I have to say yes to all. I had a father who if you didn't do or act as he said you where beat, we learned frear and love at the hand of a leather belt, "Yes,Sir" "NO,Sir" where the first things we learned. I watched the older kids in my family get beat and learned to be see and not heard, to get what he wanted done before he asked.
I was raped for 3months by my church youth teacher, some would say he was my first Dom, I did as he said even if I didn't want to because what he would do was worse that my father.
I do have to say that this lifestyle gives me more freedom that the past abuser did I can say Red for stop and they will.