Just curious to know how Edenites feel about being called a slut in the bedroom! After a discussion with a friend, I have really been intrigued by this! Private voting.
Slut: Whats your perception?
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Lol. Good discussion topic. I'm interested to hear what everyone thinks on this one too!
Originally posted by
LavenderSkies
Just curious to know how Edenites feel about being called a slut in the bedroom! After a discussion with a friend, I have really been intrigued by this! Private voting.
I personally don't even mind the word. I haven't been called "slut" in a very serious way though since my teen years I don't think. Lol. However, it never has bothered me. My lovie sometimes laughs and jokingly says "your my little slut." And I just laugh. It's never been a word that offends me. It's just a thing people say. I don't think I'd even get angry if someone said "you are the biggest slut I know." I guess that could be because I have no reason to feel offended. I don't sleep around or have a lot of sex-partners (only one) so I suppose that is one reason why it means nothing to me. I usually laugh.
I personally don't like using the word in reference to another female. I don't do that often and if I ever did, it'd have to be serious. I'd have to have a real reason to say it and I cannot think of a time where I would have any reason to.
I wouldn't say it turns me on exactly, but I certainly don't mind it. I guess it's the equivelant of him calling me "his little" anything else. Lol. He would never say it in a degrading, serious manner though. If he did, I'd feel weird having him talk hatefully to me because it's not something we do.
08/16/2012
I get called a slut all the time and have for a really long time. Even before I could possibly be a slut. I don't mind it. Words are only powerful if you let them be. I don't see slut as a degrading word. Slut is a word that is often used for a women who know their sexuality and embrace it. That is sexy to me!
08/16/2012
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Same for me - as a word, I'm fairly indifferent to it. Certain people using it in certain ways makes me think they're assholes. On the other hand, Sir LOVES this term, so from Him I like it since it's meant affectionately and makes Him happy.
Originally posted by
novanilla
Totally depends on the person and context.
08/16/2012
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I love hearing this in the bedroom and when my guy is flirting with me. I find it to be a turn on and it has taken the teeth out of being called a slut in a negative way for me. "slut," "bitch," "whore"...none of it phases me anymore, and there's something very empowering about not letting a derogatory word, that is usually intended to degrade and hurt someone, get to you. I'm with a man who knows how I want to be treated inside and outside of the bedroom, and I find our private bedroom banter a lot of fun, even loving.
Originally posted by
LavenderSkies
Just curious to know how Edenites feel about being called a slut in the bedroom! After a discussion with a friend, I have really been intrigued by this! Private voting.
Plus, it makes me feel like a sexy bitch.
I love Cracked.com, and this article has always made me think, "hmm...well, that's food for thought." Slutiness, whorishness...it's all a matter of perspective...and cultural perception. link
08/20/2012
When I first started playing, I was completly offended by this term and would never let anyone call me it. Then my ex used it one days saying "my slut" and something about that my before totally changed the definition for me. I really he wasn't saying I was a slut as a trait, rather for him, because of my trust in him, I could be his slut. Now when I hear "my slut" it is much more exciting, and it has even allowed me to not cringe at the word slut in general. As others here have said, I think it is about the context of the situation. Would never be ok with a stranger shouting it at me, but in play it can be fun
08/26/2012
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"My slut" is the best, huh? I love the way he says it, too.
Originally posted by
submissive.sweetheart
When I first started playing, I was completly offended by this term and would never let anyone call me it. Then my ex used it one days saying "my slut" and something about that my before totally changed the definition for me. I really he
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When I first started playing, I was completly offended by this term and would never let anyone call me it. Then my ex used it one days saying "my slut" and something about that my before totally changed the definition for me. I really he wasn't saying I was a slut as a trait, rather for him, because of my trust in him, I could be his slut. Now when I hear "my slut" it is much more exciting, and it has even allowed me to not cringe at the word slut in general. As others here have said, I think it is about the context of the situation. Would never be ok with a stranger shouting it at me, but in play it can be fun
08/26/2012
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Totally fine. Actually prefer if I'm having a romp with a random or a good three way that I be called a naughty dirty girl, slutty bitch and cum guzzling fuck doll. All of which are arousing if I am being just that. Yes. I am a slut. So what. I get laid a lot and like it. And cocks are like skittles. They come in a bunch of cool colors and flavors and you can't stop at just one sometimes... Or 30 plus ish
Originally posted by
LavenderSkies
Just curious to know how Edenites feel about being called a slut in the bedroom! After a discussion with a friend, I have really been intrigued by this! Private voting.
08/28/2012
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