toy on and gradually increase the level of vibrations. The dial is firm so it's not real easy to accidentally turn it when you're using the toy, and there are indentions to help you grip it better.

If you like deeper vibrations that rumble more than buzz, then you'll be impressed with this toy. My BFF rumbles in a very satisfying way, and never makes more than a low-pitched hum when doing so. The lowest level of vibrations is very gentle and feels like a tapping massage. The highest level is powerful enough to be felt easily through denim jeans, and would be strong enough to please most users.

The vibrations seem a little stronger in the head of the toy, but can be felt pretty strongly in the middle bulge and the base as well.

Care and Maintenance

Since this toy is waterproof, it's simple to take care of; just wash it with anti-bacterial soap and water before and after each use, or use your favorite toy cleaner. You can also wipe it down with isopropyl alcohol if you feel the need, but avoid bleach and other harsh cleansers.

The My BFF is also compatible with both water-based and silicone-based lubricants.


The packaging consists of a thin clear plastic box with pink accents and some product info on it. The vibrator rests in a contoured plastic tray inside, and is visible through the front of the box. It's sturdy enough for gift-giving and even temporary storage, but in time you may want to get something more durable.

There's a paper folded inside which shows how to insert the batteries for several Doc Johnson toys and has some basic usage information too.


Michele says:

Ok, now I'm embarrassed; I absolutely could NOT get this vibrator inserted comfortably no matter how much lube or angle changing we did. I have silicone toys of similar size that we've been able to use, but the rigid plastic and over-sized head makes all the difference in the world. It just didn't work with my body shape.

On the other hand, this turned out to be a *very* nice clitoral toy for me. The head rests right over my pelvic bone to nestle down just between my labia, and those deep rumbly vibrations are just the way I like them. I wouldn't mind having just a little more power right at the end, but My BFF gets me off anyway. Considering the fact that it's waterproof, this has become my second "go to" clit vibe (the Lelo Siri is my first, but I can't take him in the bath!)

Alan says:

This toy surprised me when we first turned it on, because I was expecting it to be "buzzy," as my wife says. I don't think we've ever had a plastic toy with vibrations quite like this one.
My ass breathed a sigh of relief when I realized this wasn't a toy that was safe for anal though. No way my orifice could handle it. But I'm glad we got it, because it's great for Michele. Oh yeah, and for my back too. Like she said, the low setting is like a tapping massage, so the width of the toy is a real plus for sciatica sufferers!
Follow-up commentary
We've had this toy for quite a while now and nothing has really changed. It still looks and performs like new even though it has seen a lot of clit play, achy backs, and bath water.
But now it's confession time. Everyone knows that you're supposed to remove the batteries from toys when they aren't in use, but we rarely do. The BFF is not tolerant of lazy sex toy owners like us though. It *will* drain its batteries if you leave them in for more than a week or so.
This product was provided free of charge to the reviewer. This review is in compliance with the FTC guidelines.
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  • bzzingbee
    Wow, this is so much bigger than it looks in the EF pics! It almst covers your entire hand!!! Thanks for the review, now I know it's too much for me!
  • ~LaUr3n~
    I did not have a good experience with mine. It was way too big for me, I could get it in but painfully. Same with coming out. I also had a huge problem turning the dial. I am glad you guys liked this more.
  • new southern girl
    I can"t believe how much bigger it is in real life compared to the picture on here!
  • Alicia
    Holy cow! That is much larger than I thought it would be! When I first started reading I was like "oooh I want this!" and then I got down to the picture and I decided that I probably DON'T want this...yowza!
  • Alan & Michele
    We were pretty shocked with the size too, so we figured the picture would be a good warning. Size queens will seriously love it!

    Lauren--- That's a shame about the dial. Ours was firm, but not hard to turn. Sorry yours didn't work out
  • Viktor Vysheslav Malkin
    Wow... that thing is big...

    Awesome review!
  • Tuesday
    It sounds like it has the same deep, wide vibrations as the Dreamer's Bliss, which I absolutely love and looks similar. It even has the same base and bumps along the side. But Dreamer's Bliss isn't obnoxiously big.

    Nice review. The pic is really helpful.
  • Selective Sensualist
    This thing really IS big! I agree -- the pic is very helpful to get a better grasp of the size.
    I'm glad that you both found something to enjoy out of this.
    Great review!
  • Rockin'
    Oh my goodness, this toy is huge! You're a brave soul for trying to insert it. When I first read "G-spot vibrator" I was like, oh man, that's scary! If it were smaller, sure, but sheesh. It looks AWESOME for clit-mooshing, though. And maybe the larger size would be easier to hold for a while. At that price, I think I'll have to try it out. I Looooooove rumbly vibrations, thanks so much for describing them! Great review!
  • B8trDude
    Can't believe how HUGE this toy is - ouch!
  • Sammi
    This is interesting - and surprisingly big!

    Great review!
  • GlacVic
    thanks for the review
  • lzee
    Good review!
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  • xjonxthexgreenx
    thanks for the review
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