This arrived in the mail in a discreet brown box. Inside, it was in a small box with some instructions on the back. This came with the remote and USB charging cord also. So I pulled Hot Affair out, and my first thought was the soft, smooth feel to it. I also loved the smaller slim size. The head of this is also super flexible, which is great. I loved all the little nubs on both ends of this too. The bigger, bottom part also had grooved swirls around it, which I assume will add to the pleasure. The remote is small and basic. It felt really nice in my hands and felt smooth. I did try to slide the back off and had issues, so I know I'll end up needing my husband for that. All in all, I couldn't wait to get this charged up and give it a try.

Packaging

After looking this over, I put Hot affair on the charger. The power button started flashing once I plugged it in. Once it was fully charged it stayed lit up. It took about 25 minutes to charge for the first time. After it was finished charging I went to go through all the functions. I held the power button down for 3 seconds and the light came on, then I pressed it again for it to vibrate. I began cycling through the functions, I grabbed the remote, and just clicked it and it worked right away. I was slightly confused on how it worked and then decided to read the directions on the back of the box. So, there are two separate motors in Hot affair, one for the upper and one for the lower. A quick press on the top button turns it on, then underneath is an up and down arrow button, if you click and hold the top part, it'll turn off the top motor, and if you hold the bottom part in, it'll turn off the bottom motor. So you can control the two motors separately with turning them on and off and choose which vibration pattern you want separately. You can't do this with just the toy, so you'd need the remote for it. Also, you can turn the motors off with the remote, but the light will still be on, so you'll have to hold the power button on the toy in order to turn it off. There are 10 different functions, vibrating, escalating, and pulsating. You can use the remote up to 30 feet away also.

Remote buttons


Back of remote


USB port



Once I had that all figured out, I washed Hot affair with soap and water. I had a pair of boycut panties on and slid this in there. I was slightly confused as to which way it went, but I had the larger end covering my vagina and the smaller part up on my clit. The little nubs and texture of this panty vibrator felt amazing. I could slightly hear the vibrations but only if I was in complete silence. So I put a pair of my jean shorts on and began to walk around the house and messing with the settings, some settings were extremely quiet and others you could just barely hear. It wasn't even as loud as a cellphone vibration, so I was good with how quiet it was. As I was walking around, I could feel all the nubs rubbing on my clit and it felt amazing over my vagina also. I didn't realize all the pleasure I'd receive just from walking with this. This panty vibrator is defintely a great teaser and could get you off if you wanted. My first use was just trying to figure it out and walking around and trying different shorts and outfits on to see if I could hear it. I love how quiet this is, and if you'd be nervous you could always turn one motor off, which makes it even more quiet. I don't think you would hear this at a restaurant, and there would be no way anyone would hear it at a bar, or movie theater.

After my first use I did grab a different toy to finish the job. This toy definitely had me very turned on. I did try this alone my first time and if my husband would have been around for it, he would have loved it. I couldn't wait to try it with him.


Power button


Textured


Flexibility

So further use with this has been both, solo, and with my husband. I really love using this while just doing things around the house or watching TV. I find it extremely exciting, and it just feels so good. I have not had an orgasm just using this, but it definitely gets me all worked up. I could have an orgasm if I tried, but I really just enjoy this as a starter/teaser toy. I've cleaned the house and done outside work with this in my panties.

Now with my husband, this has been very fun! We have used it around the house together. I'll hand him the remote, and he already knows what's going on. I've also put this in my panties before heading out to Walmart, it was the first time using this in public, and I was kind of nervous, but it also got me pretty excited. We were on our way there, and I handed him the remote before we got out of the car. He didn't even know I had it in my panties beforehand. I had only one motor on (the one for the clit) because I was slightly nervous. I told him I only had that one on. He had put the remote in his pocket and would randomly reach his hand in his pocket and click it as we were doing our shopping. It just gave us both that extra naughty feeling, and once we got home, we were both worked up, and it turned into great sex. Other than that trip, I have not used it out, but I'm excited about trying it again, or even during long drives, I think it would be fun.

Hot Affair seems to stay in place for me very well, and I've tried it in a few different styles of panties. This is waterproof, which is excellent for cleaning purposes. If you have issues trying to clean between the nubs and grooves, you can take a soft bristle toothbrush to it and gently scrub. You can also use a toy cleaner to clean this if you'd like. It's also silicone, so it's hypo-allergenic and non-porous, so it doesn't harbor any bacteria. It's latex and phthalates-free. This being silicone, if you use any lubricant, only use water-based lube. For storing, I've kept it in the box it came in. Total length is 4 inches, and diameter for the smaller end is 1 inch, and the larger side is 2 inches. The remote takes a cr2032 battery, or so we think. We finally figured out how to open up the remote, and there are a lot of components inside, and we haven't fully figured it out yet. I guess once the remote stops working, then we will worry about it.

Size

The two motors are very close in intensity. I would say the smaller narrow part does carry more vibration, surprisingly it's also quieter than the wider part. There are quite a few vibration patterns and different intensities. I would say it's beginner-friendly and also great for advanced users.

I haven't actually had an orgasm from this toy alone, but the excitement that this has brought me has caused some very strong orgasms. This panty vibrator is an excellent toy to help you achieve some mind-blowing orgasms.