We compromise. A lot of porn, even "straight" porn, seems to have two woman going at it. I simply don't enjoy watching that activity. I know my hubby finds it "okay" but not essential, so when these scenes come on, I might simply take that opportunity to go down on him with my mouth and not bother with watching the TV. As long as he is enjoying what he is seeing (and feeling), it's fine by me. I love watching long, drawn out kissing and licking scenes between lovers onscreen, something not found in too many hetero porn movies, sadly. Hubby enjoys it, but it isn't his big turn on (even if he will love kissing on me for hours...go figure). Anyway, during these scenes, I often find him down in my lap, making sure my girlie parts are as happy as my eyeballs! It's all good. Sometimes he enjoys watching orgy movies, which totally do nothing for me. I will take that opportunity to let him enjoy it while on top in a 69, and he can suck on me as he watches (I keep my pelvis high on a Liberator Wedge) and meanwhile, I give him the multiple event feeling with a finger or tongue in his rear, and while pumping his cock with my hand or between my breasts, sucking his cock and balls....etc. Again, so long as one of us is enjoying themselves, it is always good for us both. We are a love team!